PART 3 Pendulum Series DEFEATING THE PENDULUM Reality Transurfing Vadim Zeland

Absolutely the number one way that we get hooked by a Pendulum is we deem something important, a position, a stance, an opinion, a direction, we deem something important in our reality, and then we go about trying to defend that importance. Hello, hello, hello, Transurfer! And the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia, guys, and this is Transurfing TV! And today on Transurfing TV, a little bit of a brighter lesson than the last one! You know, Pendulums is like, it can be pretty dark, because first of all, the tactics that Pendulums use are like super dark and manipulative and creepy, and they— prey on our emotions and our feelings, and try to hook us via our Importance levels. And when you first encounter this knowledge, I mean, at least for me, I was like, "Oh, fucking gross! This is so gross that I didn't know for so long!" Especially when— you've been ripped apart by Pendulums that— like me living in Los Angeles prior to finding Reality Transurfing, and realizing that I had become captivated by the Pendulum of certain social scenes and success and image, and all that kind of stuff, to the point where— I lost myself so deeply, and life had become really, like, not pleasant. As Vadim said in the previous lesson, or as I read in the book, Vadim clearly stated that when you become lost to the extent where you are no longer an individual, That's like— I think he referred to it as just as bad as being in, like, a work camp or something like that. And that's what it becomes like, is like your life just is not pleasant anymore, and it's not good. And I know that a lot of people are in this place right now, struggling. I have a number of friends that are in the mental health— sector, and they're like, "Oh my God! You have no idea how many people are coming that are just completely depressed and anxiety and all this stuff!" And once you start to really separate from the Pendulums in your life that are ripping you apart, and you wake up to the tactics and the manipulation, and you're able— There's this funny meme that— I'll put it actually on the group, in the Facebook group today, where it's like there's a bunch of sheep, and it shows like this dude in a sheep costume, and it says, "Me when I first encountered the Pendulums chapter in Reality Transurfing book," and the dude in the costume standing up. It's a funny meme. But when you can awaken— and defeat Pendulums to the extent where you're standing upright and you're able to see everything from a perspective of like, "I don't wanna be involved!" You know? "I don't wanna be involved in that! I don't wanna be involved in that! I don't wanna give any more of my attention or energy to that! I don't want to play the role of a victim anymore! I don't wanna take a divisive position! I don't wanna be engaging in arguments and battles with family members and friends, or a spouse, or whatever!" And just like calling it done, this is, in my opinion, the best and most simplistic route to reducing depression and anxiety. And once you do it, it's kind of like game on! After that, you got some energy, you have some ability to take back control in your life, be creative, and start creating your own reality. So, today, defeating Pendulums. This is a funny term, because— Because "defeating" denotes battling, and I don't think it was the right word to use with this chapter at all. But really, what I'm going to talk about today is realizing that you're not going to defeat anything. You're not going to argue your point in the direction of another person and they're gonna be like, "Hmm, yeah. You know, I totally get it. I agree with you. And I'm gonna switch political parties now!" Or, "I'm gonna stop caring about this!" this, you know, thing, whatever it is that people are arguing about right now. But once you can just turn away and ignore, not care, this is where the power is. And I remember when I first found Transurfing, I was living at my grandparents' house, and— My grandfather is like hooked more than anyone that I've ever known in my entire life by the media Pendulum. It's really, really bad. Actually, my whole family is. It's really quite sad. They're just— If they could sit in front of the news 24/7 and watch that crap, they would. And they argue, and they say all kinds of hurtful things, and it's just really bad. And I'm sure you got family members like that too. But when I— when I first encountered Transurfing and I acknowledged the media for the Pendulum that it is, and I tried my hardest to, like, detach, but I couldn't, because the Pendulum was still calling to me in form of my grandfather being like, "Now, Renee, just because you read this book that told you this thing, that doesn't mean that you can forfeit your responsibility as a—" as a citizen of the United States and give up, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You need to pay attention, because these are the things that matter. And that was the Pendulum coming for me, right? So, at first, the only way that I could find it in me to get away was to actually physically get away. Anytime