The #1 Way to Drop Importance - Reality Transurfing

The Negative Slide is stating what you want, and then for a brief period of time, imagining that you don't get it, imagining defeat, right? But still taking calm, firm, concrete, emotion-free steps towards that intention, with the understanding that your world might have something else planned for you. Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia and this is Transurfing TV, y'all! And today, the number one way to drop Importance! Don't peek! Don't peek! Don't look at the answers! I'm gonna tell you! I'm gonna tell you later! No, seriously! Conscious action, right? It's something that— Lots of us are challenged by— I mean, who wants to take action, right? I mean, can't we just make it happen without having to do anything? Well, I guess some people can. Sometimes I can, now that I am an advanced Transurfer. Sometimes all I'll really need is a thought that I want something to happen for me. And then it becomes about me throwing that thought into the world, lowering my levels of Importance, and letting the thing come to me. Then when the thing comes to me, my awareness level is high enough to say, "Oh, there's that thing that I ordered!" And then I can go about having, or being, or doing the thing, or whatever it is. But the elevated Importance— importance levels, and the Excess Potential that that creates can sometimes put us into a state where we are frozen, we don't know what it is we're supposed to do, and we're so fearful of the thing not happening that we become emotionally— attached to it and feel as though— and I'm just gonna speak from my own personal experience, that like I'll be emotionally attached to an outcome, pre-Transurfing reality, emotionally attached to an outcome, scared that I won't get it, so then I just sort of adopt this mindset that maybe it's not for me. And I use the thing not magically popping up in my reality to confirm this belief that something's wrong with me, or I'm flawed, or I can't have that, or those things are intended for others, or all that kind of stuff. I've done this with romantic relationships, I've done this with income streams that— once I've had to hustle and grind for my— for my little crust of bread. And I thought that when people talked about passive income, I'm like, "Oh yeah, right! That would be nice!" But it is actually a thing in my life now, passive income. And it was in my ability to follow this process, right? And it's a very, very, very simplistic one, but there's really no way around it. And this isn't a lesson that's going to— there's gonna be no surprises here. If you want something, if you feel as though you are lacking something in your life right now, the presence of one thing and the absence of another is exactly why you don't have the thing. The presence of Importance is the one thing that is going to keep all of the stuff at bay. And then the absence of action is going to keep all of the stuff at bay. So, conscious action is it! And there is really, again, no way around this. If you want something, conscious action, conscious action, conscious action. So, here's a little rundown, Vadim Zeland's words. And I'm gonna break it down, give you my interpretation of how to get closer to what it is that you want. So, 1, become aware of what you are attributing excess meaning to. And then, a side note here, and the consequences. Of doing so. Okay. So, this is a really challenging thing for a lot of people when they find something like Reality Transurfing. I've seen lots of people come into this modality and they're like, "Hey, Renee! Can you help me real quick? I want a million dollars!" Or, "Hey, Renee! I've been trying to have a baby with my husband for 5 years, and—" "it's not working. Can you help me have the baby? Can you tell me how to get pregnant using Reality Transurfing?" Or, "I wanna be this thing, but I don't know what to do. Can you help me?" Okay? So, here's the tricky part. I hate to use the word "tricky." Here's the illusion that most people buy into. Most people buy into that if they want something, right? If they want something, if they have high Importance levels over something, let's say the million dollars, that they need to encounter something external to them, that's going to help them connect with the million dollars. So, classically, this would be like, "Oh, I'm gonna go play the lottery!" Or, "If I could just get that lucky break!" Right? "If I could just get that lucky break!" So, it's putting the burden on the external environment, and then waiting for the thing to bring you what you want. Okay? So, romantically, this could be like— and I'll use myself as an example. "Why can't I meet a good guy? Why do all the guys suck? Why am I so unlucky? Why does every guy I meet is a loser, or cheats, or is already married, or blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah!" So, again, high Importance levels, Excess Potential. And action, conscious action in the wrong direction. I was waiting for my external reality to provide me with what I had high Importance levels over, while I sat there on my ass and didn't take the action that I needed to take in order to connect with what I wanted in my reality. So, what that action looked like when I realized it. First of all, I had to drop Importance. I played my Negative Slide of defeat. I've told this story a million times. I gave up meeting Prince Charming. I assumed that I would spend my life as a single gal, I was going to become okay with that. And I was going to turn all of that desire to have someone else inward and point it, direct it back inward, and I was going to become my own partner, I was going to become my own love interest. And in taking this action, lowering my levels of Importance and taking this action, sure enough, Prince Charming practically shows up on my doorstep, right? So, it took me— quite a while of understanding Transurfing to realize that exactly what I was attributing excess meaning to was causing me the consequences that I was experiencing of me not actually having the thing. And I needed to start taking conscious action, along with lowering levels of Importance. And it's kinda cyclical, they work with each other well. So, you take conscious action, the Importance levels lower. And then you lower your levels of Importance, and it helps you to see bigger and better ways that you can take action that actually benefit you, rather than— I know they benefited me, rather than sitting there feeling as though something was wrong with me and everybody always gets the good stuff except for me, right? So, the power of Excess Potential dissipates in the process of