How To Stop Fighting The Currents of Reality w/ Reality Transurfing

Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV! And today I'm going to be talking about— Well, I mean, this is really a number of concepts in this lesson that I'm gonna be going over. What it really has to do with is getting yourself into a place in life where the wind is at your back and you're not fighting, right? You're not fighting a current, you're not fighting the wind, you're not fighting yourself, you're not fighting— your boat, right? You're sort of manning your boat with the wind at your back, and your world, or the winds of Outer Intention even, are sort of helping you along, right? They're helping you towards your optimal Lifestream, your optimal Lifetrack. And this is where— I feel there's— for me personally, I know I talk a lot about myself personally, but this is really all I have to go on. I know that I have experienced both these scenarios. The wind being at my back, this is me right now. My life is, for the most part, effortless. I mean, I still have to put energy into things, right? I still have to make sure that my— sail stays out and that my boat is headed in the right direction. And I've still gotta take action to keep my boat going in the vector of the flow that I have set. Um, so there, there's— it doesn't mean that I can just stop living. I still have to apply action, but for the most part, my world and the winds of Outer Intention, the wind at my back is just kind of helping me along, right? And I need to stay tuned in to my Transurfing practice and remember this version of reality, this version of doing things, and keeping myself from doing some of the old behaviors or old way of doing things in the past, keeping myself from doing those things and falling back into those old patterns, because this is so much easier, right? And then I've also done the— than this! And I'm gonna tell you a story where this literally, literally happened to me, right? Literally happened to me! And the experience that I had, which I will get to in a moment, is very representative of what was going on at the time, and this antithesis of Transurfing, this wanting to see something— happened so badly, or trying to force something or assert my will, or put my boat in a direction that it was not intended to go. And my sail, no wind in it, just laying flat, and me panicking saying, "No! Why isn't my boat moving?" Right? There's a reason that the boat wasn't moving. The reason the boat wasn't moving is because— The winds of Outer Intention, the wind at your back, only fill the sail, which is your Heart and Mind Coordination. When something's not intended for you, you get this. When something is intended for you, you get that! Right? It's kind of that easy! Before I get into my story of me experiencing this almost literally, and my points for you, remember to like this video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" to enter my daily giveaway for my reprogrammers! Reality 2.0, link below! Facebook group, link below! Please subscribe, like, do all that good stuff to this channel. We appreciate it! So, I had a sailboat when I was— oh God! I wanna say 31 or 32 years old. 32 years old, I decided to buy a sailboat. And it was a big sailboat, and it was— a bitchin' sailboat! Its name was Antivassin, and I was very, very, very proud of my sailboat! It was a 42-foot Hunter Deck Salon, it was gorgeous! And I learned how to sail the boat single-handedly! And I took great pride in this, because these boats of this size typically take probably about a 3— 3-person crew. 2 people minimum, 3, 4 people is what's ideal. And I learned how to get the boat out of the slip, get it into the Santa Monica Bay, cast all my sails, and sail this boat entirely on my own. But the thing that I really wanted more than anything else is I wanted a partner to sail this boat with, and I wanted to sail the boat around the world. That was my dream, right? But I was single. And I had the boat, and I was very lonely. I was very lonely, and I was looking, I was constantly looking for someone that I felt would be a good match to help me sail this boat around the world. The problem was my picker was broken. I kept picking all the wrong guys. They were either— well, I won't even get into what they were, but they were just— all kinds of wrong, and they weren't people intended for me. I had this dream, and the dream was sort of— I don't wanna say instilled in me by somebody else, but it definitely wasn't my own making. I thought it was what I wanted at the time. Now looking back on this retrospectively, I realized— What were you gonna do? That really wasn't actually for you at that time. It may be for me in the future, but at the time, I was trying to force a Script that wasn't for me at that time. And I was trying to gather people that were going to help me force that Script, even though it wasn't good for me, it wasn't good for them. And I kinda did this, right? So, what happened one day, literally, is I was in the Santa Monica Bay with boyfriend at the time, and— And we were sailing the boat, we were headed back to Marina del Rey, and I went to take the sail down as we were coming into the harbor. And I had an in-mast furling system. For those of you that know boats, in-mast furling system is essentially the— you can roll the sail up internally. It's a much easier system. Anyway, bringing the sail in— I was bringing it in, rather. Bringing the sail in, the in-mast furling system got caught up and the sail got snagged, and I couldn't get it in or out. And my only option was to drop the sail at that point, which— was not a good scenario, getting so close to the harbor. So, I decided to drop the sail. There was no wind in it at all. And I was the only one really capable of sailing the boat, my partner at the time was not. And I became extremely upset, because this was, in my perspective, this was my dream being shattered. Right? This was my dream being shattered. I wanted somebody to help me man this boat, and instead, I got somebody that wasn't very competent, and I was forced to sort of navigate this whole scenario, the boat getting closer to land, getting the sail down. I ended up taking the sail all the way down and strapping it to the boat. And I remember I was crying, I was upset, I was hating the guy that I was with. And it was very, very, very traumatic, because that's the moment that I realized I had to let this dream go. I was trying to force it too hard. So, it wasn't long after that that I actually put the boat up for sale and I sold it. And it wasn't too long after that that the guy and I broke up, right? And I let go of this dream that I had been forcing with all my will, right? Forcing, asserting my will, trying too hard. And I just let it go, because it wasn't for me at the time. Now, again, retrospectively, it wasn't for me at the time, so the best thing for me to do was to let it go so I could move on with my life and go down my life tracks that were intended for me to find what was actually going to help me, theoretically, do this, right? Live my life with the wind at my back, not trying to force some reality that was screaming at me that this was not the way to go. So, what happened after this is I ended up leaving Los Angeles, I found Reality Transurfing, and I started to really see how I had been doing this. For a very, very long