Are you an asshole if you don’t want to make a holiday wish list?

Name: Are you an asshole if you don’t want to make a holiday wish list?
Uploaded: 2023-12-28T11:15:00+00:00
Duration: 29 s
Channel: Vanessa Marin
Description: A short conversational transcript of a YouTube video (hosts Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin) discussing whether it’s wrong to not want to make…

28 Dec 2023 · 0 min

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A short conversational transcript of a YouTube video (hosts Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin) discussing whether it’s wrong to not want to make holiday/wish lists. They talk about feeling stressed by making lists, preferring surprises, and family dynamics where asking for exact items reduces the perceived meaningfulness of gifts.

Am I the asshole for not wanting.
To send a wish list?
So a lot of people in, like, different ways were like, I don't.
Like making lists. Like, it doesn't feel fun to me.
To receive, like, the exact things that I've asked for. Like, we've had this issue come up.
In my own family.
People, like, you know, it's stressful to.
Have to, like, make a list, and then it doesn't feel fun.
Like, I'd rather.
People surprise me with gifts or it feels more meaningful or.
More special if I haven't, like, specifically asked for that.
Exact thing.
So what's.
Your hot take on that?
Like, are you.
The if you don't want to send a gift list.