Renee Garcia explains why choosing any goal beats choosing nothing, drawing on Reality Transurfing philosophy. She argues happiness lives in pursuing a goal, not reaching it, and that time passes either way, so spend it on something your heart wants. Choosing nothing is the worst option because it closes doors that open the moment you set an intention.
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Hello, Transurfer! And welcome to Transurfing TV! My name is Renee Garcia, and this is my video on choosing something rather than choosing nothing, or something versus nothing! I know this is a little ambiguous, like "What the hell is she talking about?" But before I get started, remember to like this video and comment in the comment section below "I love Reality Transurfing!" to enter my daily giveaway to possibly win a nice stack of these sent directly to you via moi! I'm sending them myself, and they are littered across the world now! And I am so happy for that, because I really do feel like these are changing people's lives! A simple sticker! Isn't that something? So, something versus nothing! So, I heard Tony Robbins the other day on his documentary say— "Make sure that you choose something, otherwise you will be handed nothing!" And this really got me to thinking about the people that have messaged me over the years that have consistently chosen nothing because they felt that choosing something was— challenging or took too much time or took too much effort or possibly wasn't attainable, or maybe they viewed the thing wasn't for them, it's for something else or whatever. And the cool thing that this amazing modality offers us, Reality Transurfing, is the idea that happiness is actually found on the way to the goal. It's not found in the achievement of the goal itself. And this is a very fascinating idea because this is a mode of living, a happy mode of living that virtually anybody has access to. So if you think that something is not for you, start living as though it is. Start choosing that thing because you can act— if that thing is something that your heart or your soul feels ignited over, it doesn't really matter if you never actually achieve the goal, because the happiness is going to be found on the way. So in choosing anything that your soul or your heart says yes to, you're world or your ideas about your abilities to obtain or achieve that thing really don't have a role in this whatsoever. And I know that seems a little bit far-fetched. It's like, well, wait a second, am I just supposed to actively go towards this thing for the rest of my life? Well, you know, this is an interesting, uh, this is an interesting conversation. I really believe that as we, start down that path, it doesn't take very long until we see practical confirmation from our external environment, from our reality, that that thing actually is achievable. I mean, even if you're like in your mid-forties right now and you want to become a doctor, you could start down that road and really just feel happiness in your ability to go after something that you didn't believe was obtainable for you. So, So, another thing that people have asked me, or people have stated to me, and I found this really, really interesting, is the concept of time in regards to choosing something versus choosing nothing, right? So, I had somebody message me about a week or so ago, and this person said, "You know, I bought the Reality Transurfing book, and I really thought—" that I would enjoy this, and I've been watching your videos, and I wanna learn more about Transurfing, but the book's just so big and I can't seem to get into it, and I don't really— Whoa! The whole thing's falling apart here! I can't really seem to get up enough ability to go through this, and it just seems like it's going to take too much time. And my— My immediate thought was, "What are you gonna spend the time doing anyway?" Right? "Are you gonna then spend the time watching Netflix, or spend the time on Facebook, or spend the time on Instagram?" So, the time is already going to be spent, just like the example of somebody in their mid-40s going back to school to become a doctor. If you say to yourself right now, "God, that's gonna take too long! I'd have to go back and get my whatever to then get my whatever, then to go to med school. I can't see myself becoming a doctor or going into my internship for another 10 years!" Well, it's like, "Okay, well, that 10 years is going to be spent doing something else anyway, so why not spend it doing what it is your heart or your soul is calling you to do?" Do you get my point? The time, it's not like you choosing to not— go after the thing means that you're going to stop time and that time is simply not going to be spent. That time is spent anyway. So the person that said that over this book, I can't find the time, I don't want to take the time. It's like, okay, well the time is going to go by. So at the end of the time, if you perceive this book as being too big, too much time, and then one month from now you could have it finished, but at the end of the month you don't have the book finished, then what are you doing? Right? So this is where this idea of choosing something other versus choosing nothing really comes into my Transurfing practice. Now I do the same thing, right? Oh, making a video a day, making a video day consistently, it's going to take so much time. Okay, well, what am I going to be doing with that time? Anyway, the other thing is, before I end this video, oftentimes when we set an intention to go after something, it is on that path towards that thing that we discover new doors, new opportunities, new pathways that can lead us to something that really is intended for us. This is you opening yourself up to the alternative space and connecting with different variations of reality that possibly hold more of what it is you intend to have. But if you choose nothing, you simply will not access that stuff. So, I know I've used this quote a lot in the past, I love it, it is such an amazing quote to me. "The best thing to do is to choose the best thing." The second best thing to do is to choose the worst thing. And the worst thing that you could choose is to do nothing. Or sorry, the worst decision that you could make is to do nothing. I know I just totally botched that, but you get my point, right? The best thing you could do is to choose the best thing. The second best thing is to choose the wrong thing. And then the third, the worst thing that you could do is to choose Nothing. So choosing nothing is absolute stagnation. It's you not connecting to the alternatives flow or the alternative space. It's you staying stuck on a stale track in your existing version of reality that maybe doesn't, um, maybe doesn't satisfy you. So choose something more for yourself today with the intent that you are going spend your time actually being productive and going towards something that your heart or your soul feels strongly for. And if that thing ultimately is not intended for you, allow it to help you to connect with the path or with the goal of the thing that is intended for you. So choosing something is always better than choosing nothing. So, are you choosing something new for yourself today? Are you continuing to choose nothing? Are you lazy? Do you not wanna take a step outside of your comfort zone in a direction of the unknown, unlocking the alternative space for you where you can connect with more of what it is you intend to have? So, let me know your thoughts! And remember to like this video and comment below "I love Reality Transurfing!" to possibly connect with a variation of reality where you split a stack of fates! Thanks so much for watching my video, everyone! Bye!
