Tim Arrigo asks: would you marry you? If you won't accept your own habits, mindset, and excuses, you're projecting that self-doubt onto your partner and setting unrealistic expectations. Real change means stopping the easy path and doing the inner work.
Would you marry you? It's a question I want to ask you right now. Would you marry you? Would you marry you with your daily habits? Would you marry you with your broken mindset? Would you marry you with your excuses? Would you marry you with your dysregulated emotions? Would you marry you? Would you marry you? Would you be physically attracted, emotionally attracted to you? Because if not, then how do you expect your spouse to be? You project onto your spouse. You know on the inside that you don't feel like you're living at your full potential. So you tell your spouse, you're not giving me attention, you're not loving me. The only reason that you say that is because you're truly just projecting onto them how you really feel about yourself. You're the one who doesn't feel lovable because you know that you're not living at your full potential. And if you wouldn't marry you, then how would you expect them to want to stay with you, accept you, and really continue to tolerate you descending into a lesser version of yourself? You deserve to know the best version of yourself. You deserve to know what you're truly capable of. You keep making excuses about why you're living in the gray area of your life. You just don't decide. You literally do what is fucking easy every day of your life. If you actually put in the work, you put in the effort, you would learn that the most attractive thing about you is when you start investing in yourself.
