How To Stop Rapid Relationship Cycling & Improve Your Love Life w/ Reality Transurfing Vadim Zeland

Hello, Transurfer! And welcome to Transurfing TV! My name is Renee Garcia, and today, a big one! One I get asked so many questions about! Like, this one is so huge! People are always tripping about finding Transurfing and then what the hell to do in their relationship when their counterpart is not a Transurfer. And I know from experience, this can be an awkward situation! So, I'm going to tell you how to cycle out of and cycle into a new relationship via Reality Transurfing! Of course, this isn't cycling out of an old relationship directly into a new one, unless that's your thing. I mean, I know some of us do that, and maybe you get the opportunity and move on it, whatever. But I'm going to give you my tips for what I have done, and how this has helped me to have better relationships! The most beautiful romantic relationship with the love of my life! I mean, this guy is— I swear, somebody said, "Renee, you can win the lottery right now and be a billionaire, or you can have Eric. Which one do you want?" I would definitely choose Eric, because he has made my life so amazing, being in my layer of reality with me! And I hope for everyone who is challenged with romantic stuff right now, the same, and it's not that challenging to get there, but it may take a little bit of shifting around energetically. So, before I get started, remember to like this video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" to enter my daily giveaway, and Teachable 2.0 link down below! You can at least check it out! All the courses are laid out there and you can see what they consist of, and it is a ton of stuff! So, check it out, y'all! Alright! So, first I wanna state that for those of you that have watched my past videos on romance, what I like to say is that our best partner, if we don't have him right now, or her, is waiting on an elevated Lifetrack that we have not yet accessed. Okay? So, remember, there's an infinite number of life tracks, different versions of reality, and there are higher things waiting for us on the higher tracks! And we use these concepts to connect with that higher track where there is an abundance of things meant specifically for us, waiting for us on these tracks! So, remember, you get there by— Accepting and acknowledging that that variation of reality does in fact exist in the Alternative Space. Managing your Pendulums to an extent where you have elevated energy levels to be able to fuel your life and get things going in a way that is going to get you shifting around in your world. Maybe this is you moving to a better place, maybe this is you getting into a passion— in a way where it's now your professional thing. Maybe it's you embarking on a year of world travel. Whatever it is, that you start to take back your energy and do the things that you really want to do, do things in line with your Soul Fraile. And this is going to help you correspond to a sector of reality where more of what you want exists. Then remember— The Induced Transition can take you away if you start gaining headway. If you start to go into an Induced Transition, then you start to come back down, right? Living on some of these lower tracks. So the whole of Transurfing is going to help you maintain that upward trajectory to those higher lifelines, higher life tracks where more of what you want exists, including the best romantic partner for you. Okay. So what happens oftentimes from my own personal experience, and then listening to the experiences of others, is we are on a life track with someone and things are not going well. Okay. Maybe we're not getting along. Maybe we have different ideas about life. Maybe they don't like what you're into, maybe you don't like what they're into, maybe it's just dysfunctional, who knows! But things aren't looking good. Now, you can use the concepts to try to mend the relationship first. This would be you approaching your romantic partner from a place of Frailing. Remember, Frailing? Is when people have issues, one person's bringing their inner intention for what they want to see happen to the issue, and the other person's bringing their intention to the situation, and those two different sets of inner intention collide, and that's when we don't get along with people, that's when there's problems and dysfunction and all that stuff. That's inner intention butting heads. Now, if you can bring— what Frailing offers us to bring, right? Playing on the other person's inner intention, you can start to shift things in your relationship to an extent where things start to go more smoothly. There's gonna be a whole video on Frailing coming up soon, so make sure you check that one out. So, you can lower your importance levels, you can Frail them, right? You can do certain things to try to make this better. And possibly, you know, resurrect the situation if it's gone really downhill, and maybe you two can start to climb up. Now, usually what happens is this, at least from what I've seen. If both people aren't willing to try this new approach of Frailing and Importance and all