How EXACTLY The People In Your Life Effect Your Reality Creation Practice w Transurfing Vadim Zeland

Hello, Transurfer! And welcome to Transurfing TV! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is my video on the round table, or rather, your round table! So, I was reading something the other day, and oh my God, it hit me like a ton of bricks! I was like, this is pure genius. So I wanted to share it with you guys because it's powerful. Now it might be a little bit disrupting to your life. I will give you a little bit of a warning. If you do decide to go forward with some of the things that I'm going to be talking about, you are going to see some massive change in your reality and it may just upset a number of people. So with that, before I start, Before we start, remember to like this video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" to enter my daily giveaway for some of these awesome reprogramming stickers! So, yes! I have stated a lot, and I believe Vadim Zeland states it as well, that we are the kings and queens of our reality, right? I'm the queen of my reality. You are the king of your reality. You are the queen of your reality. And you have to rule your reality! Like you are ruling a kingdom, right? You have to govern it. You have to really look at all the different parts and pieces that are in your life and you need to manage them. It is your little kingdom. And when you're not managing the situation well, there's chaos in your kingdom, right? And maybe this, um, puts you into an induced transition, depression. Maybe you don't know where you're going. Maybe you don't feel heart and mind coordination over something. Something, or you've got a bunch of pendulums on you that won't allow you, or you won't allow yourself to break free from living the reality of your choosing. So, I think because of the pandemic in the last few months, I've had a lot of messages from people that are very challenged with others in their lives, primarily people they live with. Family members, and also spouses and children too. Now I know you can't really apply this to children, but pretty much everyone else you can. So we have been indoors, we've been quarantined, we've been, you know, stay home orders and all this stuff. And we've really been interacting with the people in our lives more so than we have in days prior, right? And this has caused a lot of friction for some people in in their lives with the quality of engagement, the quality of interaction, the quality of mutual energy back and forth. And I think a lot of people are finding themselves in some pretty unhappy situations in regards to other people. Again, family members and love interests primarily. So, what I am suggesting here, and what I read— is that you sit down and start to assess who is in your life, like you are a king or queen in your reality, and the different people in your life are your knights, right? They're your knights and they're sitting at a round table and you are going to really assess assess and get into what role these people serve for you. And are they helping you or hurting you in your life? Primarily, are they helping you to connect to your higher self? Are they helping you to connect to your higher good? Do they believe in your higher self? Do they believe in your higher good? Or do they believe in you, of the, the version of you in a lower nature, right? Or do they maybe tell you that you're not capable, or that will never happen for you, or you can't do that, or that's not meant for you, or some other sort of weighty statement or idea about you that is holding you back from ascending to those higher lifelines? So who specifically is at your table is the first step. Step. Okay? So, asking yourself, "Who is at my table?" And this could be— now, obviously, kids are kinda left out, because you can't really just get rid of kids. But ask yourself, "Who is around me every day?" Again, friends, family, coworkers, romantic stuff. Whoever! Just try to really get down to who you're encountering, who you have to encounter on a daily— that maybe you need to consider not encountering daily! Or encountering them in another way. And I'm actually gonna tell you guys something pretty personal at the end of this video, if you're still watching, just to let you know. That I put my money where my mouth is, right? I'm actually living this stuff. So again, who is at your table and what purpose are they serving? Are you feeling good at them about them being at your table? Are they feeling good about being at your table? Are you feeling good about being at their table and are they feeling good about you being at their table? So obviously we want to focus on our table for now, but if you are in a toxic relationship with someone where both people are not benefiting from the presence of each other, then it's definitely time to consider some other options, right? So why is really the big one here. Why are these people at your table? So let's say you've done your little assessment, right? And you say, okay, I've got 12 people in my "Regular life. I've got family, I've got my romantic partner, I've got my kids, I've got this, I've got that." 12 kinda like mainstay people. Why are they in my life? Okay, obviously your kids are in your life because you birthed them, they're yours. Your spouse, why is he in your life? Okay? Is he in your life to be a partner to you, be a father to your kids, all that stuff? Is he doing that? Is it serving everyone the way that it should be? With your family, with your immediate family, more like your parents or your siblings, do you feel good about them being in your life? Are they helping you, again, connect to that higher version of yourself or your higher good? Do they see the higher good or the higher version of yourself? Do they wanna help you by putting you up and helping you feel good and giving you encouragement and all that? Or are they putting you down constantly and putting something in your direction that is definitely not going to help you expand? Sell or climb to those higher tracks. So