A realization that will change your sex life forever

Name: A realization that will change your sex life forever
Uploaded: 2024-02-25T11:00:02+00:00
Duration: 1 min 16 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: Vanessa Marin shares a personal realization about taking an active role in your own sexual pleasure. She argues that waiting passively for satisfaction…

25 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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Vanessa Marin shares a personal realization about taking an active role in your own sexual pleasure. She argues that waiting passively for satisfaction won't work, and that you have to show up for yourself in the bedroom.

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Story time about a realization I had.
That changed.
My sex life forever.
When I first started.
Having intercourse, it.
Involved a.
Lot of waiting around, like.
Waiting for.
My partner or for the intercourse itself.
To just deliver.
Me this magical orgasm.
Because that's all I'd ever seen on TV and in the movies, right? Like, sex just seems so effortless, so natural, so easy.
Except that wasn't happening. And I started feeling really scared and frustrated and freaked out, like my male partner was having orgasms. It seemed effortless and easy and straightforward. Root for him.
So what was wrong with me?
Why wasn't it happening for me?
But then I had.
The realization that changed everything.
I realized that orgasm.
Actually wasn't effortless for my male partner.
He was actively participating.
In creating his own orgasm.
He was getting into the positions that he liked, moving at the angles that.
He liked, at.
The pace and the.
Depth that he liked.
He was making.
His own orgasm happen.
And I started thinking.
To myself, what.
Would sex feel, feel.
Like if I went after my own pleasure in that same unapologetic way?
So I decided to try it out.
And lo and behold, that is when I started having orgasms with a partner.
For the very first time.
Now I'm a sex therapist, and I want the same thing for you.
Stop waiting.
Around, letting sex be done.
To you, and.
Start having sex like a guy does.