this stuff, one person essentially becomes an anchor, okay? Anchoring— the other on the life track. So, this person here, let's say this is you, okay? This person here is not able to elevate to some of the higher tracks because they are being anchored by the other person. This is what's happened for me, I've been anchored a number of times in my life. And when I realized, "Wow, I'm not able to ascend here, I'm not able to—" connect with my higher self, I'm not able to do higher things. I felt at times that I didn't have a lot of freedom in certain relationships, I couldn't go explore things, I couldn't try new things. I was always feeling like somebody was trying to conform me to their standards or their desires. So, this has happened for me on a number of occasions. And really, I'm not gonna beat around the bush, you just gotta cut that thing out. And realize that unless that person is worth you staying on a lower track, the only thing you can do is ascend and move on and cut them out of your life and move onward and upward! So, this is really just pulling the ripcord, guys, and saying "This is not my higher relationship, I'm not my higher self, they do not serve me!" I see my higher self, my higher self is up there somewhere that I know I have access to, and somebody better is waiting up there for me. This is what I like to think. This is what I thought, and this is how I ended up in my relationship now. So, once you cut that out— and that doesn't even get a name! Once you cut that out that's holding on to the rock in the alternatives flow, right? Or in the river, not going with the alternatives flow. Once you let go of that rock and you allow yourself to flow in the alternatives flow, in the alternative space, you are going to encounter a ton of stuff, especially if you are actively Transurfing. So the things that I paid attention to was learning. How can I be better? How can I not get myself into that situation again? What did I learn then? What am I going to take with me? Just learning in general. So I don't repeat the, I don't repeat the process! Getting healthier! I let myself go, I started to work on getting healthier! Mastering self-love! I don't need anyone to love me right now, because I have an abundance of self-love! And if something were to happen to Eric tomorrow, I would be devastated, but I have enough self-love to carry me through! Plus, I know I just go back into the alternative space, so everything's gonna be cool, right? But mastering self-love. Financial stability. A lot of people are hanging on because the other person's a financial partner. So, if you decide that you can let go of that rock and let yourself into the Alternatives Flow, time to master your financial stability so you do not create another dependent relationship. I've been there and it sucks. More self-worth. You know, getting yourself to a place where somebody actually treats you the way that you always felt you deserved to be treated, but you never quite allowed yourself to, this is magic! But first, you have to feel it, and that's you mastering your self-worth. Self-sufficiency emotionally! I've been horribly dependent on people in the past emotionally, needing to be heard, needing to— na na na na! Becoming self-sufficient, being able to deal with your own shit in real time is going to really, really make this higher partner up here attracted to you! Let's face it, neediness is not attractive, and it's a repellent! So, if you can become self-sufficient emotionally, somebody is going to super dig that on one of the higher lifelines! Learn how to be alone! This is a big one! I had gotten into a relationship, you know, a number of times because I didn't like to be by myself! I love being by myself now, guys! I absolutely just like— it is my time to go into self-love and really just immerse myself in me! And it's great! And it's really attractive to Eric because I'm not constantly going to him! To get something from him. I can provide all of that stuff for myself. And finally, and I know I've probably ended the last 3 videos with the exact same thing, because it is absolutely so crucial to an amazing Transurfing practice where you see results, is dropping importance! If you let go of this, if you let go of the rock and you go into the alternatives flow— Do not go into that space with elevated levels of importance that you need to match up with someone! Let it happen! Let yourself flow! Let the right thing come to you at the right time! Because remember, you are flowing up to those higher tracks! So, if you put importance on finding someone, you might settle for somebody here, right? Just like "Okay, whatever! I guess that'll work!" Why not give in to being alone for a little while? Drop importance on the game, let yourself float, and confirm that you are on your highest track. And when you get there, and it's just naturally going to happen and you don't have to force anything, nothing will be contrived. So cycling out and into relationships via RT. What do you guys think? Let me know your comments below and like this video and comment. My world is taking care of me, and I love you all! Bye!