How to Negotiate

20 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this instructional segment, seasoned lawyer Jerry Taylor shares the core principles that underpin successful negotiations, drawing on his experience handling over $250 million in settlements. He emphasizes that effective negotiation starts with exhaustive preparation—understanding both your own and the opponent’s positions, strengths, and weaknesses—to build confidence and enable rapid decision‑making. He then stresses the importance of clear, articulate communication combined with active listening, ensuring both sides’ positions are fully expressed. While advocating for standing firm when you have a strong case, he also highlights the necessity of strategic compromise where possible, balancing assertiveness with flexibility to reach mutually beneficial outcomes.

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As a lawyer who's negotiated well over $250 million in settlements during my career, these are some points you need to think about in your next negotiation. Most importantly, you cannot effectively negotiate an issue without being totally prepared. When I say well prepared, that means not only knowing your position backwards and forwards, that also includes knowing the opposition's position backwards and forwards. You have to totally be familiar with your strengths and weaknesses as well as their strengths and weaknesses. This will give you a lot of confidence and allow you to make decisions much more quickly. Next, communicate, communicate, communicate. You have to be able to state your position effectively. And this includes not only being able to state your position very clearly and very articulately, but also being able to listen to the other side's position. If you have a very strong case, state it, stand your ground, but you also have to be able to compromise where you can. And next, be