Tim Arrigo tells husbands and fathers that their energy sets the tone for the whole family. He argues that relying on your wife for accountability is pathetic, and that she wants more from you because she sees your potential. Step up, take massive action, and generate the presence that lifts everyone around you.
So I walked downstairs this morning and my wife says to me, honey, I love my life. And I'm going to tell you right now, that's better than any drug. That's better than any experience that you can have as a, as a husband and as a father. My question for you is, why aren't you leading with massive action and clear intention in your family? If you're not the provider, if you're not the protector, If you're not, if you're not solely accountable to yourself, if you're not leading your family, inspiring your family, if you're, if the energy in the room isn't just lifted up by your presence, like, fuck yeah, he's here. He's here. Why? Why? Why are you not taking action? Why does your wife want more for you than you want for yourself? All the time I talk to husbands and they're like, man, you know, my wife is nagging me all the time. No, your wife's not nagging you, bro. Your wife just knows what you're capable of. Your wife's not nagging you, right? Your wife is sick and tired of living— you watching you live as a shell of who you could be. She's sick and tired of you trying to get her to co-sign your shitty behavior. She's not nagging you. Isn't that a sad thing? I mean, think about it. You have to have your own wife hold you accountable. That's pathetic and it's sickening. And I would never respect and can never respect myself if I acted that way. So my question for you is, what are you going to do to change it? What are you going to do to change it? You're going to sit around and then you're going to basically project and think that other men who have come before you have carved a path and pioneered that path can't help you? Check it out. Click the link in my bio. I got a free guide in there. It's called The Unbreakable Mind. Take it, read it, go over it. Invest in yourself. Jump on a team with other people who are actually changing their lives. Become a part of that movement because life is movement. You got to trust in movement. Most responsible thing you could ever do as a man, if you can't figure it out on your own, is ask for help. So I'm extending that invitation to you right now.
