In this instructional video, Renee Garcia of Transurfing TV explains how to handle "mannequins" – people who act like scripted NPCs or pendulums that drain personal energy. She outlines a step‑by‑step Transurfing approach: first, perform an energetic clearing visualization while repeating the mantra “I see myself, I see my reality,” which grounds and purges unwanted emotions. Next, recognize that the other person is in a "sleeping" state, following a script, and respond by "renting yourself out" – outwardly giving them what they want while internally staying detached. She introduces the technique of "frailing," where you subtly steer the interaction to serve your own script without direct confrontation. She advises limiting the amount of time spent with such individuals, especially in high‑energy environments like family gatherings, and strongly warns against arguing, describing it as energetically depleting. Throughout, she emphasizes activating the inner observer before entering any potentially triggering scenario, and provides practical examples such as navigating Thanksgiving conversations. The video also includes promotional mentions of her courses, social media, and a giveaway.
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Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV! Thanks for being here with me, everybody! Before I get started, remember to like this video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" to enter my daily giveaway for my reprogramming stickers, y'all! And today— Teachable link down below, Teachable course, Reality 2.0. And Facebook down below, and Instagram down below, and it's all down below! Okay. So, how to deal with mannequins? I just got challenged the other day by a couple of mannequins, and oh my God! I like really had to kick into extreme Transurfing mode, because— The mannequins kinda triggered things, and I felt myself going into reactive snail mode. And then I was like, "Wait! Don't do it! You see yourself, you see your reality, Renee! This is what you're trying to tell everybody! You better do it right now!" So, I kicked in! And oh my God! It felt so damn good! I felt like I just kinda floated away! From the scenario. And when I got home, I felt great. And obviously, I'm feeling good talking about it now, because I realized, in doing this stuff, you take back and you hold so much of your own personal power. You're not just constantly bleeding it out to everybody. Every mannequin or snail that's like, you know, got you triggered and responding and all that stuff. So, it works! And the reason that we practice this stuff again is because it's very challenging to create your own reality if you are depleted energetically. Either you keep your energy for yourself, or Pendulums and mannequins get your energy. So, the more that you can deal with these scenarios— and there's a lot! A lot of them right now, right? We're in a very politicized time, people are all up in arms and triggered about all kinds of crap, and they want others— this is the weird thing about being a human right now at this stage of the game. For some reason, it's valuable for mannequin people that others adhere to their same beliefs. That everyone must adhere. So I'm, I'm playing mannequin, right? Everyone must adhere to my beliefs or I'm going to react and start lashing out and trying to get you to adhere to my belief system. Oh my God. Can you imagine living like that? Can you imagine what that reality is like? I don't even want to think about it. I can't even begin to imagine what the mirror must look like to a person, to a mannequin acting like that. But we as As Transurfers, we have another option, right? We can disengage and we can deal with the mannequins in a way where we reserve our own energy, keeping it for ourselves, therefore able to create our own reality, right? Not just being a puppet of the Pendulum getting us to adhere to their ideas and beliefs, and then just— and before you know it, your life's not your own, and— Whatever! We don't even need to go into the rest, we know how gross it is, right? So, how do you deal with a mannequin exactly? Well, if you did not watch my video on influencing others, I actually gave a little practice of clearing yourself energetically before going into a situation where there's going to be people or mannequins. So, what you do is, very simply, stop yourself. Right? Stop yourself before you enter into a scenario. "I see myself, I see my reality." You imagine an energetic light beam coming down into your head, right? From high up, coming down into your head, going into your body, going all the way to your feet, and letting that ground you. And then letting it reverse and come back up and take whatever weird energy that you wanna get rid of just right out of your body. Just let it— just shoot right out of your body. So it could be some resentment you've been holding onto. It could be some, you know, irritation, discontent, whatever it is. Let that, let that light come in and just go down, come back up and take it all out. It could take a split second, right? Just shh, and out. And obviously I see myself and I see my reality. This is you waking up before you go into a situation where you are going to encounter stuff that may cause you to lose yourself to another Script or to react. So, first, "I see myself and I see my reality." Secondly, acknowledge that who you are encountering is in a sleeping state. Now, if they prove to you otherwise— then whatever. But just at first. So, if you come up to somebody and they say something, "Well, why didn't you blah blah blah blah blah blah blah!" Before you get into "Blah blah blah, I did blah blah blah!" and doing what they did, stop yourself! "I see myself, I see my reality." And they're in a sleeping state, they're following a script. And what they're looking for me to do is to join that script and go along with them. "Right? This is a small pendulum, and they need me to adhere to it." So, you acknowledging that they are in a sleepy state, a pendulum needing to gather more energy to support its whatever, acknowledging that is going to be one of the most powerful steps in avoiding getting caught up in it. Tell them what they want and