Improving Thought Quality & Your Reality Shifting Practice - Reality Transurfing - Vadim Zeland

Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is Transurfing TV! And today, "Thank you" and "I love you," two words that can keep your frequency super high, can help you to get others to join a slow slide that you have created for yourself, and to keep your layer of reality really quite pleasant. It's really an amazing, amazing couple of phrases that are so common that if you just start reiterating them in your mind over and over and over throughout a day, it is so incredible how you will feel at the end of your day if you do this. This has been a little practice that I've gotten into lately, because it's been challenging for me to keep my frequency high with everything that's going on. We're stuck inside because of all the wildfires and excessive heat and COVID. And you know, it's very easy to kind of lose like that feel-good feeling. But anytime I interact with anyone, I'm really trying to pay attention to my levels of gratitude and really just my, my, my feeling of love, right? Love is such a huge one for your mirror and it's really valuable in creating your own reality. Before I get started, remember to like this video, comment below "My world is taking care of me," and subscribe to enter my daily giveaway for my reprogramming stickers. And Reality 2.0, Teachable link down below, check it out! So, "Thank you" and "I love you," what amazing simplistic words or terms we can repeat to ourselves that will get us really thinking in a direction of just feeling good, right? Having gratitude. I watched a show not that long back where all these people went into the wilderness. I think it was somewhere in the— near the Arctic Circle. And it was a contest to see how long they could survive. Everyone was by themselves. And this guy lasted almost the entire time. I think he was like the third person. Um, this, one of the 3 last people. Anyway, as he, uh, oh, his, his, his thing caught on fire, his home that he built, and he had to be rescued and he lost. And I think it was like a $500,000 prize or something like that. And he was really, really upset at the, uh, you know, when the thing happened. And as he was leaving in the helicopter, he said, you know, I'm just incredibly I'm grateful for this experience, even though it hasn't turned out the way that I wanted it to, and I didn't win, and he lost like a third of his body mass, he was emaciated, they were all doing horrible, like mentally and physically. But he was like, if you can get into the practice of paying gratitude no matter what the circumstances are, just seeing— What you're gaining in the moment, the lessons, all the good that's coming from the situation, that's living, right? I mean, those weren't his exact words, but that was the sentiment. And I remember being very impacted by this, and thinking this is really in line with the Transurfing concepts, right? Seeing the advantage, really not allowing yourself to view something that seems against your intention. As a negative, really keeping your thoughts flowing in a positive direction so you can substantiate your position on a higher life track and keep it right. Because good things are going to happen. Bad things are going to— bad things are going to happen. And as Tufti says in the book, whoever guaranteed that it was going to be a bed of roses, right? Or something along those lines. And this has to do with our human relationships as well. Sometimes we meet a a person that is going against our intentions. Maybe they're very, very negative thinking and you need something from them and they don't like you, and you have to actually deal with the person to get them to agree with your version of reality you want to see, or your intentions. Sometimes we live with very argumentative people or have very argumentative people in our lives. So, "Thank you" and "I love you" can really help you. And I know this sounds like some pretty hippie-dippie shit, but it's— It works, it absolutely works! It can help you— if you didn't see the video on influencing others, definitely check that out, because this is kind of a version of what that video was about, and I'll break it down exactly how you can use these things to influence another person in a positive direction! So, anytime you encounter— another person. And I love this example because this is where you can really see your ability to bend reality in the moment. And I use this example a lot because it's, it's, it's very, it's, it works and it's very easy to gain confidence once you've seen this play out a few times and get it to work in your favor. So the example is you need to get something from you know, like the DMV, or a government office, or some kind of permit, or anything that you are needing something to sway in your favor, and it's up to another person outside of you. So, we all have these experiences, we all have to go through these things in life, and we've all encountered the experience where we're going to get something and then all of a sudden you are up against some person that's like disgruntled with their work position, they're unhappy, they are a disagreeable person, they don't want to see you have the thing, right? And if you can kick into your Transurfing mode in this moment, stop yourself, "I see myself, I see my reality, I see what I'm coming up against," you actually have the ability to change this person's frequency with your own. And get them to adhere to your script, right? And if you do this, "Thank you and I love you," even if that doesn't work out, you're not compromising your frequency, taking that into your reality after this scenario, therefore creating more of the same and then possibly experiencing an Induced Transition! So, let's say this is me, right? And this is somebody at an office that I need to get a