Tim Arrigo tells people stuck in denial about their problems that acknowledging issues isn't enough. Real change requires full commitment and consistent work. One client called coaching the biggest investment they ever made, with returns across every area of life.
Everybody in your life keeps telling you that you have problems. And see, you know in the back of your mind that you have a problem. You just remain in denial about it. Everybody in your life keeps telling you, keeps putting the mirror right in front of your own face. And what do you do? You have conversations with yourself in silence when your family's asleep, when you're alone in your car, when you're driving. You know, I gotta change, I gotta make a change, I gotta make a change. And then things get better for a little while, and then inevitably you have another blowout with your family. I gotta make a change, I gotta make a change. And you think that the solution is just going to appear right in front of you. And then maybe one day it actually does. Maybe you hear me doing a video where I'm talking directly to you with the exact same issues that I used to struggle with. And inevitably, what do you do? Maybe you jump on a call with me, maybe not. But let's say you do jump on a call with me, and then what do you do? A lot of times you just basically ruminate on the same problem and don't pull the trigger. And then you wonder why you're still stuck in the same place. Is because you're not committed. You're not all in. You're not invested. See, the types of people that I like to work with are people that I'm in alignment with, people that are going to go all in, that are willing to fully commit and realize the massive investment that they need to make on themselves. Had a client earlier, he told me, this is the biggest investment I've ever made on myself, and this investment has paid dividends into every area of my life. Biggest ROI, biggest return I've ever got on any investment that I've ever made. See, guys, what are you waiting for? The real issue isn't whether or not you have the solution, or isn't whether or right, this is going to work for you. It's whether or not you're going to work for you. It's whether or not you're going to put the work in, whether or not you're going to overcome your own fear, right, your own objections about why it's not going to work. It's all your self-doubt, procrastination. It's all your fear. It has nothing to do with the solutions. It has everything to do with your limited mindset, your self-defeating beliefs, the work that you keep putting off that you need to do today, that you keep putting off for tomorrow. And see, I'm not even really tripping when people quote unquote waste my time because they're not wasting my time. They're still the ones stuck in the same position spinning in circles. Whether or not you want to do this work with me or somebody else isn't as important as the fact that you need to do the work, period. You need the help.
