Dropping The Pendulum Standards! Reality Transurfing Coordination #realitytransurfing #shorts

28 May 2023 · 1 min

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A woman describes gaining 20 pounds as her most profound act of self-love, saying it dismantled the belief she wasn't good enough unless she looked a certain way. She spent thousands on beauty products and clothes chasing validation, only to realize worth has nothing to do with appearance.

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Me dropping that, learning to love myself and allowing myself to put on 20 pounds has been the biggest fucking act of self-love and self-care I have ever done in my entire life. This has transformed so much of the garbage that I was projecting towards my Mirror, that I'm not good enough, that you've gotta maintain this level of weight, "you gotta look like this," the amount of money that I spent on beauty products, the amount of money that I spent on clothing, all the different things that I did so I could receive some sort of love that I felt I was only worthy of if I fit a certain avatar of myself. Fuck you!