A man pursuing his withdrawing wife is stuck in a cycle that pushes her further away. Stop chasing her. Instead, get sunlight, exercise, sleep well, and fix your self-talk. Become the best version of yourself, and you'll become a high-level servant to others and align with your purpose.
Stop pursuing your wife because you're creating a cycle of pursuit and withdrawal. The more you pursue, the more she withdraws. So what does that mean? That means that right now this is an opportunity to do two things. First is invest in your own personal development, meaning get outside, get outside, get some sun, get a workout in, exercise every single day, get proper sleep. Proper hydration. Watch the way you're talking to yourself during this time. If you stop pursuing your wife and you start pursuing a better version of you, when you take your focus off of all your external goals and you become the goal, you create a man that can serve people at a high level. And when you can do that, your life gets better. When you can do that, you can add value to the world around you. And do what? Experience living in your calling, living in your purpose that God intended you to live on this earth for, which is what? To be of service. You can experience that because you are the self-actualized version of you. Don't sleep on becoming a better version of you during this time of marital strife. Stop pursuing your wife, start pursuing a better version of you.