permit from. And there's only a few of these permits, and I have to give a compelling reason of why I deserve one. Or whatever, this is just a made-up scenario. So, I show up, I'm happy, right? I'm feeling good, I'm feeling like I'm moving towards my intention! But then all of a sudden, there's an angry person on the other side that I realize could throw a wrench into the deal. So, immediately I see myself— I see my reality, I see the pendulum, right? What does this person need? What is this person in need of? If you can figure that out, that's Frailing 101! Get them to give you what you want by you giving them what they are looking for! This is very, very effective! If you can't figure that out because you don't have enough information to go on, switch into— trying to influence them by playing a slide of you getting what it is that you want, imagining that scenario, you're walking away with whatever it is you're looking to get, and filling that slide with some very, very positive ideas! Gratitude, right? Pay thanks to this person before they do the thing, even if they're upset with you! Say to them in your mind, "Thank you for giving me the permit. I'm really appreciative that you're giving me the permit. I'm really appreciative that you are soon going to start the actions towards giving me the permit." Put love in their direction! Maybe this person's angry because they don't have enough love in their life! I have used Love Now in my professional endeavors for the last couple of years. I know this is gonna sound crazy, but in my other business, when I'm doing a big transaction with someone— and there's a lot of money getting ready to change hands, and I need the person to give me the best deal possible, I will actually start telling them that I love them in my mind. And it totally works! It totally works! They're like, "Wow! Well, okay!" They can feel that coming from you. And Vadim says something along these lines in the book, where he says, "If your boss comes to you—" and he's saying something to you about your performance, or something is happening that there's some friction between the two of you in the moment, start imagining him doing his favorite thing! So, if you know he's a fly fisherman, imagine him fly fishing, feeling really positive, feeling really good about himself! And live in that, put that frequency towards him! Because he will pick up on that energy. And sure enough, you can see a shift in someone just by playing a pleasurable scenario of them doing something that they like. Ease. Really put into the scenario ease. This is gonna go easily. They are going to easily give me what I want. This transaction will be completed with ease. Sincerity. Be yourself! Tell them, "Hey, you know, I know that you only give a few permits out a year, but I was really hoping that I could have one and it would mean a lot to me, right? It would really mean a lot to me, and I need it to do this thing that I really feel a lot of passion about," or whatever it is! Let the other person know what it means to you, whatever it is! A business transaction, doing this with a family member, a friend! Somebody— you know, just whatever the scenario is, let them know what it means to you. Put yourself out there a little bit emotionally. People are really responsive to that. Trust. Say to yourself, "I trust that you are going to do the right thing for the situation. I trust that you are going to understand what this means to me. Trust that this is going to go in a direction that both of us are gonna walk away feeling great." And beauty! See the beauty in the exchange, see the beauty in the scenario, see the beauty in the connection, even if it's just some office-type thing, right? This can be really, really big to just resonate with these things! And again, you're putting them towards the person, they're gonna pick up on that, and then that is going to return to you somehow! So, I call this a little game! Oh, I messed this up here! Let's play the "It's the Mirror Game." Okay, friend, let's play the Mirror Game! So, this is, again, you declaring that this person's going to be your mirror. Let me fix that. Let's play the Mirror Game! So, a couple of points here before we conclude. You get what you put out, obviously, we know this as Transurfers. Invite them to a new track where the presence of what you— intend to have exists. Commit to your frequency. This is a big one. So, you go into the office and the person is being a bitch, right? Don't change this stuff because somebody snapped back at you. Commit to your frequency, commit to carry it through the entire transaction, because— and this is a great place to end off— you want it to either be a win-win for both of you, Right? So, either you win and then they win, because they feel good about helping you and giving you what you want, and you put a bunch of positive energy in their direction. Or it's a win or a win for you. So, let's say the person doesn't adhere to your Script, they don't give you what you want, they don't end up being affected by your energy, you still leave and they're unhappy, right? You win if you get them over to you, and then you win if you don't. Because if you don't— win them over, you still get to walk away with these feelings rather than adhering to what they were doing and then you leaving feeling like crap, and then taking that into the rest of your day, right? So, this is a big one! This is you committing to resonating at this place regardless of the results! Result. So you either win and get what you want, or you don't get what you want, but you still walk away a winner. So, and then of course, drop importance on the scenarios so you don't invite in balancing forces as well. Let me know your thoughts on this one, everybody. And remember, like, subscribe, and comment. And thank you so much for watching my video. Bye guys.