Exactly How To Stand Your Ground w/ Reality Transurfing Vadim Zeland Renée Garcia

Hello, hello, hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, guys, and this is Transurfing TV! And oh my God, has it been wild! Wild, wild times at— The International Transurfing Institute. Who would've ever thought that Transurfing could be so controversial and so dynamic! And I am starting to see, now more than ever, the bolder your moves and the bigger your steps, the more you must develop the ability to stand your ground Reality Transurfing style. And wow! This has been pretty eye-opening, this whole experience with Reality Transurfing for the last 5 years, my life, right? My whole life, all the different components of my life. And deciding at times that it's time for an upgrade, right? It's time for an upgrade, it's time to— "Take a little bit more," or "Make a higher and better choice," or "Evolve out of some toxic relationships holding me back, or no longer serving me or my intentions." And this is where Reality Transurfing really gets interesting, because we can't transurf other human beings, right? I know a lot of people have asked me this over the years, like, "Well, I wanna be in a relationship with this person, so how do I make that happen?" And you can Transurf a lot! Like, you can Transurf money in your life, you can Transurf cool experiences, you can Transurf new jobs, you can Transurf better health, more beauty, more fun. You cannot Transurf another human being's intention! Or intentions. So, this is where we get ourselves into trouble as human beings, when we either want something for ourselves and we come up against a conflicting intention of another person. So, here's my intention, this is what I want for myself. But this other person wants something different, they have their own intention. And when these two intentions collide, that's where you have conflict, right? Or we have someone else wants something, and you have your own intentions, and you're not meeting up with their intentions, so then the stuff starts to happen, right? Pressure, manipulation, guilt, abuse. Coercion, even somebody just being dissatisfied with you and your choices, right? This can weigh heavily on us as human beings. So, in this video today, I'm going to talk about how there's evidence to support all theories, right? Evidence to support all theories is hands down the most life-changing bit of knowledge when— realized in the moments that it's pertinent. Which, standing your ground and dealing with intentions of another person that are in conflict with your own, how remembering that there is truly evidence to support all theories, so no one is wrong in their perception, nobody is wrong in their intention, it's all a matter of— of how to navigate two different sets of intentions so you can obtain what it is that you have chosen for yourself. This is an art form. This is an absolute art form. And doing this Transurfing style, while also giving in to the Alternatives Flow, letting go of that rock, right? Remember the clutching on the rock. Letting go of the rock and going towards your intention with ease, while at the same time not allowing another person to pressure you or influence you heavily in a manner where they get you to abandon your intention or your Script and revert back to theirs. So, as I see it, before I get started here on my 5 ways to truly stand ground Reality Transurfing style. As I see it, the better Transurfer you become, the more skillful you become in your Transurfing practice, the more you're gonna ruffle some feathers, right? Especially if you're like me and you think big, right? If you think big and you're really utilizing these concepts, you are going to challenge others in many, many, many ways that can all be sort of navigated much more simplistically when you learn how to stand your ground Reality Transurfing style. So, I'm gonna break it all down for you guys. Before I get started, remember to like this video and comment and subscribe and all that good stuff. And join us on the Facebook group, the 'International Transurfing Institute' Facebook group! And what else? Reality 2.0! Tufti 2.0, links below. Join me on Instagram. Did I say that already? All the links below, check them out. And also, we now have our members program here. There are going to be special videos for subscribers or members, people who join Transurfing TV here. I think it's $9.99 a month or something like that. But I will also put that link below if you are interested. Okay. So, 5 ways to stand your ground as a Reality Transurfer. One, always make calls in lucidity, right? And clarity. This is kind of like "I see myself, I see my reality," and making choices from a place of understanding what it is you're doing, and why you are doing it. This is probably the most crucial jumping-off point for big choices in life, is understanding that it's when we're reactive, right? It's when we're reactive, like my video, 'The Line'. You know, there's this line. One side of the line is you in creator's mode, You moving forward in your reality with "I see myself, I see my reality," coming up to the challenges and the speedbumps and not losing yourself, right? Not losing yourself and crossing that line over to reactive mode, paling the water out of your boat that's coming in more quickly than you can get it out. This is where a lot of people are existing, and this is where a lot of people are making their choices. Choices in life. When you're making choices in your life from this place of non-lucidity, right? Reactivity, snail mode, then everything that's going to follow is going to be confusing, and people are going to challenge you more, and you're going to doubt yourself. You're going to wonder, "Well, God! Are they right? Am I making the right choice?" It's in this space, right, where you are questioning yourself, "Am I making the right choice or not? Are they right about me? Should I give up on this intention? Should I do this other thing that other people are wanting me to do instead, or give up on my goal, or give up on my idea?" This is going to be a short-lived goal if you're making— choices in this state, right? If you're setting intentions in this state. So, always making your choices from the right side of the line, "I see myself, I see my reality. I'm in creator's mode. I'm the one that's in control. I'm the one that has Heart and Mind Coordination." And when you do this, this is a platform in which— Standing your ground, and everything else that is to come becomes so much more simplistic, because you're not second-guessing yourself. So, that moves me on to step 2, expect friction and prepare. Now, I kinda know, like, obviously, as Transurfers, we don't want to create a reality where we're going to come up against friction. Right? And playing that side like, "Oh man, they're not gonna like this," or, "He's not gonna like this," or, "She's not gonna like this," or, "I'm gonna be challenged." You don't wanna do that. But for me personally, I'll admit it, I'm a bit naive. I was a bit naive in my past. I would kinda feel as though if I made a decision, people would just naturally back me. And then there were times where people would be like, "No, I don't wanna do that," or, "I don't want you to do that," or, "I think that's a bad idea." And I would be sort of shocked. Shocked. Now, this shock of not having the support of others, or some speedbumps presenting themselves to me in my reality, would