Is Fear Of The Unknown Holding you Back? Reality Transurfing

Hello, hello, hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, guys, and this is Transurfing TV, y'all! And today— oh my God! Do I got a doozy for you guys! First of all, let me state that I am going through this lesson myself in a massive way in my life right now. And this is sort of this vision that I've had of trying to understand and break it down for myself, of exactly what it is that I'm going through, and sort of put everything in its right place and see the situation with clarity, rather getting mixed up in a bunch of business that really doesn't have to do with what my ultimate intention is for myself and my life right now, which is evolution, right? And this evolution that I have— set myself on this path towards, right? This future version of myself and future version of my reality, as I'm gaining momentum, as my video 2 days ago suggested, snowballing, the video 'Snowballing'. This is kind of like one of the things. That will ultimately come up when you are on a path of evolving yourself, or evolving something, or headed in a direction, right? And the title of this video today, 'Breakwater,' what it really suggests is that moment that we sometimes come up against in our realities, where we have to sort of put our big kid pants on and do something big and meaningful so we can get beyond that breakwater, right? So, remember that movie with Tom Hanks, Castaway, where he went down in the FedEx airplane and found himself on a remote island? Completely by himself for a number of years. And then he realized that in order for him to live, to have his life back, to become himself again, he had to push beyond the threshold of the breakwater, right? The barrier that was keeping him confined to that Lifetrack that he had been confined to. Now, getting past the breakwater was a challenge, because it was an obstacle, it was dangerous, there was a lot of risk, there was movement that was needed that he had to get himself prepared for. And there were a ton of emotional things that he had to do. In order for him to be able to crest this breakwater and break on through to the other side. So, this is what's happening to me right now! This is what's happening to Reality Transurfing. I'm not gonna get too much into it in this video, but for those of you that are involved in the community, I'm gonna be making a public post about it in the Facebook group, of exactly what is going down, and the state a stance that I've taken. And really, it is exactly this. I have crested the breakwater, right? I've crested the breakwater, and I've now seen myself and my little raft with my sail and Outer Intention to the other side. Before I get started on the rest of this, remember to join us on the Facebook group. Man, it's dynamic! I said today to somebody, and oh my God, is it the truth! At least my life is not boring! Boring, that is for sure. Instagram @reality_transurfing. We have the courses on Teachable, links below, 'Tufti 2.0' and 'Reality 2.0', down below! So, yeah! Well, let me get into it! Oh my goodness! This has been a very rich experience for me! Learning how to, again and again and again, push myself beyond my means, expand out of myself, expand my reality, right? Go past my comfort zone in a continual and methodical sort of way that has helped me to gain the ability of— understanding when exactly my reality is calling me to do this, and reinforcement from my Higher Self that I am in fact capable. Now, I know that a number of you, especially some of you in the community and some of you that are enrolled in the course, some of you that I have grown close to, I know that a lot of you are challenged by this, This exact sort of idea here. You've developed the tools, you've developed the emotional skills, you have knowledge with you, yet you're still on your island, and you're still a little bit fearful or hesitant to push beyond that breakwater. But in doing so, you realize your ability to do so even more and more and more. But of course, sometimes we have to do things for the first time in order to show ourselves that we can, in fact, do it. So, getting to my lesson here. First of all, what are the different components of this scenario? Well, there's obviously you that is on your raft. And your raft is signifying your skillset. Your tools and your abilities, right? Your raft has a sail, and that sail fills with the winds of Outer Intention. This is your reality showing you which way you should go. This is your reality presenting to you guiding signs. This is your reality helping you out. With the logistics of things, and offering you more tools and more things you may need to get your raft headed towards that breakwater, right? So, what's keeping you on your island? This is the fascinating part. Oftentimes, it's insecurity, it's our lower thoughts, right? It's our lower self. Or that voice inside that says, "You can't do that. Your place is on the island." A lack of vision oftentimes keeps us on our island, not ever approaching the breakwater at all. Lack of vision could simply mean that you don't know what's beyond it, right? You can't see anything beyond the breakwater, so— Maybe you assume that there's something that's not there. Fear of the unknown. Again, "I don't know what's out there!" Right? "I don't know what's out there! I don't know what exists beyond my little world, my island. Therefore, maybe it's best that I just stay on my little island!" Fear of risk. So, remember when Tom Hanks in the movie first tried— to crest that breakwater. He failed horribly, if I remember correctly. His whole thing got ripped apart, he got dragged across the rocks, he got a bunch of injuries. And again, this absolutely can happen! This is a possibility. But in order for you to develop the ability to take another shot, you kinda have to go through some of those things so you understand exactly what it is you are up against. And you can perfect your raft and your movement the next time towards that breakwater. Old patterns and Limiting Beliefs and being in your comfort zone. So, these are all, again, having to do with fear. You know, I oftentimes see in this community, in the self-development world, this question asked, 'What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail?' Right? So, this idea of old patterns keeping you stuck, and Limiting Beliefs and your comfort zone keeping you stuck, it all has to do with that. If you knew whatever— and we'll get to this more in a moment, of what the breakwater signifies exactly. But if you knew that you could— you could push beyond your current experience of reality and experience something much better and much higher and much more meaningful without anything happening to you in the interim, right? Without anything knocking your boat apart and throwing you down on the rocks and scratching you up. Would you be more willing to— take this adventure, right? So, acknowledging when old patterns, Limiting Beliefs, and your comfort zone are keeping you stuck, and addressing those things. And again, this really has to do with your Higher Self telling and leading your Lower Self that it is okay, right? You can do this! But again, if your lower self is in control and in charge, it is going to remain attached to the old patterns, it is going to continue to believe this faulty belief system that's kept you stuck in the first place, and it's going to tell you to remain in your