A man warns that if you don't sacrifice for what you want, you'll lose it. He tells fathers risking their families that the cost of staying the same is higher than the cost of change: another man raising your kids, your marriage gone, your health shot.
How do you feel about another man raising your kids? Because inevitably, that's where you're headed if you don't make these changes. How do you feel about another man raising your children and having influence over those kids because you didn't make those changes? Another man stepping into that position of a father figure in their lives. And these are the, the painful experiences that we have to think about, because there's a cost to not changing. Yeah, there's a cost to changing. There's a cost to investing in myself. There's a cost to making sacrifices. But there's a cost to not changing, bro. And your family, they want the best version of you. They want to see you at your best. Inspiring them, bringing out the best in them. And I know you're capable of that, man, and you deserve that. You deserve to see yourself give yourself the best. And I want to inspire you and encourage you today through this message to make the changes you need to make before it's too late. If you're headed towards a divorce, if you're headed towards— maybe there is another man in the picture already. That's already being a part of your kids' lives. Brother, you can still make a difference. Don't sit back on the sideline and make excuses and entertain ideas of just not living at your full potential. You deserve— you deserve to be a living inspiration in your children's lives. That's who you're called to be. You need to make sacrifices though, because let me tell you, bro, if you don't make sacrifices for what you want, then what you want will be the sacrifice. Let me say that again. If you don't make sacrifices for what you want— to be a living inspiration, to be the role model, to be the man that they need and that I need— for myself. If you don't make sacrifices for what you want, then what you want— your family, your marriage, your future, your health, your happiness— will be the sacrifice. And sometimes you don't realize that by not making a decision now, right now, you're choosing You're making a choice. You're asking for an outcome that you don't want by not making the decision to change. Stop waiting.
