DETACHMENT Living The Reality Transurfing Concepts Vadim Zeland Renée Garcia Reality Creation

4 May 2020 · 3 min

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In this monologue, the speaker describes the core practice of Reality Transurfing as a state of total detachment from outcomes, conventional reality, and personal expectations. They recount their previous life bound by conventional expectations, where striving for an ideal self paradoxically increased unhappiness despite material success. Upon discovering Transurfing, they shifted to a mindset of letting go—releasing attachments to results, material possessions, others, and even self‑identity. This detachment led to a fluid, less‑worrying existence where desires diminish, importance is lowered, and serendipitous, supportive events appear effortlessly. The speaker attributes their ongoing improvement, everyday magic, and increased fulfillment to the principles of Reality Transurfing, emphasizing that bliss arises from surrender rather than external circumstances.

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Transurfing living is a state of pure and total detachment. It is the state of having nothing to lose and not being attached to a result or outcome of a situation. Actively see and expect a different reality today and it will show up. The first step in Transurfing: give up your powerful attachment to conventional reality. Things look very differently for me today than they once did. Some days I try to remember back to my old reality and the way things used to look. I lived in a conventional reality, a fixed place, a place where I had little control over my environment and myself. I pushed and pulled and wondered why the closer I came to the person I thought I wanted to be, the more unhappy I became as well. I had all kinds of amazing things in my life, yet I struggled and was confused. I was lonely, disconnected, and didn't have Reality Transurfing to light my way. It wasn't until I found Transurfing that I realized that living a life of bliss and joy had nothing to do with circumstances in my life. It has nothing to do with my accomplishments or my material possessions. It all has to do with letting go. Letting go of attachments, letting go of how I think things need to be, letting go of convention, letting go of others, and letting go of myself. I had held on tight before. Every day, everything was constantly being measured: success, happiness, friends, you name it. My life is fluid now. I worry less, I try less, I want less and I get more of everything. Everything comes to me that I actually need, especially support in times of stormy waters. I'm detached from the outcome, yet everything shows up in just the right way, everything in just the right time. I have lowered importance yet get so much more than I could have ever dreamt of. I owe this all to Reality Transurfing. Things endlessly improve and my days are filled with serendipitous events and everyday magic.