Fire the Client, Not Your Sanity: How to Say Goodbye Without the Drama

Yesterday we talked about no. And when talking about no, one of the things I mentioned was firing clients. So today we're going to talk about firing clients without burning any bridges or your sanity. Because look, some clients aren't gold. Sometimes they're just straight up anchors, dragging your entire vibe down, dragging your business down, keeping everybody over, busy. You take somebody on, that's 10 times the actual work than what was scoped out. And now you're behind the eight ball. Or you took on a client that's way more aggressive and driving everybody on your team forward against your wishes and against your original plan of what you're doing with them, and now they've taken over your business and you're just standing there going, what the hell is going on? Well, these anchors, the endless scope creeps up. Late payments maybe treating you like you're on call for them, like you're some employee to them. And now you're an on call employee 24 hours, hours a day like it's a tow truck. We all hung onto those types of clients at points years ago, thinking cash is cash, right? Well, that stuff is hell. Wrong, man. I mean that's, it's really wrong because you're ruining yourself just to help somebody that doesn't even appreciate or respect you. Toxic cash flow for your business is going to cost you way more in stress, in lost opportunities. Think about the person that's killing your time. And now you can't take on that good client because you still got those bad ones lingering around dragging you down every single day. So the move is real simple. Fire them. You heard me right. I know it sounds nuts. Fire them. Fire them clean and move on freer for yourself. You just have to fire your client. I'm not saying fire every client. Probably have some really awesome ones, we all do, but we all have that one where like, oh, we gotta fire this client. This is getting too much. And when for me to say something's getting too much and I really never do. I can only think of a couple cases in the last few years where I've really had to fire any clients. It's always a little awkward, you know, it is what it is, but it's always for the best. And in the end, you're usually helping that person as well in their business because they get unstuck from what they were stuck in in the first place and then you get freed from that madness. So a script I love to use, if I have to do it either, like if I have to text it to somebody, if I need to just send a quick message or even if I need to talk to them really quick, jump on a zoom or jump on a phone call, say something along the lines of like, hey, I love the run we had together, but I'm tightening up my focus and I'm not gonna be able to continue past a certain date and give them a date. I wouldn't be able to. You know, I won't be able to continue past. I usually give it enough time that I could at least finish any open tasks, complete any open projects, but at that point, nothing new would ever be installed, you know, obviously. So say it along the lines of, you know, love the run together, but I'm tightening up my focus and I won't be able to continue past the New Year's, but I'm more than happy to smooth the handoff. So when you say you want to smooth the handoff, you're telling them that they have time to go grab somebody to either replace you, somebody in their team to take the workload from you, at the very minimum, from the project management standpoint, then they can move forward, or you're just going to hand it off entirely to whomever else they ask you to, and you'll send them all the files. And remember, you never hold files back hostage either. Pardon? Firing clients is also doing it respectfully. No drama, no back and forth, just forward momentum. I'm a believer of every asset I create or have created for any client in my lifetime is theirs, because they were the ones that hired me to either strategize it with them, develop it for them, or design it, you know, in their name and in the body and spirit of their business. I have no need for your accounting company's logo. I have zero desire for, you know, your cybersecurity's transcript. I have absolutely no need for your value builder content. It doesn't matter. I'll make my own content. Obviously, we know I would never pretend to be somebody else. And it's an old joke I had with a client years ago. He had a website with way too much IP on it. And I was like, hey, man, I can literally be you. And he made the greatest point ever. This is a person I absolutely adore. He said, yeah, but nobody will be able to deliver it the way I do. So they could have the keys, but they won't know how to get the car in gear. And I paused and I was like, hell yeah, man. Hell yeah, man. And then, you know, look, we still took all that IP off the website. That was clearly not needed. But he made a great point. And he wasn't even afraid. He just dumped it all out there and was just like, yeah, have at it. He believed it, got rid of the people that were the types that would be the ones he'd want to fire anyway. So it worked out good. So look, let's do a riff of the day because we're going to keep this one short. Bad clients block better ones. Clear the pit for the real fans, right? Nobody wants somebody in the middle of the mosh pit in a Taylor Swift T shirt at an Exodus concert. We all know that they could still be there. Nobody's going to hurt them. They have every right to mosh around and do their thing. But we want to clear the pit for the metal. So you got to clear the pit for your business. You got to get rid of those bad clients. You got to tell them no. And you got to fire the ones that don't take no for an answer. So today you've got a client that's dragging you down. Draft one email today, let it happen. You've got till the new year. They got two weeks to start planning something and you could tell them that you'll support them until the new year and then anything else by email. So that way they've got time to things moving. Hit send before the doubt creeps in and you start losing your confidence. You'll sleep like a freaking rock star afterwards. I absolutely promise you that. And remember, guys, I'm Steve Lichtman. This is unfiltered and unshakable and your energy's biggest asset. You gotta guard that stuff like a backstage pass, man. You gotta guard your energy. Don't let people suck that vampire juice from you and drink your blood and slow you down. You gotta protect it at all costs because nobody else swell.