it'd start to get heated, anytime the news got turned up to a high volume, anytime I started to feel challenged by this Pendulum, I was hooked emotionally, and I was captivated, and my thoughts would get lost into the thing, and I would try to ignore it, but I couldn't. And I would finally just kind of like give up, and I would literally get up out my seat and leave. And I'd have to leave the room, leave the house, go for a walk. And that was the only way that I could manage it first. Then, over time, I started to lower my levels of Importance, lower my levels of Importance about my grandfather trying to trigger me, or hearing something that I didn't like and feeling as though I needed to emotionally weigh in, and all that kind of stuff. It just— the volume got turned down. And, you know, now I could sit on a couch and the news could be turned up saying super inflammatory things, And I would just be doing my own thing. I don't really care anymore. So, it's not about defeating anything, it's about learning how to turn the volume down on whatever it is that's hooking you, and just stop caring. Stop caring. Before I get into the lesson today, remember to like this video and comment below and subscribe to this channel. And join us on the Facebook group, the International Transurfing Institute, Facebook group. Follow me on Instagram @reality_transurfing. Course links, website, shirts, all the stuff down below. Check it out. And let's get right into it! Defeating the Pendulum. Trying to battle with a Pendulum is futile. As was explained above, when you battle with a Pendulum, you just end up supplying it with energy. That was the previous lesson, 'Battling Pendulums'. The first and most important condition for successfully defeating a Pendulum is to refuse to get into conflict with it. Firstly, the more actively you try to fight off Pendulums that get you down, the more they will pressure you. You can repeat endlessly, "Leave me alone! Get away from me!" and think you are fighting them off, but actually, you're just providing them with energy, making them cling to you. Even more. Secondly, you do not have the right to judge or change anything. Everything you see and experience should be accepted as if they were paintings on display, whether you like them or not. There may be many paintings in an exhibition that are not to your taste, but it would never occur to you to demand that they be removed from the exhibition room. Once you have recognized the Pendulum's right to exist, you also have the right to leave it behind, remaining free of its influence. The main thing is not to fight it, judge it, get angry, or lose your self-control, because by doing so, you agree to play the game. The Pendulum should be calmly taken for granted as a necessary evil and left at That any position of opposition supplies the Pendulum with energy. Before you can fully understand what it means to choose, you have to know how to decline. Most people have a vague idea of what they do want, but know exactly what they do not want. In an effort to get rid of things or events that they do not want in their life, people act in a manner that has the opposite effect. To decline something, you have to first accept its existence. The word "accept" in this context does not mean to embrace something and let it into your personal space. It simply means to recognize its right to existence and then pass by indifferently. To accept and let go of something means to consider the meaning of something and let it pass, waving goodbye as it leaves. This is much more effective than letting something into your personal space, becoming attached to something, and then trying to oppose it. When you think about the things you do not want, you attract them further into your life. Imagine a person who detests apples. Rather than simply paying no attention, it irritates the person that apples exist at all. On a material level, they get annoyed every time they see an apple, and openly express their disgust. On an energetic level, the person may as well be hungrily pouncing on apples, stuffing their mouth and chomping loudly, screaming about how much they hate apples, stuffing their pockets, only to be sick and once again complain about how they just cannot stomach apples. What the person does not realize is that they could simply delete apples from their experience of life. It does not matter whether you love or hate. If your thoughts are latched onto the object of your emotions, your thought energy will be attuned to a certain frequency, and you will end up caught by a Pendulum and transferred to a corresponding Lifeline where the object of your fixation is present in abundance. Okay. So, I think this is kind of like enough. I know I say this a lot. In these lessons, but it's true! The core knowledge here— I mean, this is not new knowledge by any stretch of the imagination. The Buddhists, right? They're super good at this! This is the fundamentals of Buddhism, and Christianity! Really just allowing whatever is transpiring, whatever is in your layer of reality to exist while you remain objective and not hook on to what you deem to be off balance or