again, why are the people sitting at your round table? This gets into the challenging part. So if you ask yourself why, okay, why are they at the table? And you say something like, well, it's my mom, right? And she's, she's always been there. Okay. So this is where it gets pretty tricky. And this is where, you know, you really gotta man up. I'm gonna try to clean up my language here and not get too— You gotta man up, and you have to ask yourself, are you just holding on to the relationship because it's always been there, or because society says that it should always stay there, or it's a conventional way to do the thing, right? Or, or if everything was wiped out, if you could do anything you wanted in this world with certain people in your life and you didn't have to worry about what society says, what's conventional, how the others think, right? Or what's going to happen if you decide you don't want them in your reality anymore. So this is about you really really taking control! And I mean taking control in a way that most people do not ever have the audacity to do! This is a powerful exercise in you truly taking the reins of control of your reality in your own hands, and you saying to yourself, "The one sitting at my table—" are going to make me feel good about myself— or not make me, right? But are going to believe in me, are going to help me, are going to at least acknowledge or see that higher version of myself just as much as I do! So, I actually— and this is super personal stuff and I'm just gonna lay it out here! For years, I have really attempted— to be the best daughter I can be. I've been an over-giver. I've been concerned with others in my family my whole life, especially from when I was a kid. And it actually quite traumatized me. I didn't have a childhood and I was a caregiver from a very, very young age. And I just turned 40 last year, right? And some stuff went down. My sister got cancer. Things have happened in my family. And all of a sudden I realized that I had gone into Uber caregiver mode, and I was giving a lot more than I was getting in return. So I was giving, yet my parents who have never really acknowledged their ways were continuing to do some pretty shitty stuff, like verbally abuse me, my mom really criticizing me, being weird with me about all sorts of things. And I'm already challenged to do everything that I'm doing in my life, let's say Reality Transurfing, my other businesses, care for my sister who's got cancer, support a boyfriend who's just started his own business. I've got lots and lots and lots and lots going on in my life. Then I have my parents who are not doing well. My father's a full-blown alcoholic, my mom has been in denial her entire life. She really struggles with herself emotionally, and it really goes on me. And finally, I realized, "Oh my God! They don't see the higher me. They're not interested in the higher Renee. They're not interested in helping me feel good about myself. They wanna keep me down at their level, because they are just so— they're not gonna climb up out of it," right? So, they don't want to see me do something big or great or be happy or any of that stuff. They wanna keep me right there with them, as they do with most of the family members. So, this was my very, like, honest moment of who's at my round table? And are they helping me? Do they see the higher version of Renee? Do they want Renee to succeed and be healthy and happy? And there were 4 names that I just didn't see. I see it. And I was like, that's it. I know this is kind of extreme. And I know that it's a little controversial, but if I truly am going to be the creator of my reality, that means I get to choose and I'm not going to let someone else choose or a script choose who is going to be in my life, especially if it does not serve my higher intentions, my higher good, my higher self, all of that stuff! So, I got a book that's going to help me through the entire thing, and I am going to cut out a few people that were once around my table! Now, I know everyone, for the most part in my life, and maybe even some of you, are gonna be like "Oh my God, that's so sad! She couldn't make it work!" And this is what I realized with Reality Transurfing. Sometimes with Reality Transurfing— Reality Transurfing can help you to keep things going, and with your inner observer, and with all your tools that you know as a Transurfer, it can help you, Frailing, all that stuff, keep relationships going for sure! But it can also help you in detaching, if you feel so inclined to do so, right? If you do decide that you want better or higher quality people sitting around your round table, that is totally your choice! And do not let society, your family, somebody else in your life, whatever, tell you that that is not okay! If you are in a cycle of abuse, or a cycle of something that is not good for you, cut it loose! Cut it loose! And Reality Transurfing, just as much as it will help you to keep it going, will help you to detach from it as well, 100%! Hallelujah! You know? So, the bottom line is, I'll leave you with this! Are the people in your life— helping you to connect with your higher self? Do they see your higher self and do what they can to help you to connect? This can be giving you encouraging words. You have an idea. Oh yeah, you can do that. That's for you. What could I do to help? Are people wanting to see you rise up or people trying to keep you down? Are they helping you? Or are they hurting you? And if they're hurting you, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from cutting that off and going your own path! So, I know this is a crazy one, you guys! I'm so curious to hear your thoughts! And please like this video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" because it is! It absolutely always is taking care of you! And even if you have to do something difficult or challenging in your life, this saying, man, it'll help you see it through, I promise you that. So thank you so much for watching my video, everyone. And I look forward to hearing your thoughts. Bye.