A husband's wife's anger and coldness aren't the real problem, they're signals she feels unsafe and unloved. Look past the surface behavior to what she actually needs: to feel valued for more than money, and to recognize who you've become in the relationship.
Stop seeing your wife's behavior for what it appears to be and start to see it for what it actually is. See, you think that your wife is angry at you. You think that she won't forgive you. You think that your wife is holding a grudge, that she's resentful. You think that your wife doesn't love you, isn't attracted to you, doesn't respect you. Can't communicate with you. But here's the real reality. Your wife's behavior is a cry for help. When your wife's around you and your wife doesn't feel safe around you, doesn't feel connected to you, doesn't feel loved, doesn't feel like you value her opinion, then you really need to ask yourself, Who are you really in her life? Are you who you claim to be? Did you descend into a lesser version of yourself than the one that she married? And are you trying to get her to accept that version of you now? The constant turmoil, the arguments, the fighting, the silent treatment. The belittling, the disconnection, the lack of intimacy, the love and affection missing from your relationship. You really need to ask yourself, besides being the provider, what are you really bringing to the relationship? What value are you bringing to the relationship? Because instead of seeing your wife's behavior as something that's happening on the surface? Why don't you start to see it as a reflection of something much deeper? You gotta have x-ray eyes, bro. See beneath the surface. Your wife has no other way to express her pain and, and just the desire for you to change other than her frustration with you. Why? Because a part of her is tormented by the fact that this is never what she wanted.