time. So, what was this exactly? This is me holding on to that one story. Now, this was one version, right? But there was a lot of other ways that I was doing that, with other people, with professional stuff, with all— just an array of different circumstances that I was like, No, this is the way that I want it. This is the way that it's gotta be. This is what I want. I was trying to adhere, much of the time, to the Pendulum standards, and sort of whatever it took to make that one story happen, right? Never allowing advice or other stuff that was presenting itself to me, "Hey, over here, this might be better for you." No, I'm doing this, right? I'm doing this. And I would do this until— until it broke me, right? And I would become very disappointed and distraught when things wouldn't work out my way, and I would then respond to my reality with more of the same. The next thing, I would try even harder, right? I would try even harder. So, again, this version of me is me forcing, asserting my will, trying too hard, working from ego, caring about what other people think. Acting in a direction that was either unnatural or taking way too much energy. And no wind! That's no wind, right? That's no wind! So, "This will do, if only I do it hard enough!" So, again, it was accepting what I had and believing that— "this is the best that I'm gonna get. I'm just gonna make it work," right? "I've just gotta make it work. I've just gotta try hard enough. This is the best that I'm gonna get, so you gotta do what you can to make it work," right? That was my mode of operation. And then, no new action! So, again, this is me thinking, "I just gotta get in the right relationship, so I'm just gonna keep doing this one thing over and over again." and over and over until that version of reality materializes. But it wouldn't, because it was just the same old me doing the same old crap, getting the same old results. And there was no new action mixed in there. None! The anomalous action was none! I was essentially living the exact same reality over and over and over and over, just different circumstances, different people. And this was that version of reality. Oh God! I'm so glad I found Transurfing and I can now actually see this from a humorous or comical perspective, because my God, if that's not depressing, and I was just doing that over and over and over and over, I don't know what is! So, anyway! What is the wind-at-your-back version? What is the antithesis of this? What is the Transurfing modus operandi? This is letting go of your theory of something's not working for you right now. Maybe it's not for you, right? Maybe something else is intended for you. I know that I never in a million years would've imagined that I'd be doing this right now. That I'd be living back in my hometown, that I would be in a very, very positive, nourishing relationship with a man from my hometown. I believed all the people here were no-accounts and losers and all— just very like, "My story is the only— if I'm gonna find somebody, it's gonna be in my way, and they're gonna be this way." And I gave in to the flow, right? Gave in to the flow and let my reality take me. Take me in a direction where not only could I have a new theory, but I could also encounter new information, material, and evidence that would support a better theory. And I found so many of them! And I have found so much evidence, information, and material to support these new theories. And these are just new versions of reality that have opened up to me, right? Third here, cleaning your layer of your world, right? Cleaning the layer of your world. So, this version of me is not entertaining or engaging with stuff that is not easy, with stuff that's not intended for me, with stuff that's not— going to help me achieve and materialize that better version of reality for myself. Anything like bad habits, dysfunctional relationships, negative information, right? Keeping my frequency low, all that kind of stuff. This version of me is managing my Pendulums, dialed into my Heart and Mind Coordination, experiencing the winds of Outer Intention coming and filling up my sail. And not cleaning the layer of my world is keeping a bunch of junk around that's going to overcomplicate a very simple— this is actually quite simple when you start to take away, right? And I think that a lot of modalities are about adding on, Reality Transurfing is about stripping away. Take away what you don't need and focus on getting yourself into this mode, right? The version of me in this mode takes action! This is me understanding when I'm forcing something too hard, or I'm trying to do something over and over that's not suiting me or my intentions, and I'm able— to actually take action in an anomalous direction, in a different direction that is going to help me access new stuff in my external world that is going to aid me in living this, right? This was me living on one stale track where I just did the same thing over and over and over. And this, This version of me is the version that takes action in new directions. Takes action in new directions. This version of me is in acceptance mode. And I will leave it with this. This version of me down here was not wanting to accept a lot of things that my— that my optimal partner was in Los Angeles. I wanted to believe that he was there. I wanted to believe that I was supposed to live in LA. I wanted to believe that I was supposed to keep doing the things the way that I was doing them. I did not want to accept that there was something outside of this bubble that I had created. And I just continued to enforce my will inside of that bubble. Not wanting to accept that there was something else out there. When I went into acceptance mode, the world opened up to me! So many things became possible, so many doors opened, I solved so many different goals. And it was my new challenge to tap into the goal intended for me, feel that Heart and Mind Coordination, and decide which vector I was going to set the flow, right? Which direction my boat was going to go. This was my boat going nowhere. And I mean, I guess some people could argue and say, "Well, your boat was kinda going somewhere, because it led you up to that point," right? But yes, I hit a threshold though, and it was time for me to remove myself. And what happened subsequently when I removed myself is proof that it was time for me to in fact go. And I took action and I went, and I accepted that this wasn't going to happen and I had been forcing it. And there was a whole world of new opportunities and new goals and new doors outside of this bubble. But I had to do that, right? I had to put myself in the trajectory of all that new material. So, are you in this version today? Are you holding on to that one story? Are you forcing, asserting your will and trying too hard? Are you accepting what you have, "Well, I guess this will do. I just gotta force it hard enough." And are you not taking action? Any action? Or are you letting go of your theory, giving in to the flow, keeping your layer of your world clean, taking action, and accepting when something is no longer working, and doing what you need to do to move the fuck on? Right? Let me know! I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this one. Everybody, remember to like this video and comment below! And thank you so much for watching my video! Bye, guys!