A manipulation tactic starts with a small agreement, makes it public by introducing you to someone else, then exploits your need to seem consistent by asking for something bigger. The example: agree you care about animals, get introduced to someone as proof, then volunteer at a shelter.
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And if you really understand how to use a person's identity, I get you to make a small agreement, then I make that agreement social, and then I get you to make one more agreement. I own you at that point. Here's how I could do it really quickly. Let's say you and I just met like in a, in a bar or restaurant or something. And I said, do you agree to X, Y, and Z? Do you believe in doing good things for animals? Let's, let's just keep it on that level. And you're going to say, yes, of course. And I'd say, I've got to introduce you to my friend. He runs this animal shelter. Would you mind if I made the text introduction? I'll just connect you two, even if you two had a conversation. And I send a text to this person and I say, hey Ian, this is Tracey, on the text, that Tracey loves animals and wants to do everything she possibly can for our world. And then Ian says, hey, can you come by Sunday and volunteer? I've just made your agreement social, so now they can start digging and digging and digging and getting you to go out of your way. Yeah.