Vanessa Marin breaks down three foreplay mistakes couples make: rushing through it, treating it as only sexual activity instead of everyday touch and flirting, and not knowing enough techniques. Only 10-15% of women orgasm from intercourse alone, while 83% want more foreplay time.
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You're doing foreplay totally wrong. There are 3 crucial mistakes that most people make. Number 1, you're not doing enough of it.
2, you think it's purely sex.
And 3, you don't know all the techniques. So let's break down each of those 3.
So mistake number 1, you're not doing enough of it.
The problem here is in the word sex. It makes it sound like these are the things that you do before you move on to the main event. But for most women, foreplay is the main event. Only 10 to 15% of women can orgasm from Plus, we polled our community and 83% of people said they want to spend more time on fuck.
And number 2, you think it's purely sex.
Fuck isn't just fucking and blowing. It's also flirting, teasing, touching, those little moments of connection all throughout the day. In fact, we like to say that fuck for the next time starts the second you stop having sex.
And number 3, you don't know all the techniques.
Look, we're not saying this one to shame you. We didn't know all the techniques either. I mean, whoever taught us, right? But if you don't take the time to master the art of fuck, you are leaving a lot of pleasure on the table.