In this video, TJ Walker discusses Tim Ferriss’s observation that two habits—regular meditation and the ability to say no—consistently appear among high‑performing individuals. Walker critiques Ferriss’s more controversial advice on supplements and extreme dieting, arguing that such optimization hacks often lack solid evidence and can distract from fundamental health basics like real food, sleep, and movement. He then shares his own experience adopting a daily meditation practice after Ferriss highlighted its prevalence among successful people, noting its low cost and mental clarity benefits. The second habit, saying no, is presented as a crucial focus strategy; Walker cites Warren Buffett’s principle that the most successful say no to almost everything, and he relates this to his own success in creating online courses by narrowing his focus. Overall, Walker acknowledges Ferriss’s positive influence in normalizing habit discussions while warning against the hype of some of his recommendations, concluding that simple, cost‑free habits—meditation and selective refusal—offer the highest return in a world full of distractions.
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Ultimize. According to CNBC's Make It, entrepreneur and author Tim Ferriss, an early investor in companies like Facebook, Uber, and Twitter, and the creator of The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, has spent more than a decade interviewing hundreds of top performers across business, sports, and entertainment. And he says two highly specific traits show up again and again. Some form of regular meditation, and the ability to say no. Now, I have to admit something. When Ferriss came out with The 4-Hour Workweek back in about 2007, I got him wrong. I got him completely wrong. I read the book and I thought, this is career pornography, career fantasy, the kind of book you read on a plane and think, yeah, yeah, sure, let me just outsource my life to a guy in Bali and retire by Tuesday. But if you go back and read it now, it feels less like fantasy and more like a practical instruction manual that just showed up 10, 15 years too early. Ferriss wasn't crazy. He was just early in a lot of trends that really dominate our modern life. And that's a big difference. Now, having said that, let's not turn him into a saint because Ferriss, like a lot of people in the world, has pushed plenty of questionable ideas. There's a lot of his supplement talk, this Athletic Greens stuff, which has no scientific evidence it's healthy for you or healthier than actually eating real fruit and vegetables. A lot of optimization hacks that sound scientific but don't exactly come with overwhelming evidence. And sometimes it distracts people from the most obvious solution in the world: eat real food, sleep, move your body. And he does encourage people to do that, but you don't need a chemistry set to be healthy. And then there's his diet stuff, the whole don't eat anything white, avoid carbs 6 days a week, and then go wild and pig out on the 7th day idea. Okay, confession, I tried that and it did work, and I did lose weight a decade or so ago for about 6 months. But guess what? Nobody could stay on that diet long term. If you had the discipline to stay on a diet like that long-term, you'd never be overweight in the first place. So for most people, it just doesn't work except the short term. That's not a lifestyle, that's a phase. And anything that feels like a phase usually doesn't last. But here's where I give Ferriss real credit. He did in fact change my mind on something important, meditation. Now he's getting news coverage today on CNBC for his belief that that's is one of the two things consistent among all successful people. But he was preaching this and uncovering this with his interviews a decade ago. About 9 years ago, I started doing it largely because Ferriss kept pointing out that virtually every high performer, successful people, doesn't matter if they're movie stars, Broadway producers, tech billionaires, everyone he interviewed had some version of meditation in their life. And I figured, all right, If this many successful people are doing it, maybe I should at least test it again. So I did, and I've been doing it almost every day since. And here's the thing, even if you don't believe in any of the deeper benefits, even if you think it's just sitting quietly doing nothing, there's still no downside. It's 10 minutes a day where you're not staring at your phone, not consuming nonsense, not reacting to other people's agendas. Just that alone time makes it worthwhile. I know it does for me and a lot of Tim Ferriss's guests. But the second idea Ferriss talks about might actually be even more important. It's the ability to say no. This is the one nobody talks about. They don't talk about very often because saying yes feels good. It feels productive. It feels like opportunity. But saying yes to everything is the fastest way to accomplish nothing. Nothing. Warren Buffett has a famous line, the difference between successful people and really successful people is that successful people say, the really successful people say no to almost everything. Think about that. Buffett doesn't do 50 things. He doesn't do 10 things. He essentially does one thing. He studies businesses and once in a very long while, every 1,000 businesses he looks at, He decides to buy it. That's it. I can tell you from my own experience on a smaller scale, any success I've had didn't come from doing more things. It came from doing less, from narrowing my focus, from finally saying no to distractions and all sorts of side projects and random opportunities, things I could do but weren't my primary focus. And focusing almost entirely on one core competency is what worked for me. In my case, creating online courses. That's it. No magic, just focus. So on balance, I think Tim Ferriss has been a positive force. His podcast was a trailblazer, still is. He helped normalize conversations about habits, performance, and self-experimentation long before it became mainstream. And to his credit, he hasn't spent his time chasing political trends or trying to ingratiate himself with whatever movement happens to be the loudest at the time. I.e., he didn't become one of the MAGA tech bros, pro-podcasting bros. So yeah, he's not perfect. Some of his ideas are questionable. Some of the optimization culture he helped popularize can sometimes go off the rails. But at the core, there are a couple of ideas he got absolutely right. Focus matters. Saying no to most things matters. And taking a few minutes every day to quiet your mind is probably one of the simplest, highest-return habits you can build. And in a world that's constantly trying to sell you more, distract you more, and pull your attention in 1,000 different directions, The real edge might just be this: do less, but do it better. I also think it's important to note that we live in a culture that says, you know, all these motivation people, success people, health people, they're forgetting the fact to mention that they're doing well because they're rich and they can buy everything. Here are two things that require nothing, cost nothing. It costs nothing to meditate. And it costs nothing to say no most of the time to opportunities that take you outside of your main core competency. I'm
