HOW TO LET GO OF THE OLD AND MERGE INTO THE NEW WITH REALITY TRANSURFING

Hello, hello, hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! I'm Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV! And today on Transurfing TV, "Old reality, please don't go!" "Ooh! You're all I have! You're all I know! You're all I know, and I don't know what is beyond you!" So, I'll cling to you and clutch to you, and create resistance for the Alternatives Flow offering me other options and variations, because I've gotten so used to clutching onto this version of reality. I can't let go of it now. You know? This is like, I'm even here! Everyone's here! I think every single human being has the potential to evolve to something even higher and even better. Well, maybe not Elon Musk. Elon Musk's probably tapped out at this point. But the majority of us, have bigger and better things out there waiting for us. This is— how can this not be? How can this not be the case? It absolutely is the case. And it's this knowledge, this unbelievable knowledge here, that is going to help you get there, if you are willing to let go of your old reality. So, this video is very much in line with the video that I gave the other day called "Breakwater," right? Getting your little raft beyond that barrier, that breakwater that is keeping you restricted to a certain space. And this video is more about— what I would like it to be about is playing a Slide, sort of an ambiguous Slide. Not a Slide that has necessarily elements of what it is, you exactly want, because I know that a lot of people don't know what it is that they want, right? They don't know what it is that their heart and mind say yes over. They don't know what— they don't have an intention, they don't have a chosen goal, right? I get so many messages from people that are still struggling to find that. That thing. I had somebody message me the other day and say, "You're so lucky! You're so lucky that I've listened to you talk, and I've listened to your story, and you're so fortunate that you found Reality Transurfing and you took that as your goal. And now you have this amazing thing, which you're also using the concepts—" "to move forward, and I wish that I could connect with something like that. You're so lucky!" And I was like— for a brief moment, it kind of broke my heart a little bit, because I do realize that I'm super fortunate, right? I definitely feel as though my world's taking care of me and connecting me with exactly what I need to connect with in order to not only connect to a higher version of reality and a higher version of myself, but offering me all the things What are the things that I need in order to disconnect from that old version of reality? Right? Understanding where programming's coming into play, understanding where other people's ideas for me or old ways continue to keep me feeling ways that maybe I don't feel the self-esteem or the ability— to move on, right? So, lots of little things that have kept me stuck and kept me in places that were no longer nourishing this higher growth, right? All of these things are being managed by this knowledge. And at the same time, the knowledge is like catapulting me into my future. But I'm using it, I'm able to envision a version of reality that's higher and better, even if it isn't specific, and I'm able to let go of that old version of reality that is keeping me stuck or confined in certain ways. So, when this person messaged me and said that, I was just like, "You know what? Here's the thing. I set the intention for me to connect with Reality Transurfing." I set the intention for me to come in front of something higher and bigger and better, for me to meet up with that thing, right? So, I don't know if you have heard me talk about this story, but shortly after I found Reality Transurfing, when it was still just a book to me— now, it was a book that had changed my life and was changing my life, but everything was still kind of the same. The same, right? All the set and decorations, my life as I knew it was still the same. My mindset had changed, my worldview had changed, but I hadn't embarked on any new endeavors, I hadn't made any massive changes, right? So, I have this easy lifestyle, and things are functioning in a way in my life that are supporting. I'm not in a place where I'm like, "Oh my God! I need money!" Or— in any need of anything. But I knew a number of things that I sort of like didn't want to admit to myself. One, I was capable of so much more than that! Not only so much more like with my potential of what I had to offer the world, but so many different variations of reality. That I knew were out there to live. And like, I just kept telling myself, "Well, this is an easy deal for you, right? This is an easy deal for you. You don't have to do much. You make enough to support your little overhead that is your life. You have your nice little space." I had a little Airstream at the time parked on my grandparents' property, I had a cute little garden, I had my sweet little grandma and grandpa there. It was like a cakewalk, right? But I knew that I was like selling myself short big time. And— I just didn't wanna, like, face that. And also, too, I knew that there were skills that weren't being used, that life just wasn't being lived to the fullest. And this had been gnawing away at me, and something else started to brew within that I could no longer avoid. And one day, I met up with it face to face. In an actual mirror. I mean, how trippy is this, right? So, I get out of the shower, I'm toweling myself off, and I wipe