Renee Garcia explains why people quit their goals and how Reality Transurfing prevents self-defeat. The framework uses inner and outer intention, heart-mind coordination, and a four-step process: acknowledgement, thought tuning, frequency matching, and action. Setbacks are reframed as advantages, not reasons to stop.
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Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia and this is Transurfing TV, y'all! And today I am going to talk about a subject that can have devastating effects on your life, your layer of reality, you achieving your goal! And that is giving up too soon! I have seen a lot of people! A lot of people find a goal for themselves with the Transurfing modality, because it is a goal-based modality, right? We believe in happiness is found on your path to your goal through your doors. So, this is really about you tapping into your purpose, the meaning for your life, all that good stuff. And this is where happiness comes from. But a lot of times, as I have seen, people sabotage themselves and their ability to reach their goal because they do a bunch of non-Transurfing kind of things. Remember though to like my video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" and Teachable course Reality 2.0 down below. So what happens exactly on the way to a goal? So we start out fiery, hot, right? We see something in our reality that triggers our heart and our mind, and we're like, oh God, that thing looks so good. And I'm super excited about it. And I'm going to do that thing. And then we start the initial steps. I know I'm guilty of this. I don't do it anymore because I definitely understand this stuff right here, but I have done it in the past where I start really taking actionable steps towards that goal. And then things don't play out exactly the way that I intended them to, right? Things seem against my intentions, and I slowly become discouraged or doubtful, and I abandon my goal! Because I convince myself, "Oh, it's not working out!" And I give up too soon! And a lot of people give up too soon! And Vadim Zeland teaches us— in this book in a number of different ways, the power and the effectiveness of staying steady and consistent. This all has to do with your mirror, right? Your mirror does not respond to you in the timeframe you deem appropriate. The mirror has a lagging effect. So, as long as you can consistently and purely, right? Keep your intentions pure and clear. In your mind and act in the direction always of that goal, eventually your mirror will respond. So a little side note though, remember, if you are on your way to your goal or what you perceive to be your goal and you simply start lacking energy, then it probably isn't your goal to begin with because you should be, you should be constant fuel from that heart and mind coordination to get you to that goal! So, if your energy is lacking at any point and you're feeling depleted, then it probably wasn't your goal to begin with! So, let's say it is your goal though, right? This is absolutely something in line with your intentions, your heart and mind coordination is there, all the pieces are there, but then you start to do some funny self-talk!— or you start interpreting things in your reality, signs in your reality as being against your goal, and then it all goes to spoil, right? So, this is defeating yourself or defeating your goal! So, what are some of those things that you participate in that will defeat you or your goal? This is inner intention, number one! So, if you're working from inner intention, which you shouldn't be, right? If you are truly feeling heart and mind aligned— mind coordination, you should be dialed in to your external environment, your world, which is helping you, meeting you halfway. Watch that video, Meeting Your World Halfway. This is a big one, or Harvesting Outer Intention. This is a big one. You should not be doing this all on your own. If you are doing it all on your own using inner intention, you are going to become depleted. Even if it is your goal, you can still deplete yourself by solely working from inner intention. So really get comfortable with recognizing and harvesting and utilizing outer intention via your world and back up off that inner intention. Force, again, this is you imposing your will on your reality, on your world. There's an easier way to do it, but I'll get into that in a moment. Not following the 4 steps. So remember, there are 4 steps in creating your own reality. First, acknowledging that that variation of reality does in fact exist. Second, tuning your thoughts, keeping your thoughts in line with that version of reality. Third, your frequency must match that variation of reality. If you intend to have a million dollars, but then you're coupon cutting and telling yourself that you're poor, your frequency is never going to be in line with that that version of reality that has the million dollars, you are going to stay down here while that million dollars stays up here. And the fourth step is the action. This is where it's really at. Your action has to stay in line with that variation of reality. And sometimes I see people fulfilling the first three, but then they don't take action and then they go, oh, well, this isn't working. Well, it's not working because you're not taking action. You've got to take action. You've got to be consistent. You got to, you know, try to maintain emotional balance! If something happens against your intention for your goal, let's say you want to become something and you think that you're gonna become this thing somehow, maybe it's a job or something like that, and then you get noticed that you didn't get it, right? And you go into a depressed state! Don't scrap the whole thing! Make a decision based off that depressed state. Don't make decisions based on your emotions when things don't look like they're going in your direction. And the key there is, don't look, don't seem like they're going in your direction, right? Because our minds and what is reality are actually two different things. Remember, your world is taking care of you and things are going according to plan. And if you believe that, then that will be the case. But if you think otherwise, then that will be the case as well! So, if you, again, feel as though things aren't going your way and you act from that state, you are going to get that product! That is not going— you just self-defeated in the biggest way! So, what are the ways that you can support yourself to your goal? Again, the 4 steps! Acknowledging that variation of reality does in fact exist! Maintaining your thought quality in line with that version of reality, maintaining that frequency and taking actionable steps to that variation of reality. Seeking the advantage. If something doesn't go your way, like Vadim Zeland says in the book, if things work out, great. If not, even better, because that means my world has something better in store for me. So if you didn't get the job, you didn't get the job because something else better is waiting for you. Using heart and mind fuel, right? Again, staying tuned in to why you're doing it. So what I like to say is forget the how and the when and focus on the what and the why. If you can focus on the what and the why, this will keep you coordinated, that heart and mind coordination flowing, that energy flowing that you can use to really keep you going in the direction of your goal. Tune in to your Meta Power, play your slide, activate your plate, do all the stuff that Vadim talks about, the visualizations, the really immersing yourself in the "as if it has already happened" or you have already become that thing, right? Again, playing slides. And tuning in to outer intention is key! When you put everything on your back, that is a very depleting, very ineffective way to work the situation! If you let go, you heighten your state of awareness, you say to yourself "World, help me out here!" and you maintain a state of awareness where something comes into your reality that's going to help you along your way, you then have the energy— to move on that thing with your world and be way more effective than if you were doing it on your own. Remember to look at my video 'Harvesting Outer Intention', it is perfect and goes into this topic quite a bit. And remember the final thing, don't give up! Giving up— so, if there's one thing that's going to happen that is going to equate to you not achieving your goal— That's you giving up on it, right? You doing this stuff, "Oh, this isn't working!" You not following the 4 steps, you working with inner intention to the point where you deplete yourself, you acting from an emotional place, you not being consistent, right? And then finally you're like, "Oh man, this isn't working!" Well, of course it's not working, because you're doing all this crap right here! Get this stuff out, add this stuff in, make sure the goal is yours! If you are certain that goal is for you, and you— you do this stuff, you absolutely, without a doubt, hands down, no shred of doubt, you will achieve your goal. But not when doing this, only when doing this and making sure that that goal is yours, not a goal imposed on you by a pendulum. So let me know your thoughts, everyone. Remember to like this video and comment below, 'My world taking care of me, and thank you so much for watching my video! Bye, guys!
