FREILING Summary Definition Reality Transurfing Vadim Zeland Renée Garcia

11 Jun 2020 · 4 min

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The video presents a concise synthesis of Vadim Zeland’s Reality Transurfing principles as interpreted by Renée Garcia, focusing on how to harness others’ inner intention to fulfill one’s own objectives. Central to the teaching is the notion that self‑worth underlies inner intention; rather than attempting to change oneself or others, one should shift attention outward, genuinely boosting others’ sense of self‑worth. By adopting an outer‑intention mindset—prioritizing giving over getting—one naturally receives what was offered. The speaker advises avoiding criticism, protecting others’ self‑esteem, aligning conversational flow, openly admitting mistakes, and defending others when they are right. Small favors are recommended as a rapid rapport‑building tool. Visualization is described as a method to create energetic comfort, while personal power is linked to free energy and charm emerges from mutual love of heart and mind. Accepting one’s shortcomings dissipates excess potential, allowing action to flow smoothly.

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Frailing. Use other people's inner intention to achieve your own goals. The feeling of self-worth lies at the core of inner intention. Do not try to change others. Do not try to change yourself either. To act more naturally, switch your attention from self to others. Play the game of increasing other people's sense of self-worth. If you want to attract attention, show an interest in those around you. In conversation, people are not inclined to evaluate how interesting you are. They are evaluating how well you might suit the role of realizing their self-worth. Express your interest in others with sincerity. Outer Intention helps you to realize the the inner intention of others. Let go of the intention to get and replace it with the intention to give. As a result, you will get the very thing you gave up. Argument and criticism are the mind's battle with the alternatives flow. Avoid any action that injures others' self-esteem. At the beginning of any conversation, take a turn with your partner so that you are moving in the same flow direction together. Do not justify your mistakes. Consciously admit them. Adopt the role of defending other people when they are right. A display of genuine liking for someone brings down their protective barrier. Asking a small favor of someone is the best way of befriending them. Healthy visualization creates a condition of comfort on the energetic level. An individual's personal power and influence is proportional to their free energy. Charm is the result of mutual love between heart and mind. Allow yourself the luxury of having shortcomings and lacking strengths. The excess potential of inner importance is dissipated through action.