How Calling The Shots & Taking Command In Your Reality Limits Abuse Reality Transurfing Vadim Zeland

Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV! And today, I am going to be doing a video by request. I've actually had a couple of people— in the last month or so reach out to me asking— well, it wasn't requested, but it's in line with some questions that I've been asked privately about people experiencing domestic turmoil, domestic abuse, really, really hard domestic situations. And coming from a long history of— Domestic tumult, right? Domestic violence and flying domestic objects. It's horrible! I shouldn't be making a joke! I feel I can joke a little about it now simply because I've had so much experience with this, and I finally realized at a certain point that I didn't have to tolerate it anymore. I know for 100% fact, with every cell in my body, with all certainty, that I would never allow myself into a domestic situation again where I encountered abuse, or physical abuse, mental abuse, any of that kind of stuff. So, for those of you that have asked me, and if you are catching this video, this is, in my opinion, the way that you deal with these situations, is you exit. The line of fire, because you really can't Transurf someone out of deeply embedded destructive behavioral patterns. It takes you getting yourself into more constructive patterns for yourself, and removing yourself from those destructive patterns. And this is really stepping out of the line of fire, right? But this video is not only for those people. This stepping away from the line of fire, fire is really for anyone that is encountering any events, any material, any words, anything coming in your direction from your external environment that you are not happy with, right? Energy. It could be other people's energy, it could be whatever. If you are encountering something coming at you, that you don't like in your external environment, you can remove yourself, you can step out of the line of fire. So, the Webster's Dictionary states the line of fire is injuries that occur when part of a moving object intersects with the individual, right? And there are 3 ways people encounter line of fire. 1, caught in or between incidents. This could be like when you were a kid and your parents were headed towards divorce and they were having a crazy battle with each other and you were caught in the line of fire in the center, right? This could be what is called "struck by" incidents. I don't know exactly what that means, but I perceive it as something really just coming from your external environment and striking you. This could be abuse from another person, this could be emotional abuse, or emotional— even emotional neglect, right? This could be anything that is coming to you via your environment that's hitting you and throwing you off, or causing you some sort of injury or damage, or any kind of emotional assault, anything like that. And then, really interesting, it said "Released energy!" 3rd one. So, released energy incidents. I mean, if you just look at this from a metaphysical Transurfing perspective, this could just be people's negative energy, you getting hit by people's negative energy, or by the negative energy of Pendulums in your reality, right? I mean, let's just say the media. God! Released energy incidents? The media's releasing this massive burst of negative energy and it hits you. Gets you, you're caught in the line of fire, and then injuries occur. This is you experiencing loss of energy, this is you experiencing the Induced Transition, this is you starting to highlight a negative sector of reality in response to you being blasted by this negative energy. So, this really applies to everyone in one way or another, stepping away from the line of fire. So, interesting quote that I just read, "Those who call the shots are never in the line of fire." Boom! This is creating your own reality, right? This is you calling the shots and you ruling your layer of reality and deciding what stays and what goes. And you doing what you need to do to clean your layer of your world, and you call the shots so you are never— never in the line of fire, because we are the ones that put ourselves there. And I know this is a little bit controversial, and oftentimes when I talk of these things— in fact, I know that YouTube now will demonetize this video, which is fine! Hi, YouTube! But usually, when I talk about us being accountable for what we're experiencing, that can be thrown into the category of victim blaming, and as soon as— the YouTube algorithm picks up on the fact that I've said "victim blaming," they demonetize the video and they kind of retract it from the flow so not that many people see it. Because it's not a popular thing to be discussing, right? Pendulums do not want us to buy into the idea that we are accountable. As long as you continue to place blame, you're connected with that Pendulum and you're resonating at a low frequency. So the Pendulum can continue to extract your energy from you. As soon as you take accountability and responsibility for yourself and your thoughts and your own actions, and you remove yourself from the line of fire, you remove yourself from the Pendulum, you are ruling your own reality. And that's when Pendulums cannot decide your fate for you, right? So, those who call the shots are never in the line of fire. This is really what it boils down to. Once you take accountability for yourself and your actions, and you decide what stays and what goes, you've exited the line of fire, right? You've exited the line of fire. So, a couple of questions that I want to extend to you all. How are you in the line of fire today? Are you in the line of fire with negative energy coming from somebody? Are you in the line of fire with actual abuse? Are you in the line of fire— maybe you're in between a couple of people fighting. Maybe you are in a pattern of allowing somebody to abuse you, either physically or emotionally, or just abuse your energy, right? Maybe you have somebody that uses you, maybe you have somebody that takes you for granted. So, how are you in the line of fire today? How can you pinpoint a way that you are in the line of fire and really call awareness to it and call it for what it is? When you're in the line of fire with something, and you don't acknowledge it, it's like a slow bleed-out of energy, and that Pendulum just continues to extract and extract and extract. And sometimes, the more mild versions of abuse are in fact the worst, because you don't recognize it for what it is and you think, "Oh, well, some people have it a lot worse. I actually have it okay." But you still have that slow bleed-out of energy. And when there is this slow bleed-out of energy, it's really challenging for you to create your own reality and build up your Meta Power. Because again, you're in the line of fire, you've got a Pendulum extracting your energy from you, or trying to keep you down in some of those lower Lifelines. And it becomes very challenging to create your own reality in these circumstances. 