The real enemy in marriage isn't your spouse but the lies you believe about yourself. When you internalize accusations like "you'll never change," you fight your partner instead of the actual battle. Learn to spot the difference between your own thoughts and the enemy's accusations, then reclaim your mind.
The devil doesn't need to destroy your marriage. He just needs you to believe the lies that you tell yourself. See, every time that voice says to you that you're never going to change or you're not enough, that's not some type of conviction. What it is is accusation. And we know that the enemy is the accuser. See, and if he can get you to agree with anything that he tells you, you'll start fighting with your spouse instead of fighting against the enemy. So next time you're getting attacked, listen very closely. Is the voice saying, "I" or "you"? Because the enemy speaks to you, not as you. And the moment you recognize that difference, you take your authority back. Because the war isn't between you and her. It's between truth and lies for the power of your own mind.