send me back into that reactive mode, that snail mode, that mode where I'm trying to get the water out of my boat as quick as I can, right? Which is dealing with other people and their intentions and losing sight of my own. Now, when I'm ready to make a big choice, I don't necessarily expect that someone is going to come up against me, or there's going to be friction, but I assume that that's at least a possibility, right? I'm making that choice, I'm throwing it into my external environment, and I am going to observe— everything that is to come in my direction as a result of my new choice, my new declaration, and be prepared for what's coming, right? So, this is me seeing myself, seeing my reality, seeing things come to me in a way where I have some perspective. It's not like I'm just going through my reality blindly, and then all of a sudden, pow! Something hits me in the face, an intention of somebody else. And I'm thrown off course. So, expect the friction and prepare yourself, or assume all possibilities can play out, right? There are an infinite number of ways that reality can play out, and being at least prepared is definitely a benefit. 3) Remember the golden rule of Transurfing. So, I touched on this earlier, evidence to support all theories. The golden rule of Transurfing is allow yourself to be you, and allow others to be themselves. And the reason that this is such a pertinent and powerful part of Reality Transurfing is it neutralizes your tendency, or your drive— to try to convince someone of something, right? Because, again, evidence to support all theories. No one is ever wrong in what they've chosen. Everyone is right. My theory's right, his theory's right, right? My theory's right, their theory is right. So, if you can remember the golden rule of Transurfing, and allow others, truly allow others the space to express to you their intentions, no matter how conflicting with yours, just like I talked about, expecting the friction and prepare, you can then sort of just stand back and watch the flow of events, right? You know exactly— what's coming. And when you know what's coming and you can approach it from this perspective, "I'm allowing myself to be me, I'm allowing others to be themselves," then you have really created an environment where you obtain the majority of your energy to continue on with your choice. Right? Navigating those interpersonal relationships, those challenges, those speedbumps, whatever it is, with ease and less energy expenditure. This is huge! So, 4, back yourself up. This is a really big one also. And I'll put a link below for 2 videos. I'm gonna put a link below for the speedbumps video, which isn't that old, and then also the video on backing yourself up. Backing yourself up is this really cool concept that I came up with probably about a year ago, when I decided that if I make a call in a state of lucidity, "I want to do this thing," right? "I want to do this thing, and I'm going to go forward with it." And it's kinda like going into a forest at night. You really don't know what it is you're going to encounter. But whatever did come in my way, did come in front of me, I was going to hold the position that I had taken at the time that I made the choice. And this is so cool! Because again, you're not doing this flip-flopping, especially when other people are vehemently against— whatever it is you're doing. You can say to yourself, "Whatever comes up in my direction, I am going to back myself up, and I am going to remember that exact position and stance I took at the time that I made the choice." So, again, it's just like you're fortifying yourself. You're fortifying yourself. And the more you can fortify your position, in an environment that may be producing some chaos, you're gonna be just like standing on that riverbank, watching the stuff flow by, just watching it flow by, and you become less reactive to it, right? You become less reactive. "I'm backing myself up. I know what it is I'm doing. I know why it is I'm doing it." "and I'm not going to join the external environment in launching some kind of campaign of why I shouldn't do something," right? There's enough of that. Having your back and continuing on with your path regardless of what you encounter is like super powerful, and it's also a lot of fun! Because you get to go forward in your reality with a lot of fortitude, right? And it is truly one of the most empowering states of being that I have ever felt, and I highly recommend it! So, 5! This is pretty easy. Kinda sums up what I've talked about in the previous 4 steps. Flow, let go, and with ease. So, even though I've set the Vector of my flow, right? And I'm headed in my direction, there are still going to be times where I'm called to maybe fight with my reality a little bit, or splash my hands on the water. And maintaining a sense of the Alternatives Flow— yes! I've set my position, I've set my stance, I've set the Vector of the Flow. Things are gonna come in my direction that are going to propose challenges or conflict or whatever. And maintaining this ability to not only continue down my path or flow in the direction of my intention, but also give people what they're asking. At the exact same time, should they ask it as I'm traveling to my destination? If that makes sense. Being versatile and fluid, and at the same time, dead set on that intention. This is a killer combination, if you can master it. It is— A state I think most of us really aspire to get to as human beings, because— I don't know. A lot of people understand flow to the extent where maybe they just get lost, always giving in, right? Like the quintessential hippie, "Just go with the flow, man!" Right? "Just go with the flow!" Or somebody's dead set on their intention and they're unwilling to bend or give. Being able to do both is absolute Transurfing magic. Letting go, letting go of the expectations of others, letting go of yourself, letting go of guilt, letting go of your ideas of how things need to play out. Again, letting the flow decide this for you, and you simply go along for the ride. At the same time, holding true to the decisions that you have taken for yourself. And then also, with ease. Sometimes when we make big life-changing decisions, things are not easy, right? But focusing on the idea of you don't need to find solutions to problems. Solutions— to the problems or the challenges that you face on the path to your goal are in the Alternatives Flow, and you are absolutely going to gain access to them if you choose to focus on the ease. It's like bringing yourself back to your center, right? That Center Screen, that Transurfing state. That place where you are not thinking dualistically, or, "Oh, did I make the right choice, or did I make the wrong one?" Any of that kind of stuff. You set your intention, you are flowing, you are letting go, and you are going with ease. And everything that you need, you will encounter on your path to your goal, within this flow. And you can also stand your ground so you don't get diverted, right? And end up merging back to somebody else's Script or intention and forfeiting yours. This is what it's about. This is absolutely what it's about. So, watch the speedbumps video, if you haven't watched that one already, and the video on backing yourself up. I will put the links below in the comments. And let me know what you think of this video, guys. Thank you so much for watching, and have a good one. Bye!