How to know if a choice is truly yours: pay attention to whether your heart and mind align. When they do, selling yourself on something becomes effortless. When they don't, you're forcing it.
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Just 2 quick paragraphs here. The clearest and simplest mark of your ability to determine your own goals is evident in the way you choose your clothes. Searching for new clothes can also be a good exercise in helping you to choose your own goals effectively. If you think back, there have probably been occasions when you have purchased something you thought was suitable, only later to discover that you do not like it anymore, it no longer suits you, or it has some kind of defect. There may also have been occasions when you saw something you liked and bought it straight away without hesitation, and are happy with it still. I still wear my coat, it's been almost— 6 years. The difference between these items is that in the second scenario, they are meant for you, and in the first scenario, they are meant for someone else. The first type that attracted you is meant for someone else. It may be something you saw on a mannequin, or something a friend was wearing. Just because something looks good on someone else does not mean it will necessarily look good on you. It may have nothing to do with a shortcoming in your figure. Or other virtues. It is terrible being a mannequin that everything looks great on. It is individuality successfully emphasized that makes an impression, not a copy of the widely accepted notion of beauty. I know I am not the first person to have said this, but nonetheless, people spend a lot of time out shopping not knowing what to buy. Knowledge of style, a feeling for fashion, and even good taste does not help. Even if you have bought something having searched for it for a long time, you may still not be totally satisfied with your purchase. If you always want to be able to always find exactly the thing you are looking for, you have to learn to distinguish between things that are yours and things that are meant for someone else. So, how is this done? You will not believe how simple it is! And then, of course, he gets into describing Heart and Mind Coordination, really. I'm not gonna read too much more because I don't wanna get too much into Heart and Mind Coordination. Go back and take a look at some of the Heart and Mind Coordination videos to go more deeply into the subject of really understanding the sensation behind— Choosing goals that are specifically intended for you, big things, career paths, a relationship. Oh my God! Okay. So, the last thing that I wanna touch on before I go over this real quickly is the danger in having to sell yourself something, okay? So, I'm really, really good at this now, and this is a— This is a tool that I use in making money for myself in my other businesses. The fact that my other businesses are trade businesses, right? Buy and sell sort of businesses. Real estate, my jewelry business, I had a car business for a while. It's all the same thing! That when it comes to buying inventory— and you can apply this to any professional endeavor, any— side hustle, any way that you intend to make money, if you have to convince yourself, if you have to sell yourself on an idea— if I have to sell myself on a piece of jewelry, right? If somebody shows me something and I have to look at it and be like, "Okay, should I buy this? Should I not buy this? Not for me!" If I put it on and I'm like, "Oh my God! This is awesome! I'm buying this, because I know I can sell it!" Right? As soon as I feel that sense of Heart and Mind Coordination internally about the item, I know that somebody else will, and I know that my ability to sell the item is gonna be high! Right? So, again, this is a phenomenal tool in helping you navigate Even with your relationships. Profession, relationships, lifestyle. If something is intended for you, you absolutely do not have to sell yourself on it at all. So, instead of always looking to Heart and Mind Coordination to provide me the answer if I should do something or not, sometimes that Heart and Mind Coordination isn't so, so, so obvious. Sometimes, as I like to say, I let my heart decide, then I let my brain get involved in the logic. And sometimes there's a little bit of a delay there. But my backup, my insurance is to make certain that I'm not feeling that sensation of needing to sell myself on something, right? This is really, really, really big! So, a question for you watching. Is there something in your life that you are selling yourself on right now? A relationship, your career path, where you live, something about your lifestyle, friendships, whatever. Is there something that you are convincing yourself, or you're trying to sell yourself so you can feel okay with it? Right? This is really a big, big, big question to ask. So, a few questions before we wrap it up. What is your heart drawn to? This is— really starting to get to the crux of choosing the things for you, Transurfing a reality that's intended for you, is asking yourself what is your heart drawn to, what does your heart want. Having made the decision, be aware of how your inner voice responds. So, if you say, "Yeah, this thing's for me! My heart says yes!" —then make certain that there's not that little catch, "Well, maybe you shouldn't!" Right? So, that "maybe you shouldn't" is exactly what Vadim was just talking about in the book, buying something and then getting home and realizing it had a flaw, it doesn't fit, it doesn't look good on you, all that kinda stuff. The heart always knows exactly what it wants and exactly what it does not want. Okay? So, I know I just stated that sometimes it's a little bit challenging to hear that voice. But it is there, and it absolutely does know what it wants and what it does not want. So, when people come to me, "Hey, I have these two choices. What should I do? Should I marry this guy or not marry this guy? Should I take this job or not take this job?" And I'm just like, "Dude, what is your heart telling you?" This is what it really boils down to, is listening to the dictates of your heart and really— trusting that your heart knows what's up. And the more you listen— so, remember, the more you tune in to the voice of your heart, the more you activate and you tap into that Soul Fraile, that little specific code that's sort of embedded in you that is your individuality. The more you tap into this, the more you choose the things that are intended for you, The more you tune into your Soul Fraile, you start resonating at a frequency that corresponds with a sector of reality that is specifically intended for you. It's huge! It's huge! It's groundbreaking, it's revolutionary, and it absolutely works! Wake up and tune into the feeling the time you made the decision. Okay. So, pay attention now, with awareness. Since we talked about it today, the next time it's time to buy something or make a choice, or you come in front of a new opportunity or whatever, see what your heart has to say about it. And then, like, take a mental snapshot of that sensation. If it's Heart and Mind Coordination, snapshot! If it's your mind saying yes but then your heart saying no, snapshot! Snapshot, right? And remember those feelings. These feelings will help you navigate future choices, opportunities, shopping excursions, professional endeavors that present themselves to you, romantic partners, pretty much everything! And if you can navigate from this place, your reality is going to become awesome! Even more amazing than it is right now. And this is exactly what's happened for me. So, let me know your thoughts on this video, everybody! Like, subscribe, do all that good stuff! Thank you so much for watching! And see you all tomorrow! Bye, guys!