action. So, as soon as I had this amazing insight— and I talk about it in my 'Becoming Magnetic' course, this amazing insight of "Oh my God! This is all I really need to do! I just need to forget about it and focus that desire inward!" Right? You wanna feel love, you wanna feel like you're a partner, do all that stuff, start being that! Version of you. And exactly in that conscious action, I presented this to my Mirror, and then my Mirror returned to me exactly what I intended to have, right? It was like a freaking miracle! So, the power of Excess Potential dissipates in the process of action. Take action by playing the Slide, visualizing the process and placing one foot in front of the other towards the goal. So, back to my romantic example. I sort of realized at a certain point that I had become kind of needy, and I had become overly focused on needing to have this perfect sort of image of my life. And really, who wants to be in a relationship with that? So, me acting in the direction— of my goal was actually developing myself, becoming more connected to my Higher Self, so I could connect with a higher person as well. The reason I was connecting with losers and no-accounts is because that's kinda how I felt about myself still, right? And I needed to evolve and become more of my Higher Self so I could attract a higher person. And that's exactly what happened. This was the call. Concrete conscious action. Concrete conscious action, right? It wasn't about me finding another poor loser and saying, "Okay, you ready, loser? Let's go along for this ride now!" It was about me developing and me evolving to a place where I could actually have the thing. This is the same with money. Develop yourself, develop that state of being. So, you can attract all the things that you need to have the money you want, or become whatever version of you you feel obtains the thing, and take action towards it internally, right? Internally. It's the grabbing at the outward stuff. That is keeping people trapped in the illusion, right? So, take action by playing the Slide, visualizing the process, and placing one foot in front of the other towards the goal. And again, back to my romantic example. Visualizing the process or playing the Slide, really, this didn't even have to do with another person. This was just me running the Slide that I was going to feel comfortable. And secure in my life, in my home, all the things that I wanted to feel in the presence of another person, I figured out ways to feel those things alone. And then sure enough, my Mirror presented to me exactly what I wanted, right? So, Vadim Zeland, in the book, goes through a really great little rundown of where exactly action helps. I listed just a few here, because they're powerful. So, how not to be afraid? Act! Get a safety net, right? I am a huge advocate for the safety net, because the safety net is like your backup, right? So, if you want something, have a backup. If you can't have a baby, don't put all the pressure that like, "I gotta have this kid! I gotta have this kid! I gotta have this kid!" Have a backup! Start thinking about adoption. Start thinking about surrogacy, start thinking about getting involved in your community with children that already need help. Have that backup so you're not loading up what it is that you want with a ton of Excess Potential and creating an environment where you're almost a repellent to that thing. I mean, that's kind of what happens. And I know it sounds a little bit harsh, but I've done it myself, and waking up to to that when you're like white-knuckling it, you want it so bad. So, lower the levels of Importance, take action in another direction, have a safety net, right? And kinda like throw it to the wind about Outer Intention and see what happens! I've heard exactly this scenario with somebody not being able to get pregnant played out as soon as they lowered their levels of Importance and started acting in a new direction with the thought of— The thought's still in the mind, and it just kinda worked out, right? So, how not to be afraid? Act, get a safety net. How not to worry or get anxious? Accept the possibility of defeat and act! So, accepting the possibility of defeat. Go back and look at my video 'The Negative Slide'. I love me some Negative Slide! Oh my God! The Negative Slide is like— and importance, just like you just drop a bomb on it and it just blows up, right? The Negative Slide is stating what you want, and then for a brief period of time imagining that you don't get it, imagining defeat, right? But still taking calm, firm, concrete, emotion-free steps towards that intention with the understanding that your world might have something else planned. Planned for you. So, it's in this, accepting the possibility of defeat and acting, that I have found the most success. I can go into any endeavor and really just kill it, because I've got very, very low Importance levels and a ton of action, and it just happens, right? How not to desire, act! This is a huge one! So many people want! But then they're not acting. So, figure out what you can do in this moment. Start small, the rest will be revealed. You don't have to figure it all out right now. But if you want to place a new order for yourself in any part of your life, romantically, finances, adventure, freedom, whatever you wanna do— I mean, building something, becoming more creative, whatever! Start acting now! And when you act, especially if it's anomalous action, your reality opens up and presents to you a bunch of other things that you can move on to get the ball rolling in materializing exactly what you were previously desiring, seeing no results. How not to be impatient? Oh my God! Act! You want something and you feel as though your world's never gonna bring it? Well, you know what? Your world's never gonna bring it! Get up and act, start making movement in the direction of that intention! And again, it's the same as how not to desire, right? It's the same thing, being impatient, desiring. It's act, act, act, act, act! Conscious! Action. And lower Importance levels. Really just turning it into a game, playing that Negative Slide of defeat. And at the same time, realizing that it is an option in the Alternative Space, right? It is a variation that you have access to. Play your Slide, visualize the process, and place one foot in front. One in front of the other. And oh my God, it works! I'm doing it right now! Look at me, guys! Isn't it awesome? Whee! Anyway, that's it for today, everybody! Thank you so much for watching my video! I hope you enjoyed it! Remember to subscribe, comment, and like! And join us on Facebook! Bye, guys!