A speaker argues that porn consumption is active addiction when you crave it and seek relief through it, distorting how you see women and driving a cycle of loneliness and shame. He links it to spiritual consequences and relationship failure, urging viewers to seek help and break the pattern.
It destroys the way you do relationships. It distorts the way you look at women. It causes you shame and guilt, but you keep going back to it. Keep going back to somewhere that you just decided you didn't want to be. I'm talking about pornography. I'm talking about your addiction to porn. Yeah, it's an addiction. You're living an active addiction if you're watching pornography, and you're opening up a spiritual doorway. You're opening up a spiritual doorway. Next time you do pornography, look in their eyes. You know that's somebody's daughter, right? Look in their eyes. They got dead eyes. You're doing this pornography thing and you're thinking that it has like no consequence. Just because you can't physically see the consequence in front of you doesn't mean there isn't supernatural consequences that you're already paying for. And then you enter a relationship and you wonder why the relationship doesn't work out. Why? Because your main motive in the relationship, or entering the relationship, is what the person looks like naked. So it's lust. You're motivated by lust. You're living in lust. And then you're wondering why the relationship doesn't work out, because you're not thinking about whether or not she's going to hang family photos on the wall. You're not thinking about how her cooking is. You're not thinking about whether or not you're going to get along on a road trip or a long car ride. You're not thinking about any of that. All you're thinking about is what she looks like naked. And then you wonder why the relationship doesn't work out, and you want to point the finger and say, this person wasn't healthy, or there was something wrong with this person. But really, you should be looking in the mirror. Extreme accountability here. It distorts the way you look at other people because now everybody you're looking at, you're wondering what they look like naked instead of thinking about, could we be friends first? Because let me tell you, sex in a relationship is a very small part of a healthy relationship, especially a marriage. Yeah, your sex life should be healthy. Yeah, it should be thriving. Yeah, you should be head over heels and attracted, you know, to the person you're with, of course. But That shouldn't be 99% of the relationship. The other 99— the other 99%, the other 90% is living the life with the person. So if you're engaging in this behavior and you're struggling with this, reach out to me because I want to help you. I want to help you break free from this addiction and break free from the mental torture. And, and, and I'm going to tell you what motivates it most of the time is loneliness. People are lonely. They're lonely. So where do they They turn to the screen, to porn, and then they get their rocks off. And then how does it feel? Empty, lonely, hollow. Living a life that feels empty and hollow because they try to use everything on the outside to numb and fix everything on the inside. You deserve better than that. You deserve a healthy relationship. But in order to have a healthy relationship, you got to have a healthy relationship with yourself first. So click the link in my bio. I want to help you out with this. Break free from the chains and the spiritual bondage that you're in with this pornography addiction. [MUSIC] [MUSIC]
