SEX Living The Reality Transurfing Concepts Vadim Zeland Renée Garcia Reality Creation

8 May 2020 · 4 min

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In this monologue, the speaker (Clarissa Chiaese) argues that many people’s perception of their own sex life is distorted by societal "pendulums"—collective belief systems amplified by media that portray sex as universally flawless. She claims that this illusion creates unnecessary dissatisfaction. The speaker advises listeners to become consciously aware of their own desires, communicate openly with partners, and adopt the Reality Transurfing principle of letting go of the intention to receive and instead focusing on giving, which she says ultimately brings the desired outcome. She also emphasizes the core Transurfing rule of being oneself while allowing others to be themselves. The talk concludes with reflective questions prompting the audience to examine whether they are authentic about their sexuality, whether they practice the “freyling” (giving) principle, and how much importance they place on sex.

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Sex. You are deeply mistaken if you think that you have difficulties in your sex life while everyone else's is fantastic. This is an illusion artificially created by pendulums with the help of the media. You may have noticed that wherever the theme of sex comes up, we are shown people who are totally okay. Clarissa Chiaese. If you were to take a stadium full of people and then remove everyone who had a problem, there would be no more people left standing than the fingers on your hand. There is also a certain type of person who experiences no problems at all in their sexual life. Many issues cease to have weight if you can just be direct and speak things the way they are without confusing different notions. Be consciously aware of what you wish to get out of a relationship and being able to communicate it to your partner. Life becomes instantly easier the moment you behave openly. You can be certain that your partner also has their own hidden desires. What should you do if a situation arises where one person desires something their partner finds unacceptable? Firstly, it is important to remember the first principle of Freyling. Let go of the intention to receive and replace it with the intention to give, and you will receive the very thing you let go of. This wonderful principle works every time, even if you do not always understand how. Secondly, you have to reject the pendulum's rule totally. And replace it with the primary rule of Transurfing, which is: Be yourself and allow others to be themselves also. Okay, so here is the question: Are you allowing yourself to be you sexually? If you are in a relationship or not, If you are, are you practicing frailing and allowing your partner the liberty to be themselves sexually? Are you open and honest with who you really are sexually, with your partner and most importantly yourself? Have you put too much importance on sex or lack of it? What are your views?