comfort zone, because it's just too safe. Scary to go out, right? The other thing that often keeps us stuck on our island, pleasing others. This is the one that I'm going through right now, right? Well, is it gonna bother others if I break through? Is it gonna bother others if I leave the island? Is it gonna bother others if I decide to set my course and go my own way? And again, this is exactly what I'm encountering. It is, in fact, bothering other people. And that resistance and the restrictions that are put on me to try to keep me on my island are— I have to work with that and acknowledge it for what it is, so I can ask myself, "What is more valuable to me and my reality? Is it me cresting this breakwater and getting to the other side?" and getting off this island that I have outgrown? Or is it pleasing the other people that are involved in the scenario? Right? And laziness. Laziness is also a big one, because it takes energy to do this. Not only does it take energy to crest the breakwater, but it takes energy what comes after, right? What comes after. And I think that laziness is— Probably the number one reason that most people don't attempt to leave their island. They want to chill out and watch Netflix instead of being up creating something, right? In the evening, or making moves in their reality. And I know that I talk about action a lot, but action really is the key to accessing higher Lifelines. And if you are stuck in a perpetual state of being lazy, Well, then you're just destined to remain on your little island. So, what is beyond the breakwater? Well, there's all sorts of cool stuff beyond the breakwater, but there's also a lot of unknown as well. So, I'm not trying to pitch it here that once you get past that breakwater, all is well, right? You may be on your raft for a long period of time, baking in the sun without water. You might be alone, you might be hallucinating, you might be waiting for that ship to come your way. But you know what? That rescue ship. But at least you did it, right? At least you got beyond the barrier. So, for me, what I can envision now is beyond the breakwater, as I am at this moment. Actually cresting it for the first time in this specific scenario. Well, there's my goal. And this is the biggest thing. This breakwater has been essentially— has been stopping me from achieving my goal, or at least taking meaningful strides to the goal, right? I've done a pretty good job so far, but in a lot of ways, the breakwater hindering— my movement towards my goal. And also, keeping me from specific doors, right? Keeping me from specific doors. And the thing is, is like I've kinda realized this for a while, and I thought, "Meh, I can work with it, and I can continue to do things a specific way that the Pendulum wants me to do them," and all that kinda stuff. But at a certain point, there is definitely this urge from my Higher Self, that it's time to make a move, right? It's time to make a move. And you guys know me, that have been watching my videos for a while, I'm not really the type of person that gets a call to make a move and I don't move on it. I have been consistent in my approach to my reality with this knowledge, and this really isn't going to be an exception, the situation that I'm encountering now. Higher Lifelines are beyond this breakwater. Evolution! Personal evolution and professional evolution, right? I know that if I do not attempt to crest this breakwater, that I'm always going to be wondering what was beyond, right? What sort of— what I could achieve, what sort of gains there were in my reality beyond this barrier. And what sort of Lifelines I could maybe have accessed. So, again, this is my Higher Self pulling me in the direction of doing it, right? Getting on the raft, letting Outer Intention take me, forgetting this stuff here, and actually attempting to crest the breakwater. So, what does the breakwater actually represent? To wrap this up? Well, oftentimes, it's relationships. This is a huge one, right? A lot of our personal relationships hold us back. A lot of our professional relationships hold us back. A lot of people's ideas for us and our realities hold us back. It isn't fun to go against the collective, right? It isn't fun. To go up against other people's intentions. But at a certain point, when you gotta do it for the sake of leaving the island to find some better things, you've gotta do it, right? So, asking yourself, when you do in fact acknowledge if it is a personal or a professional relationship holding you back, what is more valuable to you? Pleasing that relationship and being accommodating to the desires of the person or people that you're in a relationship with, or what's beyond the breakwater. So, the breakwater can also signify physical location, right? You may need a big move of some kind. Maybe you need to put yourself into a different environment. And again, this takes a push, this takes something— you're gonna have to get up and physically do something. But a lot of times, people just aren't in the right environment for their evolution. And again, cresting that breakwater, getting off your butt, the laziness, the comfort zone, the old patterns, the fear of risk. So, Asking yourself, "Is my environment supportive of the things that I intend to have for myself?" And finally, a profession! This is a big one! This is partly what I'm going through right now, not exactly, but a profession very much could be holding you back from something even better and higher, right? But again, insecurity, insecurity with money, lack of vision, "I don't know that there's something better out there!" Fear of the unknown, fear of risk, old patterns, Limiting Beliefs, comfort zone, pleasing others, laziness. Oh my God! It's all there! Right? It is all there with any of these things. So, as I wrap this video up, I want to ask you, are you cast away on your own little island that you know is keeping you confined to a Lifeline? That may no longer be serving you or your intentions? And do you feel as though something is out there that's higher and better and bigger and offers more than what it is that you have right now? And this scenario here, if you're really willing to break it down and take a look, you have the ability— to crest this, right? Acknowledge your skillset, your tools, your abilities, how Outer Intention is going to fill your sail and help you along your way, what's holding you back, what there is to gain, and why you are choosing to remain on your little island. So, again, for those of you that are interested or curious what's going on, I would love to share it with you. I don't know if I'm gonna do the post today or tomorrow. I'm sure it's gonna be a little mind-blowing to some of you, some of you maybe not so much, some of you may not even care. But it has to do with the Transurfing community, it's kinda big news, and I'm definitely going to throw it out there and let anyone who wants to have a conversation about it, absolutely, questions you can ask, and I will give all of the juicy see details on Facebook. So, about this video, though. Leave your comments below. Ask questions, I will definitely respond. And I hope that you can start really to feel as though it is possible for you to get past what you need to, to get onto some of those higher Lifelines, in a small way or in a big way. But start thinking about it, maybe today. Thank you so much for watching my video, everyone. And have a good day! Bye!