wrong. As soon as you're throwing anything into a category of right or wrong, you've lost the battle. You've absolutely lost the battle. So, the main thing to remember when you want to be proactive and start the process of detaching from a Pendulum in your reality is that a Pendulum is going to hook you via your Importance levels. Always! Always! This is absolutely the number one way that we get hooked by a Pendulum, is we deem something important, a position, a stance, an opinion, a direction, we deem something important in our reality, and then we go about trying to defend that importance. When you lower— the levels of your Importance to the extent where, like I said in my past lesson— and again, if you missed that, go back and take a look— it's a little unrealistic for us to think that we can be completely empty and not have any sort of opinion or stance on a subject, or any subject for that matter. Expressing that thing is— a whole other deal. You can have the opinion, keep it to yourself, but also understand that that opinion is rooted into your mind via some sort of Importance levels. The way that I like to neutralize a lot of what's going on in my external environment right now— and collectively, we're all experiencing experiencing a lot of Pendulums battling each other, and we're trying to detach, and there's lots of opinions, everybody feels the need to argue their thing and declare their position and all this stuff. And it's easy to get caught in that snare! But the one sort of way that you can free yourself so easily from this— is to really embrace the idea that there is, in fact, evidence to support all theories. This is the ultimate neutralizing— the neutralizer of Importance, neutralizer of Pendulums. "Evidence to support all theories" is in the very beginning of Reality Transurfing. And the reason that he put that there is because once you have embraced this idea, you realize that arguing a point is futile, because the person that has the conflicting opinion has gathered evidence in their layer of reality to support that opinion, and they're not gonna let go of that either. So, defeating the Pendulums in your layer of reality is about you lowering your levels of Importance, And it's about accepting that there is an infinite amount of information and evidence and support for any theory. So, every single theory, even the ones against yours, have the right to exist. So, this is my trick now when I'm sitting on the couch and somebody's got the news on full blast. Instead of me being like, "Oh my God! That's wrong!" "and how can they say that? And oh my God! This is such bullshit!" Evidence to support all theories. And it's not going to benefit me or my layer of reality or my trajectory or my thought quality or any of the things that I've got going for myself today, in this present moment, if I get involved with taking a divisive position, against some information that I hear that was created to trigger me into doing just that. And when you can do this, in my opinion, from my layer of reality, this is the most liberating, freeing idea! This is a concept! To help you for the rest of your life, and not getting baited into a layer of reality that doesn't suit you or your intentions. So, as I stated in the very first lesson, the main reason that we look to detach from Pendulums in our realities as Transurfers— is because those Pendulums, the destructive ones, take us away from our trajectory towards those higher layers of reality, creating our reality for us. So, rather than defeating, arguing, fighting, battling, all that stuff, lowering your levels of Importance around the issues, embracing the idea, evidence to support all theories, and learning how to turn down the noise and turn up the volume on, "What project am I gonna start next? What can I create next? Where can I volunteer? What can I do to improve my layer of reality? Hey, maybe I'll take a 30 Anomalous Action Challenge, or maybe I'll make my own YouTube channel," or whatever, right? It's like you are just shifting your focus. From the destructive Pendulum that's got you hooked, or is trying to hook you, and just redirect it to something that is going to help you to improve your layer of reality. And you're gonna lose yourself sometimes, but making certain that you stay close to the knowledge and you continue to redirect yourself towards those higher and better versions and layers of reality, and keep your thoughts and your energy for yourself. This is ideal. And again, battling is just going to consume more energy. It's about turning away, tuning out, and turning towards what it is you intend, and setting the Vector of the Flow. So, is this too basic for you guys? I kind of feel like this 101 might be a little too— too basic. Let me know your thoughts on this video. I'm gonna try to wrap it up with using Pendulums to your benefit. I don't know exactly where it is in the book, but I'm gonna try to find it. And not only taking your control back, but using Pendulums to help you create the reality of your choice. Awesome, awesome, awesome skillset if you can master that one. And I'll see you all next time. Next time. Bye, guys.