A motivational speaker argues that ego and closed-mindedness keep you stuck, even when help and solutions surround you. He says overcoming your resistance to criticism and advice unlocks growth and the ability to help others. He offers a 90-day coaching program with techniques that have helped thousands of entrepreneurs.
You want to know why a lot of you guys don't change? It's because you're so close-minded, you're so rigid, you're so inflexible. You don't accept advice from anybody, feedback from anybody. Constructive criticism makes you react, you get reactive. So you got a totally fixed mindset. That's the biggest problem. A lot, a lot of you guys have it. You don't accept help from anybody. You think that you have the answers, and, and yet the irony of that is you're the one Everybody comes to for answers, yet you don't have the answers to the biggest problems in your life. Tell me how that works. So tell me how you're able to provide solution to people when you don't even have the answers to the biggest things that you struggle with. You can't even overcome the obstacles and hurdles in your own life, and you know it's an internal battle, and you don't want to go there. You don't want to admit that you're powerless. You don't want to admit that you feel inferior or inadequate or that you can't measure up or can't succeed. You don't want to admit that. And so what do you do? You project it on everybody else. You try to keep it together, but on the inside you're really dying. You're having, you're having a slow death. It's a slow death because you just won't reach out. You just won't reach out. Solutions right in front of you, people right in front of you willing to help you, right in front of your face, and you still live in denial. You still live in a state of resistance, just frozen in time. Man, that's a sad state to live in. My question for you is going to be today: why? Why? Why won't you ask for help? Why won't you reach out? I'm gonna tell you why. Because it's all about your ego. You're hard-headed, you're rigid, you're inflexible, and you think you have all the answers to the biggest problems in your life, and that's why you don't reach out. Or you try to say— you try to like downplay or minimize people's ability to help you. Check it out, we've all been where you're at. We've all been where you're at, okay? We've all been there. We've all been the excuse-having, blame-shifting, victim identity mindset. We've all been there. We've all been in your position. So my question is, what are you gonna do to change it? Why? Why don't you want to be aligned with other people who are on that journey farther ahead of you? It's like links in a chain, holding on to the guy in front of you, holding on to someone behind you, changing your life. Why? Because I'm going to tell you right now, on the other side of that, you're going to be able to help another man, and that's where you're going to find purpose. That's where you're going to find value. Is in the value that you can provide other people once you're on the other side of that journey. You don't even know what you're missing. You don't even know what you're missing. Click the link in my bio today. Hop on my 90-day coaching program. Life-changing experience. I've been working with thousands of high achievers and entrepreneurs over the last 10 years, giving them evidence-based techniques, systems, modalities put in place to help them overcome those internal struggles that we've all dealt with. We've all been there. So jump on the team, the team of individuals who are actually doing the work, not just talking about it.
