Tim Arrigo delivers a motivational talk for men about regaining attraction from a spouse through setting goals, building confidence, and resisting instant gratification. He argues that becoming a better version of yourself for your family and loved ones requires concrete action and discipline.
The main reason why your wife's not attracted to you anymore is because you have no goals. Your wife isn't in love with you and head over heels for you and attracted to you and, right, just seeing you as the king, the leader of the home, because you got no goals. You lost your edge. How do I know? Because I've been there, right? When we lose our edge We lose our self-confidence. And when we're not attacking and going towards goals, what do we lean towards? Instant gratification. So now here you are in a cycle of instant gratification and shame and guilt. People in your life, they know that you're not living at your full potential. You can't fool these people, right? And a lot of times you're trying to get them to accept a lesser version of yourself than the one that they chose to be with and marry. Think about that. You're getting upset because they're not accepting a lesser version of you than the one that they chose to marry. That's a problem, right? So when you start having goals again— by the way, having goals, I mean make yourself the goal, right? Having goals by being the best version that you can be for yourself, your family, and your loved ones, right? That makes people attracted to you again. Right? They want to get behind that, right? They want to organize around that energy. They feel inspired by that. Your energy alone lifts your family up. You don't even need to say anything. You just walk into the room and your family's energy's, yes, yes, they're here, right? Think about that. Instead of, oh man, they can hear your car, and it's like the hair stands up on the back of their neck. They, they're in more peace when you're not around. That's an issue. So my question for you is, what are you doing about it? What are you doing about it other than talking about change? Actions speak louder than words, right? No more empty promises. Let's go.
