Landon describes a breakthrough moment in group therapy when he finally admits to abuse, objectification, and failing his son. Tim's simple question "Brother, how can I help you?" triggers an emotional release Landon compares to an earthquake, shifting how he sees his life from something happening to him to something happening for him.
I'm the greatest hard worker. I make as much money. I'm this, I'm this, I'm this, I'm this. All lies. Then I go inside and I open it up and it's, what do I hide from the world? And that one was hard. I had to talk about the molestation, that I was molested and I actually molested my younger cousin as a child. I had objectified my wife. I had done all these horrible things. Then all of a sudden it gets to the very end and there's one line left. And the last line was, is that I didn't show up for my son and the father that I wanted to show up for him before he died. And so I'm sitting there and Tim's walking around and he just says, hey, he goes, if anybody's having a struggle right now, he goes, just let you know, he goes, raise your hand. The Holy Spirit again spoke to me and said, Landon, you need to raise your hand. I'm like, nope, I'm good. Landon, raise your hand. Like, all right, fine, I'll raise my hand. My voice in my head screaming, bloody murder, God, no, no, not Tim, not Tim. You do not want this guy to come over. That was my ego. That was my shadow. Because it knew that as soon as Tim came over with his presence and his gentleness, as he did, it would pull that part of me out. And so as I was sitting there and he came over and he said, brother, how can I help you? That's all he had to say. And I couldn't. I started bubbling up. I started crying. And he goes, just point. And I pointed at that one and I just started bawling. And I mean, I cried. I probably made every single brother just stop. I was, I was bellowing that much. And that breakthrough started all the other breakthroughs that I've been on. And it's just like a big earthquake that happened and it just starts— all the after, after quakes are just continuing, continuing and continuing. And I can honestly say that now, as I've been going through this journey, each opportunity that I see, I see it now from an Unbreakable Mind point of view that I can flip it and I can see it from a completely different aspect of now. This is inside out. This is no longer outside in. This is what life is happening for me, not how life is happening to me.
