Your Comeback Story

Here's a million-dollar question: what kind of person involves themself in a relationship with a married individual? It's a good question. What kind of person involves themself in a relationship with a married individual? I talked to so many men all the time, so many women all the time, and they think like they fall in love with a fairy tale of this person that they met while they were married. While they were married, and the person knew that they were married, and they entered a relationship or had an affair with this person whether it be physical or an emotional affair, and they think somehow that relationship is gonna work. Check it out right here. Here it is. You ready for it? Anybody, anyone who has a relationship with somebody else who is married, that says everything about that person's character. And it doesn't matter if that current marriage that that person in is ending and it's super dysfunctional and toxic. I'm gonna tell you right now, that relationship with that other individual who chose to come into the picture and knew that you or the person that you're with was married, let me tell you right now, that relationship is never going to work because it's not built on a solid foundation. It's built on a foundation of lies, secrecy, and deception. So it's bound to fail. So my brother, check it out. If you got cheated on, if you're a man who dealt with infidelity in his marriage, if your heart is crushed, if your heart is hurt right now, this message is for you to you know what? Stand tall. You didn't break character. Yeah, you might not have been perfect, but check it out. All of the mistakes that you made, those things are not justifications for your partner, your wife, to go and do what she did. I don't care what she did. I don't care what you did. Your negative behavior is not a justification for her to act out in that way, because healthy people don't do that. You know what healthy people do? They tell the other person that I don't want to be with you. I don't want to be in a relationship with you. I want to get a I want to divorce from you and I want to pursue a different relationship. They don't hide out, they don't act in secrecy, they don't engage in deception, they don't lie, they don't manipulate, and they don't involve themselves in an emotional or physical affair with another person who knows that they're married. You know what that's called? Let's call a spade a spade right here. You know what that's called? Toxic, unhealthy, and dysfunctional, period. So brother, if you're hurt from this, I want you to keep your head up. Keep your head up. Hey, chin up, brother. You're a king. Come on, chin up. You deserve more than that. And you know what? You've been settling for breadcrumbs. And you know what? You might have done a lot of things that contributed to the dysfunctional and the dysfunction and downfall of your marriage that led to that happening. But don't cling on. And you better not, you better not start sending the wrong messages to your wife. Don't start pursuing your wife from this point because you're gonna drive her into the arms of another man. Why? Because of your neediness. And guess what you're doing? You're validating her behavior. Check it out. Give yourself time to process because you need it. And know that right now, during this time, I talk to guys all the time. They're like, well, it's too late. I can't join the academy because it's too late. No, it's actually the perfect time. Because what if the worst day of your life became the best day of your life simultaneously? What if the day that somebody abandoned you was the day that other brothers connected with you, locked arms with you, got connected with you, and, and got you back to a place again where you found your true confidence, your worth, your strength, and that peace that you're looking for. So bro, don't stay in this state. We can both agree now more than ever that you need the help. And I want to let you know something: me and all the other brothers in the academy, all the other coaches that work with me inside this academy, are here to help you. We're standing in the gap for you. Let us pray for you. Let us build you up. Let us align ourselves with you. Come join us on this journey. Don't let this break you. Don't let this, this trauma that happened to you, don't let it be the thing that holds you down. Let it be the thing that moves you to create something new in your life. Because check it out, it hurt and it's painful, but you got to embrace the space. This is your time to grow and heal and transform. Don't worry about all the other stuff that's going on, brother, because that thing is already going down. Like a plane with no engine, it's inevitable that it's going to crash. So check it out, and even if it doesn't, the relationship started off with lies, secrecy, and infidelity. That stuff doesn't just magically go away. That's a testament to two people's character. And the reality is, you don't need to be in that situation. You deserve more than that, man. Keep your head up.