WANTING, FEARING, LETTING GO Living The Reality Transurfing Concepts Vadim Zeland Renée Garcia

14 May 2020 · 3 min

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In this monologue the speaker explores three inter‑related mental patterns—wanting, fearing, and the inability to let go—and explains how they distort our perception of reality. By treating intention as a demanding request, we create a “mirror” that reflects our own harsh expectations back onto the world, leading to frustration and unfulfilled outcomes. The speaker contrasts this with a more fluid approach: making a simple order (a clear intention) and then allowing the world to fulfill it without imposing additional demands, fears, or doubts. The world, described as a mirror, mirrors our internal state; by releasing our grip and adopting a calm, accepting attitude, we can transform a hostile or inconvenient reality into a comfortable, joyful one. The talk emphasizes the subtle, fleeting feeling of letting go and encourages listeners to consciously choose to allow rather than demand, positioning this as a key practice in Reality Transurfing.

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Wanting, fearing, letting go. People usually think more or less along the lines of, "I want to, but I'm afraid it won't work." Carrying the self-imposed responsibility of success or failure is a heavy load to bear. And causes people to place harsh conditions for themselves and the world around them. They make excessive demands of themselves and have high expectations of life. As a result, the mirror is distorted threefold: I want, I fear, I can't let go. If you think that intention means firmly demanding what you think the world owes you, the result you want to see will elude you. If you request that the world give you what you want, you will still end up with nothing. It is important to understand that all you have to do is make an order and allow the world to carry it out for you. You just will not permit the the world to do so because of your demands, requests, fears, and doubts. In response, the world also demands, requests, fears, and doubts, perfectly reflecting your condition, for the world is just a mirror. You have to get a sense of this feeling. Let the world go. Allow it to be a comfortable place for you to be right now. It is a subtle, fleeting feeling that passes quickly, but it must be caught hold of. Imagine for a second something incredible. Imagine the hostile, problematic, difficult, and inconvenient world has become joyful, and comfortable. You can allow the world to be so. Whether you do so or not is up to you.