2! How can you wake up today to the reasons why you stay or why you allow this to happen? So, just as I touched on a moment ago, a lot of people are like, "Well, a lot of people have it a lot worse!" Or, "This is just my lot in life!" Or, "This is all I deserve! I'm kinda like a POS and this is all I deserve, so I'm just gonna take it!" Right? So, how can you wake up— more to the reasons why you're allowing yourself to be injured, or energy to be depleted from you, or just to be in the line of fire in general, in any way in your life. 3, how can you exit the line of fire? Now, this is where it gets interesting. We can just remove ourselves, right? We can just say, "You know what, I'm tired of this and I'm out of here," right? And you can leave. But for a lot of people, that's not a viable option. So, Transurfing gives us some ways that we can manage the Pendulums and the people in our lives, and still be in the presence of these entities while removing ourselves from the line of fire. Now, again, touching on the initial reason why I started this video, for the couple of people that were talking about domestic violence, I really don't think that you can stay in the situation and exit the line of fire. Those are extreme circumstances, probably time to go, right? But for those of you that are maybe just around somebody that's toxic, or maybe your professional environment, maybe you're under fire a lot and people are demanding a lot of you, or again, couple of people in your family fighting and you're caught in the middle, whatever it is, you can activate your Inner Observer, read up on Pendulums, how to extinguish the Pendulum, right? Renting yourself out. All of these sort of tools that allow you to maintain the presence of the Pendulum while lessening those— So, what I like to envision is that Pendulums hook us, right? They get a hook in. And once that hook's in, there's like a cord from you to that Pendulum, and that's where the energy gets extracted. Now, you can take that hook off. And sever that energetic line that was typically there, but still give the Pendulum the appearance that you're connected in the same way that it was getting you energetically. But this time, you're just aware that the Pendulum's doing this. You're giving it the idea that it's still getting the energy from you, but you're not giving it the same way, because you're awake, right? "I see myself, I see my reality." So, you can actually do this, take that hook off, sever that energetic connection and exit the line of fire with these tools, renting yourself out, activating your Inner Observer, everything besides just battling the Pendulum in a way where you either remove yourself or you actually battle it and you defeat it, right? So, 4, remember your Mirror. This is— This is a doozy! Because this can be a little bit of a head trip. What you're experiencing now is via what you have put out to your world. So, what have you put out into your world that has caused you that fire coming back at you? Right? So, a lot of times, this could just simply be— Vadim Zeland talks about this in the book. Feelings of inferiority or inadequacy. You say, "Oh, I'm inferior," or "Oh, I'm inadequate," and your world agrees with you, and then says, "Oh, you're inferior? Well, here, take more that's going to prove you're inferior or you're inadequate!" So, your world always agrees with you. So, maybe for some of you that are experiencing some sort of line of fire, maybe this could be from low self-esteem, again, feelings of inadequacy. Feelings of not being good enough. Maybe it's even you yourself being angry or toxic, or something destructive coming from you, and your world is giving you back more of the same. I know this is not the case for everybody, but for some of you, maybe it is. And maybe it's time to really look at the essence that you're putting out into the world towards your Mirror, and asking why you're getting the response back that you are from your Mirror. In Reality Transurfing, there are no victims. No victims! The world's Mirror amalgam is simply a reflection back of our attitudes, beliefs, and actions towards it. So, there are no victims in Reality Transurfing. If you are feeling like you're a victim, it's time to start really taking a look at what you are presenting to your Mirror. And 5, I will leave you with this, question your theories! So, again, getting back to these ideas of, "Oh well, I'm just not— this is my lot in life," or, "I don't deserve anymore." So, again, when you create a theory for yourself, you make that theory become true. By gathering supporting evidence from your external environment to support that theory. So, your reality right now is simply a theory that you created at some point in your life, and you have worked to actually materialize that version of reality. That's the version of reality that you have highlighted, the sector that you've highlighted. And it started with your theory. Right? It started with your theory. So, question your theories now. If you're in the line of fire, what theory is the root of that? Right? What theory is the root of that? If you're in the line of fire, it started somewhere way back with a theory that you created about yourself or your environment. And this is simply a product of that theory. This is more information, material, and evidence coming in your direction that you are choosing to have in your layer of reality, because that's the layer of reality, that's the sector of reality that you have chosen to highlight. So, the presence— that's the Set and Decorations. The presence— of those circumstances are the set and decorations for that Lifetrack that you've created for yourself. I know for a lot of people, this is gonna sound a little bit harsh, and it is a little bit harsh to accept it first. But once— especially for those of you that are experiencing extreme circumstances, really questioning why you're there and what you can do to remove yourself, and what you can do to never return there. And again, this is— creating new theories for yourself, and really looking at your Mirror and deciding what the essence of you is, what your essence is that you are projecting to your Mirror, and why you're getting that result back, why you're getting that response back. So, let me know your thoughts on this video, everybody! I know this is a little bit of a doozy. I'm definitely curious to hear your thoughts and your take on this. Are you in the line of fire today? How can you step back from the line of fire? How can you never return to the line of fire? And remember, those who call the shots are never in the line of fire! So, let me know your thoughts, and thank you so much for watching this video! Bye, guys!