
A woman married 24 years never told her husband she doesn't orgasm during sex. When she finally did, he blamed her for waiting so long. Vanessa Marin takes the question: who's wrong here?
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Been married for 24 years. I never orgasm during intimacy. I have never said anything to my husband because I didn't want him to feel bad or inadequate. Our sex life hasn't been great because I don't desire sex because I don't enjoy it. I finally got up the courage to tell him and he blamed me for not telling him sooner. Said I am to blame for many years of bad sex because I never spoke up. The crazy thing is, I don't even fake orgasm. He just doesn't seem to notice that I don't climax. Am I the asshole? Oh boy. Okay, I have some very strong feelings on this one. I do too. But let's have you answer first. Who is the asshole in this scenario? I'm gonna have to say.
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