away the fog on the mirror, and I look at myself, and I see wasted potential. I see a scared woman not living her life. I see a scared woman hiding. I see a scared woman clinging to that old reality, right? Clinging to that old reality. And I have this thought in my mind that just took me on an entirely different path that has been beyond anything that I could ever explain to anyone. And I still have a challenging time even explaining it to myself, or— reconciling it in my mind. And that thought was, "Life is easy for you, Renee. You've set it up this way, you're successful, life is easy for you. But what are you doing for others? What are you doing for others? And what are you holding back that others could possibly benefit from?" Now, this is even before— I started to give my own interpretation of Reality Transurfing, or speak publicly about Reality Transurfing. This was before any of this. The knowledge that I felt that I had at this point was all knowledge on, like, what not to do, right? How to not achieve success. I've achieved success. In all the wrong ways, and I have achieved success in all the right ways. So, at this time, all I was really interested in was maybe helping people out that were in a similar position as I had been, leading up to the moment where my reality did break, I found Reality Transurfing, and I realized that I absolutely was clinging on to an old version of reality that was no longer serving me, and it was time for me to, like, take flight! You know? It was time for me to finally fucking take flight! And I want this video to be about you maybe playing a Slide and coming to an understanding— that there absolutely is something bigger and better and higher out there for you in the world. And in order for you to go and meet this thing, you might have to do a little bit of work with letting the old reality go. Before I finish this video, remember to like it, comment, and subscribe to this channel. And join us on the 'International Transurfing Institute' Facebook group. Lots of very highly engaged and meaningful conversations going on there. And Instagram @reality_transurfing. And my courses, Reality 2.0 and Tufti 2.0, game changers if you are in fact in need of a complete reality renovation. Okay. So, a few ways in which— You can start to, like, determine some space. Determine some space for yourself where you can start asking yourself some meaningful things. "Am I clinging to that old version of reality? Is a new version of reality calling me out?" Right? "Is a higher version, the higher version of myself trying to get my attention?" to pull me up, and I'm still stuck clinging on to that lower version of reality. So, a few things to consider of why we tend to remain stuck. The first one that I wanna talk about is time. I read, probably a couple of years ago, that human beings actually have— a fairly negative relationship with the concept of time, that most people feel as though the majority of the time that's available to them is already passed, right? And there's actually like a split, and it's pretty extreme. Like, a lot of people, regardless of age, view like 80% of their life is behind them and there's only 20% left. To live. So, if you take this information and you apply it to what I'm talking about, a lot of times, you know, you can view maybe an idea that you have, maybe you wanna become something, but maybe it's something that you need to, like, go to school for a long time, or there's a big process. And I'm sure you've said it to yourself, I've heard lots of people say this, and I've said this to myself a lot. "I don't have the time." Right? So, "I don't have the time" is like really in line with this idea of having a negative relationship with the concept of time, that 80/20 split. You do have the time. You have as much time until you don't have time anymore. And the time is going to be used for something anyway, right? So, let's say you wanna become a doctor right now. Or you've had the idea to become a doctor, but you're like, "Oh, Jesus Christ! That's gonna be 8 years of school, minimum. Probably more than that, 10!" Right? So, let's say you're 40 years old right now, and your calling has been to be a doctor, like you felt that that is what you wanted to do with your life. But time sort of went by and you didn't do it, and it's always kind of there. I actually still have mine floating in the background just a little bit. And I thought I had kind of closed the door on it a long time ago, and I realized, even in my 40s now, you know what, if I wanted to do it, I could absolutely do it! I could absolutely do it! Because the time is going by anyway, so why not spend it doing the thing that I wanna do? Right? So, becoming the thing that I wanna become. So, the time is going— you have the time now, and you will always have the time until you do not have the time anymore. So, it's about getting your mind into a place where— and Vadim Zeland talks about this in the book, that the Mirror does not understand the concept of time, right? Time is an absolute human construct. All you need to do is focus on showing your Mirror the image that you want to see. And if you do this for an extended period of time, sometimes shorter, sometimes longer, you will become that thing. So, letting go entirely of the entire problem of time, right? And also starting to have a healthier relationship with time, to where you view maybe 50% of your life is behind you and 50% is in front of you. Or even, you could do a wilder split, right? And imagine yourself living to be 120 years old. Who cares if you