Clarissa Chiaese explains how lowering the importance you assign to problems lets solutions arrive without forcing them. She uses Vadim Zeland's Reality Transurfing to show that most stress comes from self-generated concerns, not real ones. Ask if the problem will matter in twenty years or if two other people share it. If not, step back and let alternatives flow to you.
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Don't forget this! And people expect you to do this! And you gotta read this! And you gotta read that! And you gotta watch this! Hello, Transurfer! And welcome to Transurfing TV! And my talk on less! Less is more! We have so much information coming into our lives right now that we're— bombarded, like absolutely bombarded with, um, you gotta do this and you gotta do that and you must do this and don't forget this and people expect you to do this and you gotta read this and you gotta read that, you gotta watch this. And it's all a bit maddening, right? So the reason that I'm giving this talk— oh, first let me remind everyone, like this video and comment in the comment section below 'I love Reality Transurfing' to win some of these amazing stickers. I know they're upside down, They're awesome! Everybody loves them! So, yes! So, the reason that I'm giving this talk today is because I have lots of people message me. I'm really good about getting back to people, or at least I try to be. And I've heard literally thousands and thousands and thousands of people and their problems! And oftentimes, people come to me and they're like, you know, all these pages of text, "And then he said this, and then she said that, and what do I do?" What do I say? And then I did this. And I'm just like, dude, none of the answer is in any of that stuff. The answer is in you retracting, you lowering your levels of importance, you pulling back and not needing to find the solution. So oftentimes, and Vadim says this in the book a number of times, human beings create their own problems and then they waste energy trying to solve them, right? But here's the thing about human beings. One, oftentimes your, your mind, your inner intention mind that has worked you into a quote unquote problem is not going to be able to find the solution with the same tools and thought patterns that got you there in the first place, right? This is just one thing that I have seen over and over and over and over. Once a person has created a quote unquote problem in their life, their stuff that they have, their tool chest, most likely will not solve the problem at all. It will just complicate it even more and make matters worse. Now, if somebody does happen to solve a problem or find a solution via their inner intention, they will simply fill that gap with a new problem. This is people that are constantly involved in drama. This is people that are constantly thinking like, something's wrong or something. I need to have something, or he isn't doing what I want, or she isn't doing what I, what I want. I have so many people message me that want to change another person that want to, uh, affect their reality or change their reality using inner intention. So first off, I'm going to talk a little bit about Outer Intention helping you find the solutions, backing down off of your problems, lowering the level of importance to simply have the problems or challenges dissolve because your importance levels no longer create a foundation for the problem. And how less is so much more in the Reality Transurfing modality! So first, outer intention. Vadim Zeland says in the book that usually if we can let go into the alternatives flow, outer intention will indeed bring our solution to us. So remember what Vadim says in the Tufti book about us being responsive snakes. Snails. So the snails with its antennas, right, is just sort of responding to its environment. So something happens, snail picks up on it, responds. What Vadim is presenting is that we don't respond. We simply allow. We wake up. I see myself, I see my reality. I am not going to continue to make a problem out of this situation. Now, if a problem or a challenge still forms in your environment, accept that the answer may not come from you. It might come from the alternatives flow via outer intention. So for me, I'm going to talk about myself as an example. In the past, I would do all kinds of crazy things to try to get people to see it my way, or to try to do what I needed to do to solve the problem, or get it, you know, complicated, convoluted, use my inner intention thinking mind, freak out, panic, anxiety, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Now, whenever I encounter a problem, I simply sit back and wait for the solution. Whatever thoughts I have, about the issue, I just let them sort of flow through me like water. I don't let them catch onto anything. That's your importance levels, right? You sort of assigning, okay, well this is important, so I'm going to focus on this. Don't do any of that stuff. Just try to control or manage rather your importance levels surrounding the challenge or the problem and sit back and let your reality take care of it for you. So again, now if something arises in my reality, I don't respond. I don't freak out. I don't panic. I say, "World, help me out with this one." And sure enough, usually it's like 24 hours or 48 hours. My world brings me the solution to my problem. So lowering importance levels, this is you really adopting the idea that it doesn't matter. So what I like to say is a problem is really only substantial if I am going to remember it 20 years from now. So if I have something arise in my reality, I ask myself, do I think I'll remember this 20 years from now? Or is it just sort of a temporary thing that I'll lose all memory of really? Now obviously, if something massive happens and I think, "Oh, this is gonna be a life-changing event," right? "I will remember this 20 years from now," then it probably does deserve some attention. But if you don't think that you're going to even remember it 20 years from now, it's not a problem. The other thing that I like to say is, do you— or ask myself, "Do other people see it as a problem?" So, I like to think that I need at least 2 other people in my reality to also see it as a problem. If 2 other people in my reality do not see it as a problem as it pertains to me as well, then it's just in my mind. It's just my importance levels creating the problem. So if I'm all bent out of shape or, you know, hot under the collar for some reason, and my boyfriend's like, dude, relax, why are you tripping out? I know it's just a problem in my head because he also doesn't see it as a problem. Now, if he sees it as a problem too, I'll usually bounce it off a third person, because sometimes we can get wrapped up into the problems of other people. So, this is really just stopping, taking a step back. I see myself, I see my reality. Is this actually an issue, or is this just an issue in my mind? How can I lower my levels of importance surrounding this challenge? How can I open myself up to Outer Intention via the Alternatives Flow to help me find the solution? How can I remain in my Center Screen more and not be that responsive snail? Right? Do two other people view it as a problem? Will I remember this in 20 years? So, I know this is kind of a lot of stuff, but really, less is more! You don't need more books! You don't need more overthinking. Overthinking, worrying, having anxiety isn't gonna help anything. No solution will come to you in that frequency. In fact, whatever you do when you're in that frequency, you're probably just gonna make matters worse, right? So, limit or restrict your propensity to try to find the solution. Don't go to more books, don't go to more YouTube videos. Try to find the answer within yourself. If you can't open your life to Outer Intention to bring you the solution to your quote unquote problem, because remember, a lot of us don't actually have problems. We just have high Importance levels. So, with that, please like this video and comment in the comment section below "I love Reality Transurfing!" and see if you win some of these awesome reprogramming stickers! Thanks so much for watching my videos, everybody! Bye!
