In this YouTube lesson, host Renee Garcia presents Day 15 of Vadim Zeland’s Reality Transurfing, titled “My goal is me.” She reads the original text, which advises that when love is lacking externally, one should first love and improve oneself—joining a fitness club, learning a language, changing one’s style, or using a “magic tattoo” or talisman—to make self‑care the primary goal. Garcia explains Zeland’s mirror metaphor: we only love ourselves when others love us, creating a closed‑loop reflection; by directing love outward, it boomerangs back, breaking the loop. She shares a personal anecdote about a “Magic Freedom” tattoo she got a decade earlier, illustrating how she unintentionally practiced the lesson. Garcia then critiques the common focus on external “pendulums” (relationships, careers) that drain energy, arguing that self‑improvement fuels inner fire, which the world (the mirror) reflects back, turning inner intention into outer intention—what you seek finds you. She ties the lesson to her “Becoming Magnetic” course, which teaches this perspective shift. The video ends with a call for comments, a like, and a teaser for Day 16 (“Faith”).
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Hello, Transurfers and the Transurfing curious! I am Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV, the only official YouTube channel for Reality Transurfing that is endorsed by Vadim Zeland himself, the author and creator of Reality Transurfing! So, today, Day 15, "My goal is me!" I'm like reading this lesson this morning, just cracking up, and I'll tell you why after I go through the lesson. But this is really incredible stuff that I'm starting to, I don't know, resonate with on an extremely deep level, simply because, like I've said in my previous lessons, I've never actually gone through this book. So, I'm reading this all for the first time, and a lot of this stuff I have been doing every day. And now I'm seeing these words written by Vadim, and I'm like, "Wow! How can this be that I just sort of connected with this information and have been feeling it and living it, and now I'm resonating even more so with it?" And it's just really quite a miracle. So, I'm hoping you all are feeling the same and benefiting as much as me. Going through this. But yeah, I will get to the lesson, stop running my mouth a little bit, and then I will tell you what I was laughing about this morning when I was reading this, because it's actually quite fascinating. But this is Day 15, 'My goal is me.' If you are rejected or suffer from unshared love, or are looking for love, You need to start loving yourself. If you still are not able to love yourself as you are, start working on yourself, on your self-improvement. Subscribe to a fitness club, start learning a foreign language, try to dress in a new way, not as usual. Make a magic tattoo, buy a magic talisman, a necklace or a ring. When paying yourself attention, you get a new Sense of life. For now, caring for yourself can fully become your goal if you haven't found another one. It is really a worthy goal and it will bring success and prosperity to you. You are worthy of all the best. Vadim Zeland's interpretation: we are designed in such a way that we are pleased with ourselves only if others appreciate us, and we love ourselves only if others love us. But the world is a mirror. Where would the reflection get love from if the very image does not have it? The results again is a closed mirror circle. So how do you get out of it? It's very simple. First, as we know, we always love those we care about. So we need to pay more attention to ourselves to care for and spend time with ourselves. Second, love is like a boomerang. If you send it into the world, it is returned to you. You can get love if instead of fear, distrust, and disapproval, you radiate love. The reflection will start walking towards you only if you make the first move. Feedback creation is then created. I send love to the world. It reflects back to me, my world answers with the same. I am loved, so I am pleased with myself and begin to love myself. So, first of all, before I get into my two cents real quick, I just wanna tell you guys, I'm reading this lesson this morning, and when I read the words "make a magic tattoo," I just crack up, because I actually have— Magic tattooed on my arm here. And this was from, like, I don't know, probably about 10 years ago. And I did this at a time that I was going through a breakup. And I actually got— I mean, it's two words, it's "Magical" and "Freedom." So, Magical Freedom. But I did this kind of as a thing to— I don't know, remind me of my freedom and keep me aligned with my freedom and make myself more the goal. So it's kind of funny that like 10 years ago I was actually doing what this lesson is presenting now, or what Vadim Zeland states. So, um, very interesting. Anyway, I'm going to talk a little bit about the Mirror and, uh, how this whole lesson really does tie into you getting more love and you getting more of what it is that you want in this world by projecting it outward, outwardly yourself first. So I teach this a lot in my Becoming Magnetic course, to stop the search, right? To stop. Um, I know for a lot of people out there, and this is what I did wrong in my past, this is why I love this lesson so much, but a lot of People out there are focused on, uh, pendulums, outward, um, outside things, things in their environment, relationships, pumping a bunch of, uh, energy into keeping a relationship going or keeping a friendship going or making something else succeeding their goal outside of themselves. And again, I did this a lot in my past and it, and it, created a lot of problems for my life. Not only was my energy being wasted on things that weren't intended to succeed or survive, but I was, uh, tourniqueting the energy off for myself that I really needed to use to develop myself and improve myself. So what ended up happening as a result of this, was a distorted image in the mirror. I wasn't focusing on myself, I wasn't improving myself. I was telling myself that there were parts of me that were wrong and that, um, were out of alignment, but then I could maybe make this relationship work or this friendship work or focus on things that were outside of me. And the whole thing just started to get distorted and my progress I didn't really develop as a person for a number of years, because I wasn't making my goal me! So, I think what Vadim Zeland here is really trying to present to us is that paying attention to yourself, getting that fire burning within, creating stuff for you, doing things that are going to further your life, your future, your success, uh, things that are going to help you create energy. These are going to be— this is going to be the way that you are going to get a response back from that Mirror with what it is you intend to have. So, if you're— and I say this in my 'Becoming Magnetic' course, when you're focusing your sights on finding something, whatever that thing is that you're in search of, a professional, um, thing, a relationship, friendships, whatever it is you're looking for. When you are focused with your sights sort of, you know, going outside of you and you're trying to find something, you're denying yourself that energy that you're sending out trying to search or find the thing that you're looking for. If you can turn that back around, right? And improve on yourself, self-improvement, self-development, making yourself your goal, and then fuel that energy, you will then get caught in the sights of whatever it is you have been looking for. So, this is like a hardcore Outer Intention thing. It goes from you looking with Inner Intention to what you're looking for finding you with Outer Intention, because you are burning that fire more brightly, you're adding the energy back to yourself, you're getting yourself energetically going, and then your world will respond to that. And what it is that you're in search of will actually find you. Now, I know this is like— This is a very different way of looking at things, but I have experienced this firsthand, and this is why I'm teaching that 'Becoming Magnetic' course. This is exactly what it's about. It's switching that perspective around from you wanting to find something to letting that thing you want to find find you. But how this happens is self-improvement, self-development, and making yourself your goal, rather than you finding the thing. So, it's really just flipping it around. But anyway, that's my lesson for the day, Day 15, "My goal is me." Let me know your questions, your thoughts. Like this video if you do in fact like it. And yeah, Day 16 coming up, Faith. I love this one! This is where the statement comes from, "I do not wish, I do not hope, I intend." And that's pretty much what this next lesson is solely about. And I'm excited to give that one, because I think we're really getting into the good stuff here, the meat on the bone, so to speak. So, please tune in for that. Remember, these are Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. And let me know your thoughts. Bye, y'all!
