Why would he be “better” than you?

What if your wife left you for a better man? What would make this man better? See, would he really be a better man, or would he have just treated your wife better than you do? If your wife really left you for a better man and you think about who this better man is, then I'm sure that when you think about who this better man is, I'm sure that you think about everything that you're not doing. So if your wife was to truly leave you for this better man, who would he be? How would he treat your wife? What kind of daily habits would he have? How would he regulate his emotions? How would he manage conflict? How would he deal with anger? What would his priorities be? Maybe he'd allow your wife to feel seen and heard. Maybe he'd connect to your wife, and maybe your wife would be attracted to him for the fact that he's available, the fact that he's present, the fact that he's confident, the fact that his words are in alignment with his actions, the fact that he has integrity, that he's disciplined. Sí, what if your wife was to leave you for a better man? And if this is your reality right now, maybe you need to face the fact that you can be that better man, brother. You can be him. But in order to be him, you have to start to look at yourself. And you have to start to look in the mirror and hold yourself ruthlessly accountable to being that better man. Let's stop wasting time talking about what a better man could be or a better man is and just become him today.