TJ WALKER - THE HABIT INFLUENCER - Personal Development | LIVE STREAM

TJ Walker says most speakers worry about the wrong thing. Being boring and forgettable is far more common than not knowing an answer. If you don't know something, just say you'll follow up instead of looking embarrassed.
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Quite often I'm in front of a large group, say a thousand people. Someone will ask a question. Dj, what do you do if you're asked a question and you don't know the answer to it? Isn't it awful? Isn't it embarrassing? And I'll ask the audience, how many of you have experienced this and sure enough, or seen it happen on someone else, and a couple hundred hands will go up. So it is a real concern. 200 hands out of a thousand, that's a real problem. But I always ask another question, and it is, how many of you have seen a speaker and the speaker was so incredibly boring you didn't remember anything the person said five minutes later, show of hands. Guess how many hands went up this time? It's not 200. It's all 1,000 people raising their hands. So I point that out to get you to focus on the real problem, the most common problem, the most common problem in the world is that you're so incredibly boring, the audience remembers nothing. It's actually not that common to give a great presentation, be asked one question, you can't answer it, and it's so awful and embarrassing. So first and foremost, focus on having a really good presentation that's interesting and memorable. If you are asked a question and you don't know the answer, the whole key is don't act embarrassed. Say, I'm happy to find out. I'll get back to you. I'll email you the answer later today or I'll have Smithers in accounting get back with you. People are not going to remember that you didn't know the answer on the spot. They will remember if you're embarrassed. So the whole key, don't act embarrassed.
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