The speaker explains how choosing one’s destiny involves recognizing the difference between personal goals—those that naturally resonate with the heart—and foreign goals, which are imposed by external influences (pendulums) and feel like obligations, prestige, or fashion. Foreign goals bring resistance, discomfort, and serve others’ material interests, while personal goals bring joy and ease. The talk stresses freeing oneself from pendulums, listening to the inner voice, and using “target slides” (mental images of the desired outcome) to clarify true goals. Once a personal goal is identified, the appropriate “door” (path) can be visualized; outer intention will open that door, and feelings of inspiration confirm the correct choice. Practical advice includes not conflating goal and door, avoiding scripts, not burning bridges, and trusting oneself while ignoring external pressure.
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Goals and Doors. The only excuse in the process of choosing your destiny is the fact that not all goals and doors in the Alternative Space are truly meant for you. This does not mean, however, that you cannot choose them. Nothing prohibits you from making such a choice, but you can expect to encounter problems as a result. Do you really need that? When you choose foreign goals and doors, you are taking the path of greatest resistance. The whole beauty of the freedom of choice lies in the fact that personal goals and doors appear appear to the individual to be so much better than any other. But in order to indulge in freedom of choice, you have to free yourself from the influence of Pendulums that impose foreign goals and doors. Summary: A foreign goal is always punishing, coerced, and feels like an obligation. A foreign goal appears in the guise of fashion and prestige. A foreign goal attracts you with its apparent unattainability. A foreign goal forces you to prove something to yourself and to others. A foreign goal is imposed upon you by others. A foreign goal serves to improve someone else's material well-being. A foreign goal makes you feel uneasy. In the process of achieving the goal, you will fulfill all other desires along the way. What is your heart drawn to? What would make your life joyful and happy. Do not think about the means until you have clearly determined your goal. Having made the decision, be aware of how your inner voice responds. Slides can eliminate inner inhibitions, but never inner discomfort. The heart always knows exactly what it does not want. It is not the mind's task to do the searching when you are looking for your goal. It is the mind's task to absorb information from the outside world at the same time as paying particular attention attention to the still inner voice within. Your door is the path that will lead you to your goal. If you cannot see the path, picture the mental image of your target slide. Outer intention will open your door for you to your target lifeline. If you experience a feeling of inspiration on the path to your goal, you know that you have chosen the door meant specifically for you. Everything you do willingly and easily has meaning and value. Do not include any scripts. In the target slide. You already have what you want. Do not put your goal and door in one basket. Find a potential substitute. Do not slam any doors or burn any bridges. Do not allow yourself to be influenced by others. Trust yourself.