Consistency Builds Trust

Your inconsistency makes her insecure. See, as men, it's a hard pill to swallow, but it truly is our lack of discipline that brings out insecurity in our wife. Because when we're not reliable, when we're not dependable, when we are not consistent and deliberate in the way that we live our life intentionally on a daily basis with habits discipline, a routine, what happens is we become unpredictable. And a man who is unpredictable in all the wrong ways brings out insecurity in his partner because that is a man that she feels that she can't rely on, can't depend on. And he says one thing and he does another. He doesn't keep his word. He doesn't follow through on the promises that he makes to himself. He disrespects and mistreats himself. He has vices, self-destructive behaviors. And I'm speaking from experience right now, because when I was in that position, when I was not disciplined, when I was not consistent, when I didn't have a routine, when I didn't have habits, when I didn't have brothers that I could, that I could be in alignment with, and most importantly, when I was not connected to Jesus Christ What happened? It's like a bison at the back of the herd. The ones at the herd get picked off the quickest, the fastest. If the enemy is coming to seek and kill and destroy and devour your life, you gotta be immersed inside a pack. You gotta find your brothers. You gotta find your tribe. You gotta find those guys that can help you get back on track. Because there are people, brother, in your life that love you, that care about you. You're a good man. Man with a good heart. And your sons, your daughters, your, your wife needs you in her life to be a consistent pillar who is reliable, dependable, and who follows through. And at the end of the day, it's not a matter of what other people think and whether or not they're watching you, because you're watching you. And you know whether or not at the end of the day you're truly living in alignment with the man that you want to be.