Vadim Zeland's Reality Transurfing teaches that your heart senses intention while your mind provides will, and their coordination lets you act with purpose. Minimize importance to escape "pendulums," the social forces that trap you in stereotypes. Use inner comfort, not prestige, to guide decisions.
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Heart and Mind. The mind has will but is incapable of feeling outer intention. The heart can feel outer intention but is not capable of will. When heart and mind are united, they harness the will of outer intention. Your heart is just as good as the heart of others. You deserve the absolute best. You have everything you need. All you have to do is use it. Stars are born independently, but Pendulums light them up. Pendulums hide the fact that every individual has unique capabilities. The rule "do as I do" creates the Pendulum's widely accepted stereotypes. Every soul has its own individual star sector. If the mind allows it to, the heart will find its sector. Allow yourself the boldness to sneeze at stereotypes. Allow yourself the boldness to believe in the unlimited capabilities of your soul. Allow yourself the boldness to exercise the right to your own amazing Individuality. Keep the joy and give the pride to your angel. Human thought and behavior is conditioned by dependency on pendulums. Keep importance to a minimum and act with conscious awareness. Do not attribute anything excessive meaning. You do not need importance. Pendulums do. It is not effort and steadfastness, but conscious intention that keeps importance at zero. Frail characterizes the individual essence of the human soul. In chasing after other people's standards, the mind becomes all the more divorced from the heart. You will acquire many hidden virtues by attuning your mind to the soul's frail. In a state of unity, the heart sings and the mind rubs its hands in satisfaction. Focusing on the means, the mind places a fatal cross on the elusive goal. Allowing yourself to have is the most important condition to fulfilling your desires. Despite all its attractiveness, if something weighs on you, the goal may be false. Never believe anyone who expects you to change yourself. Inner discomfort manifests as heavy anxiety, a feeling of being burdened, and oppression. A feeling of inner comfort does not signal an unequivocal yes. A feeling of inner discomfort signals an unequivocal no. When considering your goal, do not think about how prestigious or realistic it is. Do not think about the means to achieve it. Give your attention to how comfortable thinking about it makes you feel. Any affirmation should be accompanied by corresponding feelings. Every affirmation should be positive and have a narrowed focus. Focus the affirmation on the cause, not the effect. Formulate the affirmation in the present tense. When the will to have is free of the desire to have, the pendulum has nothing to hook into. You calmly take what is yours without insistence, just like you take the post from your letterbox.