don't live to 120 years old? Give yourself that extra, like, "Okay. So, I'm 42 years old. I've got freaking 60+ years to do whatever I want!" I could create so many new realities and let go of so many old realities in this time, it's almost stupid, right? So, another reason we remain stuck, others. Obviously, old relationships no longer serving us, people wanting us to adhere to the thing that's been set up the way that it's been set up, and not rock the boat, right? But again, is this just something you simply need to manage in order to free yourself up a little bit and go? Now, this doesn't mean necessarily getting rid of people. Sometimes it does, but a lot of times it doesn't. And I've had some people contact me and be like, "Oh, the Reality Transurfing stuff's great, but I really don't wanna give up my life as it is. I kinda like my life in certain ways, and other ways, I don't feel satisfied." Nobody's actually telling you to give up anything. You could do everything with the current set and decorations that you already have, same house, same partner, same— Whatever. It's just deciding that you are going to evolve and take things, with your current circumstances, in an entirely new direction. Sometimes it's not possible, sometimes it is. Okay. So, now, onto Limiting Beliefs. It's a doozy. I'm just gonna touch on it here, because this could be an entire video on its own. But Limiting Beliefs of like, "Well, maybe this is—" "The best thing that's available to me." And going and finding your soul's purpose, or that thing that completely ignites Heart and Mind Coordination, "That's for other people. That's not for me. Maybe I just don't have this thing. That stuff's intended for others. Maybe I missed the boat." Maybe— just all these, like— These small thoughts of all of this stuff being for other people, just like Vadim Zeland talked about in the very beginning of Reality Transurfing, when he was telling the story of the man overlooking the beautiful town with the guardian, and he says, "Well, God! Wouldn't that be nice?" And the guardian just kinda laughs and is like, "You have no—" You have no idea! Like, you have access to it just the same as everyone else! Why are you up here looking at it from a distance, saying, "Wouldn't that be nice?" Go walk down into the village and take your life, right? Take the life that you want. It is there for you. There are higher and better possibilities out there waiting for you. There is no— that there aren't. Comfort. Comfort is really a big one in keeping us stuck, right? "Oh, you know, but I'm comfortable here, and it might not be the best, but I'm comfortable here." What's more important, comfort or adventure and feeling as though you tapped that, right? Feeling as though you went into the world and maximized. Maximized. Yourself, maximized your opportunities, maximized whatever version of reality that is available to you, that you went into that and did what you could do to see the best version of reality that you could create for yourself with the skills and tools that you have now. Comfort is overrated! Because in my opinion, every single time I've been comfortable, there's been a nagging voice in there, "You are just—" Wasting it, Renee! You are just wasting it! So, finally, to wrap this video up, quick thought. What I have may be better than what's out there, right? This is in line with comfort. But this is, again, very limited thinking, that you have now maximized the version of reality that you could achieve for yourself. You're there! Right? There's no way! Even me! Even everyone! Even everyone! Except for Elon Musk! Elon Musk has maximized, right? So, just start to— if you are struggling today with understanding what the hell it is that I'm talking about, and, "Well, I don't know what to do to connect with that thing," and, "I don't know if there's something out there that my heart and mind are gonna feel ignited over. I don't know what that is, I don't know how to do it." "Connect with it!" This is what I'm gonna suggest, to leave those of you that have watched to the end. Try to envision, try to sense, try to feel a version of yourself living a higher and better reality starting today, right? Feel a little bit better about yourself, feel a little bit better about— Opportunities, right? Like, there are going to be opportunities to come. Open yourself up. Play a Slide of you just being open to the world, to show you the ways that you can sort of move on to a higher version of reality, or let go of that older version of reality, right? Play this Slide and feel the essence of this future version of you having accomplished a better version of reality for yourself. This is exactly how Outer Intention works. When you have this sensation, when you have this feeling that you can feel viscerally, and you can even play in your mind, it doesn't need to be specific, you're happier, healthier, wealthier, better looking, whatever it is, this frequency, goes out into the world, right? It goes out into the world and attracts exactly what it is you need to fulfill this order. This is how Reality Transurfing works. This is what I'm doing now, and I'm attracting everything that I need to pull me up to those higher versions of reality, right? And at the same time, tools are being offered to me, And I'm sharpening these tools and other methods and ways in which I can let go of those lower versions, those older versions of reality that are no longer serving me or my Higher Self. What do you think of this video? Do you like it? 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