You know things but nothing changes because you're stuck in a comfort box that blocks access to infinite possibilities. Fear of no, weak action habits, and limiting beliefs keep you trapped. Break free with the 30 Anomalous Action Challenge: spend a month doing one thing daily that scares you, and your brain learns the world is safe.
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"I've listened to your videos and I still am not seeing results!" Well, this is exactly why you probably aren't seeing results! You have all the knowledge, but you're still existing within your box of comfort! So, this box of comfort initiates thoughts like, "This is my lot in life. This is what I have. I have to try to make do with the situation that's been given to me. This is it!" Right? This is you being caught up in that Script that is your life, and not realizing that there is actually more! There's actually an exit if you decide to take it. Again, this— inside of the box of comfort, you ask yourself things like, "Why don't I have what I want? Why are other people getting the things that they want?" If you're feeling envious about seeing something that somebody else has, the person probably has it because they were willing to exit the box. Now, if you're wanting to take more for yourself, you have the key, right? This is what it's about from this perspective. Right? From this perspective. So, the box of comfort, again, your habitual life. This is the daily grind that you do, you don't do anything differently, you're comfortable, you're safe, you're secure, you don't have to make new decisions, you don't have to go venture outside or do anything that is new to you or your layer of reality. So, what is outside of the box of comfort? Lots of opportunities, right? Alternatives flow. You are not going to access the alternatives flow in your box of comfort. Your box of comfort is ultimately a place of control. And accessing the alternatives flow is about letting go and getting into the flow of variations, not trying to control the scenario from inside of your— your little pod of comfort. Outside of the box is destinations unknown, right? This is the Alternative Space, a vast network of infinite possibilities. This is different variations, new Lifelines. This is risk and reward. So, oftentimes what keeps us inside of our box of comfort— is we are frightened of the risk that's involved with venturing out. But the flipside to risk is obviously there's reward. You have to take the risk to gain the reward, right? The rewards aren't gonna just flow into your box of comfort and present themselves to you without you taking action. That may propose to you some risk. So, what keeps us inside of the box of comfort? Well, first, fear of hearing "no." This is a huge one. This is such a funny one too, because "no" for me— like, I actually appreciate hearing "no" now, because I know that I have pushed it to the extent that I can. No is like a parameter of my new expanded zone, right? I'm not in my box of comfort anymore, I'm in the Alternative Space. I've exited the box. And when I hear a "no," I know that I've reached that furthest corner of that variation. So, I actually like to hear "no," because then I know the space in between me and what I was— what I was going for and heard the "no," I have a lot in between there that I can work with, right? So, I have actually learned, or trained myself to want to hear "no." I love to pitch things to people and hear a "no." I know that sounds crazy! I love to negotiate in my other businesses and hear a "no." Because if I hear a "no," That means I've gotten in there and I've done as much as I can do, right? So, letting go of the fear of learning no— or fear of hearing no. I've referred to this video a few times. I will put the link below to a TED Talk that I've referred to a number of times. It is a guy that set the intention— that for an entire calendar year, he wanted to hear "no" at least once a day. And really, what this boiled down to for him is a vast opening in the Alternative Space. If you become fearless of hearing "no," your possibilities open up to you exponentially, and it is absolutely amazing! What else keeps us here? Risk! Risk is a big one, right? People don't want to risk anything. "Well, I'm comfortable here, and this works for me!" Okay, but is it really working for you? Because a lot of people that are in their box of comfort are also very unhappy. So, it's time to start asking yourself some questions. What's more valuable, happiness and feeling as though you're doing what you can do, or remaining in your box of comfort regardless? Of how uncomfortable it actually is, right? Okay. So, what else keeps us here? Limiting beliefs. This is a huge one! "I can't do this." "This stuff's for other people." "Success in different areas is for other people." "It's scary out there. I don't have what it takes." So, again, putting yourself in a position where you start to restructure your belief system to accommodate the walls of the box of comfort. Unfolding, and you walking out into the Alternative Space with some new ideas for how you can take action in your external environment. Lastly, the action muscle is soft. Okay. So, this is where I'm going to definitely recommend, for those of you that have not watched my '30 Anomalous Action Challenge' video— This is a challenge that I have given lots and lots and lots of times. People love it. We run them in the Facebook group sometimes, this challenge. This is you, for every single day of a calendar month, taking one single action that is outside of your comfort zone. So, a lot of times I feel that people are in this box of comfort simply because— Their action muscle, that's what I call it, your ability to take action consistently and without being afraid, the action muscle has gone soft. So, the person doesn't know how to take action. You've gotta train yourself to get into the habit of taking action. So, the 30 Anomalous Action Challenge is huge! And it's huge for a number of reasons. First, it opens up a bunch of possibilities and opportunities and variations outside of your box of comfort. And secondly, what it does is it helps you to train your ability to take action. So, even if you didn't necessarily see any results in your reality from taking the 30 Anomalous Action Challenge, which I don't think would be the case, and I don't think I've ever encountered anyone— that hasn't seen results. Even Transurfing TV is actually a result of me taking my own 30 Anomalous Action Challenge. So, even if you don't see any results necessarily, after you complete that 30 Anomalous Action Challenge, you will be in the position to take action when opportunity presents itself to you. So, you won't be the character that just sticks the head out of the box. And gets frightened and self-sabotages because you're scared, you will have trained yourself to be able to come out of the box more and more and more and more. And then this connects you with more variations, opportunities, and things that you can move on when Outer Intention does in fact bring you new possibilities, right? So, again, the solution— and I know I just went over the 30 Anomalous Action Challenge. That's number 1, okay? Number 2, getting comfortable with hearing "no." That's a big one! Just make it a game. You want to hear "no" for a month. Every day for a month, you want to hear a "no." I know this sounds crazy, but it actually works, and it'll turn you into a fearless Transurfer! And you can get so much done when you're— able to take action, and you're not afraid of hearing "no." Connect more to the Alternative Space. So, this is a great place to close this video out. A lot of times, I think that people are stuck inside their box of comfort because they haven't developed a relationship with the Alternative Space. As soon as you can start to look at what is external— to you, in a sense that you feel as though your possibilities are limitless and endless, and your world will in fact support you on your way to your intention or your goal, and you view the Alternative Space as supportive and not scary, right? So, this— version, the Alternative Space is scary. And in the outside-of-the-box version, the Alternative Space is supportive. Remember, there is evidence to support all theories. If you truly believe that the Alternative Space is scary and it's better for you to just stay inside of your box of comfort, safe and warm and comfortable, then you are going to gather plenty of evidence that will support that theory. If you have decided that you are going to create a new theory for yourself, "I'm getting out of my box of comfort. The Alternative Space is supportive and beautiful and full of opportunity and variables and new Lifelines, and full of reward," then your world is going to present to you all the ways in which you can materialize that reality for yourself as well. This is exactly what I've done, and it absolutely works. So, it's about acknowledging where you are now. And if you're in here, start to implement some of this stuff and see if you can come out a little bit more and a little bit more and a little bit more. And anytime you feel yourself starting to self-sabotage, remember this illustration. And be like, "This is me just frightened of the Alternative Space," right? And start to pull yourself out with these actionable steps. So, let me know what you think of this video, everybody! Like, comment, subscribe, all that stuff! And I will see you all tomorrow. Bye, guys!