agree. This is like renting yourself out, right? Right? Just playing the part that they want you to play visually while you know that it is just a game, right? You understand it's a game, and you know what it is they're asking for, you know what it is they want you to do. You give that to them seemingly, but inside your mind, you're aware that the whole thing is just a game, therefore they're not going to attack you further. Because you're giving them what they want, but at the same time, you're reserving your energy for yourself by not getting caught onto their script and going into a version of reality that does not suit you or your intentions. This is huge! This is so big! Renting yourself out is so much fun, and it's so effective, and it is so— So energetically conserving. Oh my gosh! Can you guys hear my stomach? I'm fasting 20 hours a day now and my stomach is growling! I'm just gonna roll with it! Who cares, right? So, the next, Frailing. I'm fucking embarrassed! Oh my God! Did you hear that? Okay, whatever. I'm gonna keep going. I'm fasting 20 hours a day, so I knew it was gonna happen. After this, I'm breaking my fast. This is my last video before I break my fast. I'm super excited! Okay, Frailing is next! When you are encountering someone that's asking you for something, right? Frail them! But also, you can ask them for stuff by seemingly giving them what they're asking for, and just turn the situation into a— Turn the situation into a frailing situation where you try to, not in an inner intention way, get them to join your script. But maybe if you're encountering a mannequin that is really becoming a nuisance, try to figure out what it is they really need in order for them to feel good, and try to neutralize the situation, if you can! Without spending too much time. And that gets me to my final point on things to do. If you can't do that, and the person's just really, really on to something, or you don't like their energy, or they are just running with some script, right? Maybe it's time to just limit how much engagement you have with them. Do what you need to do and excuse yourself from the scenario as quickly as you can. So, absolutely what not to do here. Do not go into a situation without waking up first yourself, or at the very least activating your inner observer. Walking in blind to a government office to do something, or a toxic work environment, or whatever it is where you find yourself challenged by mannequins— Don't just go walking in, right? Stop yourself, even if it's just for a couple of seconds, and activate your inner observer. Clear yourself energetically, wake yourself up so you know what's coming at you when it comes at you. Again, enter into a dynamic environment of sleep, just said it. Argue. Okay, arguing with a mannequin. And I have a video coming out on this soon, on arguing in general. Arguing is so energetically depleting, it's unbelievable! Nobody ever listens to anybody, nobody ever gets anywhere, and both people just end up walking from that exchange feeling very, very tired and depleted. But arguing with a mannequin is really like the most non-Transurfing thing you could possibly do! Just don't do it! We don't even need to get into why, just don't do it! If you find yourself arguing and you wake up in an argument, say "I see myself and I see my reality," literally! And I know, talk about disrupting the Script! Literally, just get up! Get off the chair, stand up, or do whatever, and just leave! Just walk out the door! They'll call you later, and you can say "Oh, I'm sorry I left like that, I just woke up!" Oh God! Could you imagine doing that to somebody? That would be amazing! I'm gonna do that! Next time somebody— Somebody is challenging me and I wake up in something where I've lost myself and I've gone into snail mode, I'm just gonna stand up and just leave, get in my car, drive off, and then later say, "Oh, I'm sorry about that, I just woke up!" Oh, too funny! Don't use inner intention against Juan! Don't use your inner intention against the mannequin! That is not going to get you anywhere! Figure out how to frail the mannequin, right? Don't use Inner Intention to try to get what you want. Don't get sucked in, and don't react. I'll leave it with this. These are big ones. So, the thing is, when I put limit time here, limit time engaging, the thing is, is when we enter into a scenario— let's say you clear yourself energetically and you wake up and you activate your Inner Observer and all that good stuff, and then you go into family Thanksgiving. Okay? And you're in there for hours. And the first couple of hours are cool. Then you have a couple drinks, then the time starts to go, and then the thing starts to deteriorate, right? And then somebody throws some political bait out there, and somebody takes the bait, and then somebody decides that they want you to join in on the script, so you do. And blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, you get sucked into that script like an MF. You start reacting, and then you feel like crap because your original intention to see yourself and see your reality and maintain awareness and all that stuff has left you, and you feel like you've just been defeated, right? So, sometimes limiting time, if you do not trust yourself or feel confident in your Transurfing abilities at this point, if you really care to not go to that place— Now, if I were to go to something like that and something was to happen to me like that, I'd probably be okay with it, because afterwards I could just kinda clear myself up pretty quick and not necessarily go on an Induced Transition. But holidays, Thanksgiving, Christmas, that is Induced Transition city because of this kinda stuff exactly, getting sucked in, reacting, arguing, going on to that layer of reality where more of that stuff exists. And you can use these tools to combat the mannequins and keep yourself aware, and keep yourself energetically full, right? That's the idea! So, let me know what you think of this one, everybody! Are you doing this? Are you doing this? Are you managing your mannequins in your life? Are you being a mannequin right now? Let me know your thoughts! 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