What To Do When Frailing Doesn’t Work Reality Transurfing

So, can you lower Importance levels entirely? Or the other thing you can do is take action. Hello, Transurfer and the Transurfing curious! My name is Renee Garcia and this is Transurfing TV! And today, I'm going to be talking about Frailing. It is a Frailing video. It's a Frailing kinda day! And what happens when Frailing doesn't work? We kind of pitch it like it's this magical cure-all, you can resolve anything with Frailing! Any interpersonal challenge can be resolved with Frailing. But the fact of the matter is— If the other person's Inner Intention is so strong and so much against what your intention is, Frailing ain't gonna make a hill of beans in solving the matter. I'm going to give you some other solutions of different things that you can do to change a dynamic, or escape from one. Because sometimes that's actually what it takes, right? Before I get started, remember to like my video and comment below "My world is taking care of me" to enter my daily giveaway for my reprogramming stickers. Reality 2.0 on Teachable. What? Down below, check it out! Join us on Facebook, the 'International Transurfing Institute' Facebook group. It's ranking number 1 on Google right now, or on the number 1 page. Which is pretty big! I've never seen a Facebook group rank on the first page of something, but we're getting a lot of people in, and it's really amazing. The community is growing like gangbusters, y'all! And @reality_transurfing, Instagram. Check me out! So, when Frailing doesn't work. I know that there's a lot of ambiguity around Frailing, what it is, how we do it. What it does. People typically— Frailing is really an extension of Outer Intention. And the same sort of rule applies, that you can't teach someone Outer Intention, right? You can't teach someone Frailing. These are really things that have to be experienced and felt in order for you to understand like, "Oh, I get it! That's what Outer Intention is!" "Oh, I get it! That's what Frailing is!" —because when you are receiving something via Outer Intention, or receiving something via Frailing, you have to be really resonating at a specific frequency and understand how that exactly transpired, right? So, it's almost in getting yourself into this, like, kinda Transurfing mode. And then experiencing it, that's where you really learn what it is. And then you can look at, "Okay, what thoughts and actions did I have that led up to me benefiting via Outer Intention or Frailing?" So, remember, Inner Intention is us using our will and our ego, and us trying to like force something to happen, forcing a square peg through a round hole. "I really, really want this thing, right?" It could be— Maybe you want a new job or a relationship, and you're just like hitting it so hard. You're really trying to force that thing, right? And then you're not getting the results you want, because inner intention is energetically inefficient and ineffective. And it's really challenging to hang on to inner intention gains. And the reason for this is because if something is truly intended for you, right? If something's truly intended for you, a job, a profession, a person, an experience, if something is truly, truly intended for you, you are not going to have to use Inner Intention to make that thing happen, right? Hammering some dude to stay in a relationship with you and he wants out, but you're so into it and you want it and you don't wanna let go if he could just see things your way, right? This is using Inner Intention to try to keep a relationship going. This is a very clear sign that maybe that— if you're doing something like this, that person isn't for you, right? Because anything that's intended for us should be really, really easy, super easy, very little Inner Intention. And if there is little tweaks that need to occur, you let those tweaks happen via Outer Intention, or you use Frailing, right? And then, if you can achieve an even better result with allowing Outer Intention to take care of it, or Frailing helping lubricate the situation, then it really is intended for you. But Inner Intention is a clear sign that it's not intended for you. Okay. So, what happens when two people are coming to a relationship with Inner Intention? So, you have one person bringing their Inner Intention, and then you have the other person bringing their Inner Intention. And let's say these two different sets of Inner Intentions are not— complementary, right? They're against each other. So, Vadim gives the example in the book of a woman that wants to get married, and the dude doesn't wanna get married to her, right? So, you have her coming to the relationship, "I wanna get married! I want stability! I want a ring on my finger! I want kids!" And then the guy's like, "I want my freedom! I don't want kids! I don't want the same things as you!" So, then, they both— now, the conflict is initiated by her bringing her Inner Intention and hammering the other dude, where then the dude is put in a position where he has to say, "No, I don't want any of that stuff!" Right? So, then they start to hit. And in this collision of Inner Intentions— is the conflict. And this is usually where things blow up. So, Vadim says in the book, her way that she could've frailed the guy in this specific scenario is if he's all about freedom and he likes to enjoy his whatever, his homeboy time and going fishing, whatever, that she allows him to have all those things, she allows him his Inner Intention, And in allowing him his Inner Intention, he just becomes naturally more wanting to please her, so then he would possibly wanna marry her. So, what happens if this doesn't work? What happens if, okay, the woman wanting the marriage doesn't— she stops bringing that to the thing, right? And she allows the other guy his Inner Intention, but then she still is not getting what she wants, then what do you do? So, I hope I gave a good breakdown of what Frailing is. Frailing is you giving the other person what it is— you giving the other person their Inner Intention, and giving up what you want in order