In this solo video, Renee Garcia presents Day 71 of the 78‑day Practical Transurfing series, focusing on the concept of “Polar Comparisons.” She explains Vadim Zeland’s idea that constantly comparing oneself to others creates either an inferiority or a superiority complex, both of which are detrimental. She describes how “pendulums” – collective mental structures that thrive on conformity – push people to align with a single standard, urging viewers to reject the pendulum’s rule “Be like me and do as I do.” Instead, she advocates granting oneself permission to be unique, developing a personal credo, and becoming a leader who does not need to imitate others. Renee outlines a process of turning one’s own individuality into a new “pendulum,” thereby shifting from being “pendulum food” to having pendulums feed one’s own goals, ultimately attracting supportive energy from the very forces that once constrained her. The video includes enthusiastic calls to action: a contest, promotion of a 2.0 Transurfing course, and an invitation for viewers to comment on their own relationship with pendulums.
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Hello, Transurfer! And welcome to Transurfing TV! I am Renee Garcia, and it is literally almost 100 degrees in this room right now, so I am burning up! I'm gonna try to get through this as quickly as I can before I start melting in front of the camera! Today, one of our 78 Days of Practical Transurfing, Day 71! We're in the home stretch! Polar Comparisons! None of these I have read, so I am just as curious as y'all! And I will get into it! Remember my contest, my World's Taking Care of Me! Like this video and comment below and you might win some of these! And remember the 2.0 course, link is below, check it out! You can at least just see what I'm offering and it might be for you! So with that, let's get started! Day 71, Polar Comparisons! Constantly comparing yourself to others leads to an inferiority complex in the case that you undervalue your worth, and a superiority complex if you overestimate your worth. Both are equally monstrous. Be aware that pendulums force you to compare yourself to other, to certain standards, because it is their advantage that everyone walk abreast in a single formation. Turn your non-normality into self-sufficiency. Claim the right not to be the same as everyone else. Smash the Pendulum's rule, "Be like me and do as I do." Always observe the Transurfing rule instead, "Give yourself permission to be you and allow others to be different." When you do fall out of the line, the pendulum will follow you as if you were the new normal. This is pretty much my life, guys! Vadim Zeland's interpretation: Don't imagine that everyone else around you attributes as much significance to your shortcomings and strengths as you do. In reality, everyone is concerned with their own persona, so you can boldly shake this titanic burden burden from your shoulders. The artificial needs to be fabulous very often pushes people to copy others who have already achieved this title. That didn't really make sense. Mindlessly copying someone else's script will create nothing more than a parody. Everyone has their own script. All you have to do is choose your personal credo and then walk your talk. In any group, the leaders are always the ones who true to their own credo. They become leaders because they have freed themselves from the responsibility of consulting others on the matter of how they should behave. Leaders have no need to imitate anyone. They simply know their worth and know what to do. They don't try to curry favor and they don't have anything to prove. When you come to know your own worth, everyone else around you will automatically do the same. So, wow! This is a huge lesson, and this is really where I would like to take this movement, right? You can be different! You can do something different! You don't have to adhere to the rules of the pendulum, which, like Vadim Zeland says, does here, love you adhering and following suit of everyone else, especially when you're competing and you're striving and you're arguing and you're fighting with your reality. They love all that energy. If you take back what you are currently giving to pendulums and you use it to facilitate your own pendulum, right? Your own thing, you become a leader in whatever it is you're doing, if that's your calling. Right? You can absolutely do this! And the cool thing is, after you have spent a certain amount of time being in this mode, right? Just creating your own pendulum, doing your own thing, declaring yourself worthy of being a leader or being at the front of the line doing your own thing, however you wanna look at it. All you have to do is do this consistently for a while, and then all of a sudden, the pendulum— pendulums that were once trying to get you to adhere to them and give energy to them, they start helping you out. Pendulums love individuals. It is absolutely amazing. I never quite realized this until obviously I started doing this myself. And then all of a sudden, pendulums are like helping me out all over the place. And I seem to be a favorite of pendulums! So, this is a very interesting transition, right? You go from being pendulum food to the pendulums feeding you, and then you get to further your own thing, being your own truly individualistic self and create your own reality, getting energy and resources from the same pendulums that kept you down in the past! It's like a freaking miracle, y'all! So cool. So let me know your thoughts. Are you pendulum food today? Are you adhering to standards? Are you one in the line? How can you get to the front of the line, start doing your own thing and start creating your own pendulum where other pendulums start automatically agreeing with you and giving you energy in return? Answer this below, I'm curious to hear your thoughts! Remember, 'My world is taking care of me'! And like this video! And thank you so much for watching my video, everyone! Bye!
