In this monologue, the speaker presents a Reality Transurfing perspective that frames societal structures as "pendulums"—collective forces that enforce conformity and suppress individuality. The speaker argues that true success, wealth, and fame arise only when one abandons accepted standards, creates personal rules, and embraces one’s unique abilities. Using the metaphor of a star’s birth, the talk explains how pendulums initially spotlight a rising individual, then co-opt that individual to reinforce the collective formation. The key message is that individuals must claim the privilege of self‑determination, start their own “game,” and avoid playing by others’ rules to achieve genuine success.
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Day 4: The Birth of a Star. Statement: To achieve real success, you have to stop following generally accepted standards and start walking your own way. The one who comes out of the common formation creates a new success benchmark. Pendulums do not tolerate individuality. They see a rising star and make it their favorite. When establishing a new rule, the formation turns and starts following the new star. To establish your own rules, you must allow yourself to be yourself. You can do this. The only thing you have to do is to take that privilege. The privileges are given or taken only by you yourself. Interpretation: Throughout the lives of the people, someone tries to instill in them that they are not perfect. But success, wealth, and fame are just for the chosen ones. Pendulums do not deny the fact that anyone can succeed, but carefully hide the fact that each person has unique abilities and qualities. Individuality is deadly for them. If all supporters become free people, and get out of control, Pendulums will just fall apart. Stars are born alone, but the Pendulum lit them. The role models, the model for success, are created deliberately to turn the aspirations of others to the same direction. In other words, the task of the Pendulums is to push everyone in the formation and force them to obey the general rule. You will achieve nothing until it becomes clear to you that you have to learn the common formation. It makes no sense to play somebody else's game where it isn't you setting the rules. Whatever you do, always try to start your own game. That's the secret of success.