for you to receive what it is you want, because you're satisfying that other person's Inner Intention. And then when that doesn't work, this is what I suggest. So, number 1, acceptance! Just accept it! Dude doesn't wanna get married! People don't wanna give you the job! Whatever! Just accept that that's the reality, right? When you are living in a reality that doesn't match up with the reality that is the status quo, this is on you! So, if those conditions are absolutely the way that they are, no amount of Inner Intention or Frailing in the moment— it might not be enough, right? So, in that case, it's really time to ask yourself, "Can I just accept this the way that it is and be happy?" Right? "Can I just accept this the way that it is and be happy?" You could lower your levels of importance further, drop Importance on the thing, right? So, a lot of times when people are doing this Inner Intention collision and having conflict, conflict, this isn't only Inner Intention, this is beaucoup amounts of Importance. These are really taking all your Importance levels and channeling them at another person. So, can you lower your levels of Importance and create an environment where the problem ceases to exist? You don't even have to talk about it, because it's not a problem. So, can you lower Importance levels entirely? Or the other thing you can do is take action. So, this is where it gets a little bit like, you know, rubber meets the road. You can accept it, you can lower levels of Importance entirely, or you can take action and do something else. So, in the scenario that Vadim gave in the book with the woman and the guy, Her action would be, "Hey, you're not giving me what I want. See you later!" Right? Taking action rather than just continuing to sit in a situation where she felt she wasn't getting what she wanted. Now, this could be applied to anything, right? This could be professionally, let's say— You are looking to get a raise, or you're looking to get promoted, and you try to frail, frail, frail, frail, frail your boss, and it's still not working, he doesn't believe in your promotion. Accept it, lower levels of Importance entirely, or take action! Quit your job, right? Go and find that level, whatever you wanted to do, level of your performance. Professional, being whatever you wanted to be, go find that elsewhere! Because at that point, you're just sort of trying to put a square peg into a round hole. Transurfing undesirable conditions, or Transurfing an undesirable condition is energetically ineffective and ineffective long-term. This is true. I have learned this firsthand, and it absolutely is true. So, this gets me back to this idea, things that are intended for you are easily Transurfed and frailed, right? You don't have to force something. You don't have to try to Transurf something every single day to get it up to it being okay, to get it up to a standard. That's good for you, you shouldn't have to do that every day if it's intended for you. If it's intended for you, it's gonna be easy. If it's intended for you, Outer Intention's gonna take care of it. If it's intended for you, a little bit of Frailing— it's like sprinkling a little bit of— it's like that guy that does the salt thing. It's like doing the salt thing on your situation. It's just a little extra. Right? You shouldn't have to do a major overhaul of your mind and get into this systematic thing that you gotta Transurf the hell out of something just so you can make it tolerable, right? So, Transurfing an undesirable condition is energetically ineffective long-term. Things that are intended for you are easily Transurfed, or frail. So, this is gonna be my last little bit of advice. And I've done this. I've done this a few times in my life. And this is why Vadim Zeland says in this book to never burn bridges, right? To never burn bridges. This is why I have so many different professional things that I'm doing for money. Now, some of them I'm very active in, some of them I'm not so active in. At times, I was super active in those certain things that are kinda turned down right now. And the ones I'm doing now, I wasn't so active in. So, the reason that this works for me is that conditions and circumstances can change when you decide to go to another Lifeline and live that Lifeline, and then maybe later come back and take a peek at that old thing. Right? This could be anything! This could be, again, professional stuff, relationship stuff, family stuff, ideas that you've had, whatever! If they're not working for you now, and Outer Intention is not helping you right now, and frailing isn't getting you the results that you want, change tracks and come back and see later if circumstances have shifted! I actually know a woman that dated a man when she was very, very young. They had a nasty, nasty breakup. They were totally in love, but they had a nasty breakup. She was heartbroken for a long time. And then later in life, much later, in her 60s, they ended up getting married. So, change tracks and come back later and see if the conditions have changed, see if there's been some movement, see if there's been some resolution with whatever the conflict is. Or challenge was at that time. And maybe that thing just isn't for you right in that moment of time on your current Lifetrack. Maybe some things need to happen, and then later on, that's when you're supposed to have success with the thing. And now the lady and the dude are married, they're totally happy! Right? Completely different! It's like forward to the past, right? Forward to the past, really, truly forward to the past! So, let me know what you think of this video, everyone! Are you using Frailing and not seeing the results that you want? Do you think some of this stuff may help you out a little bit more? Do you need to practice Frailing, start trying to Frail others a little bit more, giving them their Inner Intention so you can get what it is that you want out of the scenario? So, let me know your thoughts on this one, everyone! Like, subscribe, comment. And thank you! Thank you so much for watching my video. Bye, guys!